#no need to be rude

[ksbbb]

PSA

It’s important to remember that you can exit out of a story if you don’t like it and reading tags is a good way to find out if a story is for you.

However, if that doesn’t happen and someone has left a rude comment, I’d be happy to respond on the writer’s behalf.

[gauntletgirlie]

You may be new to tumblr, but I have to let you know that this isn't twitter or reddit. On tumblr it's EXTREMELY disrespectful of you to just upload someone's art without credit or permission. If you're going to claim the original was from "pinterest", find someone else's art, get their permission and credit them instead. The art you just stole and attributed to "pinterest" belongs to Gratuacuunart, and the piece can be found here. https://www.tumblr.com/gratuacuunart/659342290022760449/while-morgoth-still-stood-sauron-did-not-seek?source=share I suggest you either remove the post or edit it, because all artists whose work is reposted without credit or permission have the right to report you for copyright violation and tumblr WILL side with them and take the offending post down if the artists choose to do so.

Wooo. Right. First of all, I am indeed fairly new to Tumblr. Second, I don’t have Twitter or Reddit.

Third, you can clearly see from the rest of the post and also all my other posts that I credit artists. I also clearly state I am not an artist, so people know it’s not mine. I am not in the business of stealing. I found the image through Google and it sent me to Pinterest. It was an honest mistake.

You could have asked this way more nicely than you did. You were quite frankly hostile and condescending and I don’t appreciate that.

Thank you for sharing the actual artist, I’ve now credited them on my post.

I support art and artists. You can clearly see this from my blog. I made one mistake to which you could’ve commented on the actual post “Hey, FYI that first artwork isn’t from Pinterest it’s from Gratuacuunart, please may you properly credit?”.

If you have an issue with my posts in future please be more respectful or have the bravery to not hide behind anonymity.

[intheplacetobe]

please stop thinking you're relevant in any way literally WHO are you

I'm a swingin', spacin', BACHELOR MAAAAN.

Jk, jk.

I'm just a man (Epic reference im so sorry)

Anyway, I could care less what you think, since I AM confident in myself.

I'm relevant on Pinterest, so here ya go

[beetlehoven]

if u dont like hairless animals i cannot support you . hypocrite . you're mostly hairless and you are calling this beautiful creature a foreskin animal ??? die . die in a hole you're the foreskin animal .

[twisting-echo]

I was blocked by Lily Orchard for calling her rude and standing up for myself

I didn't even know who Lily Orchard was until 8 p.m. yesterday. It was my sister and a friend who told me that she is kind of famous for being toxic. and then we looked through the Tumblr hashtag and found out more less-than-ideal things about her.

I was casually looking for some Belle and Sulley Disney Mirrorverse content, and I saw a post about someone asking how long before someone starts to ship Belle and Sulley. So I decided to playfully reblog the post, and boy do I wish that I hadn't.

I just dropped two of my dumb ship edits in the reblog, and I wrote "Belley is my OTP!!!" with a triumph emoji indicating my derpy pride in it.

She reblogged me and said, "Congratulations, that is the worst ship name EVER. Bluebelle was RIGHT THERE."

She didn't have to go out of her way to reblog what I reblogged just to insult me, bully me, talk down to me, and treat me like I'm stupid over a ship name. She didn't have to make me feel stupid, but she did anyway.

So, I did something that I normally don't do, which is stick up for myself. and it earned me a block. She didn't apologize for being so rude; she didn't even want to acknowledge what I had said, so she blocked me like I was nothing.

If someone told me that they felt that I was being rude to them, I would immediately apologize because I actually care about how I treat and talk to people. And if someone pointed out that they already did something that I accused them of not doing, I would act like an adult and politely eat my words.

I'm so sorry about this vent, you guys. Maybe I'm a little too overly sensitive and let things bother me. 

Here is the post. 👇

[certificated-angst-enjoyer]

Once ago on Pinterest I was insulted and mocked by native English users for writing a grammarly incorrect sentence. I don't understand why some people so ignorant and judging to non English speakers when they do a hundreds of mistake in just a word in another languags and we don't even mind it. Okay bro come and say just a single word in Turkish lmao

[dvredevil-s-initivls]

damn i thought abt taking a cod quiz ONCE and look who it is -

[truetogaia]

ppl who suddenly feel so high and mighty, enough to be rude a holes to everyone, when their content starts getting popular icks me out so bad.

[queen-alos]

It’s always funny to play against a group of sore losers who are streaming.

“You’re camping and tunneling, you’re a terrible Legion, you don’t know how to play” and not only does the vod show otherwise, I ended with an easy 4 gen and a 4k.

[sparksflys]

What the hell are you complaining about? I'm not going to see Taylor in the only shows she does in the only city in my country, first time she comes here. Be thankful.

Ok, isn't it what I literally just said 😅😅😅 and I'm sorry for you I guess

[worstqueerbaittournament]

I’ve said it before and I will say it again. Please don’t send your submissions mutltiple times. I will get to you! Be patient, I’m begging

[iysics]

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[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Woah. No need to be rude my friend. And these indeed can be neurodivergent traits.

It sounds like you’re having a bad day. Here’s some pictures of my cat to help brighten your mood.

I have always listened to songs on loop…

Life in an Autism World

[nednickerson]

some guy just yelled at me for not getting out of the way because people wanted off the train when a) the doors weren't open yet and b) i was also getting off which he would have known if he had waited for the doors to even start opening

[twisting-echo]

Hey, sorry that this is out of no where but I was just kinda scrolling through the puss in boots tag on Tumblr and I saw someone being rude to you on ao3 and I just wanna say I'm sorry that happened to you and I hope you're able to at least hide the thread off your wonderful fic! Have a good day friend - 💎

 

Awww, you're so sweet! Thank you so much! Just going out of your way to say all those nice things to me makes me feel a lot better. You actually just really made my day. Thank you for thinking my fiction was wonderful. 😭😭😭

I kind of wish you weren't anonymous so I could thank you properly. I now understand Prince Charming's feelings as he wondered who the amazing owner of the glass slipper was.

I'm really touched 🥲❤️‍🩹🫂

Who are you my diamond?! 💎

[bean-spring]

Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.

Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.

You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.

"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.

"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.

I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.

Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.

Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.