#my younger and older siblings BOTH treated me like shit for my gender identity so i wound up agender
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"Biz, what would you like for your birthday this year?"
"For nobody to misgender me for a day."
Turned out too much to ask (:
#tw: transphobia#tw: misgendering#literally every person i had to talk to today misgendered me#my mom kept misgendering me over and over again even in trying to correct people#“HER pronouns are they/them” i'm going to eat the fucking sun and shit#every doctor and nurse i spoke to kept calling me she/her#“IT'S FUCKING THEY/THEM I AM NOT A GIRL"#everyone reacts like i'm some special snowflake bedwetter that can't take misgendering#when the reality is that i have never gone a single day in my LIFE where i haven't been misgendered#oh and my doctor's office was too narrow for my wheelchair which was humiliating#and i had to spend 3 hours trying to explain to mom in a way that actually made a difference WHY it matters to not misgender me#and finally it clicked at hour 3 with “YOU'RE DESCRIBING TO STRANGERS WHAT MY FUCKING GENITALS LOOK LIKE AND IT FREAKS ME OUT”#“i hadn't thought about it that way”#oh and my doctor rolled her eyes at seeing a 32 year old in a wheelchair like i was malingering in a $5k chair#and demanded to know why i use it when it wasn't relevant to my visit AT ALL#my younger and older siblings BOTH treated me like shit for my gender identity so i wound up agender#because jesus fucking christ how insecure are you fucking cunts that you can't stand NOT being the only son/daughter to our mom#so i chose to be nothing!!! and they STILL won't fucking just live and let live#everybody's gotta hate biz for fucking something and that includes gender#*biz unsubscribes from gender* “hey >:(”#i hate my life#this was literally the worst birthday in my fucking life#had to starve myself of sleep to get up at 6am to drive 4 hours to a 20 minute appointment#misgendered 100% of the time while i couldn't get my wheelchair into any exam room because the doors were too narrow#questioned for needing a wheelchair. looked at like a child for being trans. clueless mom that wouldn't back me up.#and siblings that hate me because my mom genuinely likes my company more and it's because the two of them are so selfish#they won't bother to treat our mom with basic respect or interest in her as a human being outside of a mother when i do#but THEY can't be the problem. it has to be something MY fault
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#personal#gender negativity whoops#i know i just posted about this but i'm Having Gender Thoughts so i'm just going to lay down for the day i guess#i think there are some middle child feelings in here as well bc both of my siblings are trans/nb and looking to go on t and things and that#isn't a part of my gender experience right now even though i am finally going wait no babe it's okay to be nb you don't have to be the#golden child who is ~just bi and cis so that means you're the least gay and everyone expects you to marry a man and have the grandkids~#which is how they treated me all throughout high school at family functions and made it harder for me to accept my lesbianism#and my nonbinary identity#me who came out to my friends as an agender lesbian in the seventh grade and then saw how my family treated my older sibling for coming out#as genderfluid and how they still treat my younger sib for coming out as transmasc#which shoves me as the one that they already put the ~responsible child~ persona onto very far into a confusing closet#yikes gang at least my siblings are rad as fuck and would accept me if i officially came out#but i'll probably just stop showing up to family functions at some point bc i just don't feel like explaining this shit to any of them#i don't feel like they deserve this information about me based on how they treat my siblings and these identities and i just don't have any#desire to share it with them despite that fact that my siblings have given them that part of their identities#we're just a trio a enby's living our lives feeling disconnected from gender and society love that for us#sorry to yell into my tags again!! love you if you read this nonsense <3
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