#my dad pays for things when he's asked he just won't inquire about finances of his own accord
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mothers. oof.
#she just told my sister that she doesn't wanna ask my dad for anything so they're gonna have to make sacrifices#and it's like. well no my dad is legally obligated to provide for his kids and if he wont do it unfortunately youre gonna have to remind him#it's not like my dad is violent or dangerous in any way they just don't get along as exes tend to do#but i think it's my mum's job to put aside her own feelings of discomfort around my dad#to tell him that my sister needs x y and z#my dad pays for things when he's asked he just won't inquire about finances of his own accord#he needs to be asked#and idk i think saying that my sister needs to sacrifice their needs because my mum doesn't wanna communicate with my dad#is selfish#and yeah sure my dad sucks like he literally doesn't try at all#it would be nice if he just did his job as a parent#but he doesn't. and as the parent who's more present in my sister's life i think my mum should be the one to contact him#idk#i know it's tough and far from ideal#ideally my dad wouldn't need to be asked anything he'd just provide#but he's kind of a piece of shit#so yeah#i don't think my sister should be the one to bear the consequences of my parents' lack of communication#rain.stuff
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