#mybiggestmistake

[adventures-across]

I wanted to share with you the biggest mistake I’ve made in my life. . When I was 17, I was so conflicted. My heart was telling me to be an artist, a writer, a musician, an astronomer, an explorer, and the people I trusted the most were telling me to be an engineer, a businesswoman, someone with a salary. With two separate paths to take, I broke my heart and went to college. . After my first year, I knew it was bad for me. The structure, the box, it almost killed me. But I still went on, for four years. So many people TELLING me how to be, drilling shit into my head. . Now I’m $27,000 in debt and living such a minimalist lifestyle, (though I’m having some fun with that 😉). Now, if I would have followed my heart, maybe I’d be in a different place now!! I haven’t used that college degree. Ever. After school I decided to follow my heart instead of society. I’m grateful for my life and where it’s taken me. It dawned upon me that I must stay where I am to pay off this debt. My intention right now is to do that, in the ways I desire-being that artist, musician, writer, astronomer, explorer, heart follower. I know this is my heart path and for the sake of my sanity, I believe in myself full fledged. So, I will be staying in Sedona, even if it means living in a tent to pay off my debt. . If you’re a young person conflicted on this path, people telling you to go to college even if it doesn’t feel right to you - FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!! My voice is here to tell you that, you don’t need to make money and fit into society. You are whole as you are, you have everything you need inside you to follow your dreams. BE who you came here to be, you’re the unique piece of the world’s puzzle, and we NEED YOU!!!! Don’t make my mistake, you don’t need that salary, you need your sanity and to fulfill your heart’s wishes!! . #college #collegedebt #followyourheart #simplethings #homeiswheretheheartis #cosmicconsciousness #sunrise #explorer #musician #artist #writer #travelwriter #beyourself #mybiggestmistake #bethelight #youareenough #youarewhole #sedona #arizona #travel #adventuresacross #followyourpath (at Angel Valley Sedona) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpKLwGOn5lO/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1s2epsi3u1ds6

[piecesofmaxine]

#facts💯 #mybiggestmistake

[lisabmagdalena]

YOU ARE BEING TRAINED! THE TRICK USED TO KEEP YOU A SLAVEGIRL.

Psychology labs throughout the world agree that the best way to train an animal is “intermittent rewarding”. This powerful strategy produces dependency in ways that other people look on and cannot understand. It keeps the animal insecure, constantly craving reward and desperate to please. It encourages loyalty even to its abuser. It is known to work exactly the same with humans.

Here’s how it works : “Sit!” (Gives Treat) Praises: “Good dogl!” Sit! (No Treat) . Praises: Good dog! “Sit!” (No Treat) Silence. Repeat. Mix up intermittently.

It’s designed to send the animal into confusion and a mental frenzy of what did I do wrong? How can I get the treat and the praise again?

See how it works. Now, look at your situation.

In toxic relationships, the Narcissist metes out the rules, rewards or boundaries inconsistently. This is on purpose. You’d think this would make you run but it actually does the opposite. It will fuel your desperation to get the reward once again, keeping you hopelessly locked into the relationship.

The Toxic knows what I’m talking about. They will deliver a ping of validation when they sense you’re about to pull away, just to keep you tied to the relationship usually at your expense. But the good will be fleeting. That’s intermittent rewarding.

In the beginning, you were love bombed and told you were beautiful, witty, enchanting, the “one”. Then, without warning, you can’t do anything right. You think, what happened? What did I do? Why am I not good enough?

No. It’s not you. You’re just caught in the toxic cycle of love bomb, devalue and discard.

To keep you from exiting, the Narcissist will then love bomb you again. You exhale with relief. It won’t last. Doesn’t matter though. After the investment you’ve made in the toxic relationship, you are already trained to ignore the bad stuff. You are programmed, hooked and brainwashed into believing this is love.

The only way to get free, is to adopt a strict no contact policy. The sooner the Narcissist becomes a memory, the better off you’ll be. Get yourself educated on what got you to this point. Self-reflect and become self-aware. Your key to survival is freeing yourself from old Slavegirl patterns and learning to become Queen of you.

COMMENT “QUEEN” below and I’ll send you a personal message to help you do that !!

And today you can get my FREE ‘Wake Up, Queen! Meditation to feel empowered and ready to rule your world.  

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[morningstarmoonchild]

Sometimes the only way to heal is to black out and disappear. #nilissues #mybiggestmistake

[jethmalbarupal-blog]

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[phungthaihy]

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[thenammin]

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[skylerstonestreet-blog]

I think someone won and it's not me @semipreciousweapons #ugsareshameful #mybiggestmistake #badxmaspresents