#my current partner started off as my qp because almost every other attempt at

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Sometimes traumatized people express that they have qp attraction/desire a qp relationship because it's difficult to explain to people the reality of our needs and limitations as survivors of abuse/trauma especially if we are at an early/denial phase of our recovery. Telling someone "I would like a relationship that is not a 'serious' relationship" doesn't always cover that and often leaves us vulnerable, so yeah while qp as a term has some bad connotations in terms of the integrated slur+hetace people being freaks some do still have a use for it and it rly confuses me that its considered a term that just straightup shouldn't exist.