#nightmare situation of anxious attachment style meets avoidant attachment style lol
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I had a friend in high school that I think was in a one-sided dependent relationship with me and sometimes I lie awake at night wondering if they were in love with me or not
#this is what it means to be gay right?#they were very unhealthy and we don’t talk anymore#luckily they found some new friends because i didn’t want to distance myself from them for a while because i was like. all they had#nightmare situation of anxious attachment style meets avoidant attachment style lol#I think that if i wasn’t as extremely distant and avoidant as i was/am we would have gone full codependency#there’s an alternate universe where that happened I know it in my bones#anyway I wish I could ask them but that would be literally insane#(rolls up into dms of guy i haven’t talked to in over a year) yo were you like. in love with me?#crazy thing to say#I do hate not knowing though#mine#ranting?#sorry about that#me when I treat tumblr tags as my own personal journal#(always)
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