#need i mention the french language downright sucks for nonbinary people as well

[bloggingboutburgers]

So uuuuh... With everything happening in the US right now, are you still planning to go? Or change of plan and your fiancée joins you in France for now ? Asking because I'm genuinely worried about your safety...

Thanks for the concern! But my plans aren't changing. It took us one year to go through the fiance visa process and it's not the kind of thing where we can just go and change plans entirely. I have specific steps I have to go through for us to be legally allowed to be married and stay together, which do include moving to the US within a certain amount of time. So I'm sticking to it. It's been too hard and we've come too close for me to just throw it all down the drain.

Besides... Part of the things that may go to shit in the near future, that no one is talking about because there's so much more to talk about, but that are etched into my soul, is more travel bans. Trump's the one who put up the travel ban from France to the US years ago. If anything I'm anxious to go BEFORE another travel ban happens.

Also... My fiance doesn't speak French, not enough to properly get by in France in my opinion anyway, and not that anyone's aware on a global level, but I'm not 100% certain that the future of France is looking very bright either. So there's that too.