#nblnb longing

[mlmcore]

I want to lie down on my bed and have a sleepy boy flop down on me, burying their face in my chest as I ask them softly, "Do you want affection, love?" Having them nod as I smile softly, gently lifting their face and littering it with soft kisses. Kissing every one of my favorite features and looking down at them as they smile tiredly at me. "You should sleep now, baby." I kiss their forehead and let them rest their head on my chest again as I hum softly. Rubbing their back in soothing circles while I watch them sleep.

[loverboyfemboy]

i am going feral (i wanna be cuddled and listen to music together)

[achillean-yearning]

the undying want to nuzzle into the crook of the neck of a guy, press my nose against them, be enveloped in their comforting smell, have them play with my hair or maybe just play some game while we talk, or don’t talk but definitely just enjoy each others presence and that we’re finally able to hold each other…

this post/account is from a gay guy about another guy.

[girlofthemoon33]

I enjoy neurodivergent romance. I enjoy being myself with someone who loves me. I enjoy knowing and catering to what makes my partner happy and loved. I enjoy shared hyperfixations that we drag each other into. I enjoy rambling about my favourite things to them. I enjoy them rambling to me about what they enjoy. I enjoy all the ways we show love that aren't standard neurotypical things, but they're normal to us. Neurodivergent romance is so amazing

[loverssuggestions]

Bites you (affectionate)

[sillyfeelings]

Sometimes you just listen to their voice message over and over again, because you love their voice and could never get enough

[femmepire-butchbiter]

To any femme that needs to hear it: You're not any less of a femme for crashing out. In fact, go ape shit right now. I support you <3.

[mlmcore]

In the mood to bake bread with someone while occasionally stealing kisses from each other 😌❤️

[thuesdaynightdykelife]

This is your reminder to schedule a haircut! <3

It's been long overdue!

[anonymocha]

Dear Laika

[girlofthemoon33]

There's not enough time in this world to truly show them how much i love them. Not enough words to describe how wonderful they are. Not enough ways I can spend time with them and show them care. But they are enough. They'll always be enough for me.

[perfectlyripeclementine]

there’s something so sacred about the relationship queer masc folks have to pleasure. i’m thinking folks on that spectrum between masc dyke/transmasc. in my experience because folks have such a nuanced relationship with their own bodies & varying levels of comfort with being touched, there is SO much emphasis on sharing pleasure, on mirroring the pleasure that they give.

it’s this incredible spin on the hetero thing of taking pleasure FROM someone, where pleasure is not a zero-sum game; their pleasure is the same as my pleasure, things that don’t feel good to me don’t feel good to them. it’s like when you put two mirrors in front of one another and they are refracted into infinity: turning me on turns you on, seeing you turned on turns me on, and it just escalates until we’re both shaking and satisfied and exhausted.

i see this so much in how ppl relate to their strap, or how they react when i’m riding and grinding on them - the times i’ve made someone come without touching them or even taken off their clothes, because seeing me and feeling my weight is enough to evoke the physical feeling of being inside me. i swear i saw God the first time i felt someone come inside me through the strap. these experiences have brought me so much closer to my own body and the pleasure i can not only experience but share. it’s so holy, and in the times when someone has wanted me to touch and pleasure them it felt so intimate and precious to be given that trust. no cis man could’ve helped me unlock this.

AND i see all of this mirrored too in the protector/carer dynamic - like i love the feeling of strong arms around me, love the emotion of someone wanting me to be theirs and wanting to keep me safe. and i love the squishy insides, love to be a source of sweetness and healing and regeneration, love to hold someone in my bare palms and be able to say this is for you, this care and pleasure i give you is yours to keep. i love how those things are seen and received rather than taken for granted the way that cis men do.

anyways when i hear people say femme/masc dynamics recreate straightness, or that thing of “well why don’t you just date a REAL man then?” i want to say that’s EXACTLY the point. queer masculinity gives me everything i cherish about men without the violence, the ownership that men are raised & trained for.

[loverssuggestions]

The way their voice is so soft and sweet like honey I want to hear it everyday and fall asleep to their saccharine words

[sillyfeelings]

I love the idea of having Polaroids of each other and of us together doing cute shit like kissing and cuddling and on dates, I want to one day have a scrapbook full that we can look back on and giggle about, have it sit on our coffee table, I want to have pictures of him to stash around my home when the days are hard and I’m missing their face terribly, one on the wall next to the pictures of my friends and pets, one in my wallet, one tucked into the back of my phonecase, one lodged in my bathroom mirror, hidden in my desk drawer, little its spread throughout the nooks and crannies

[petrichor-moss-and-lightning]

*looks at you with my lesbian eyes*

[sweet-key]

UGH . experiencing desire & yearning.