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Mutable Beauty ORIGINAL Astro Anecdote 📝🔮:

Huge Emotional Pain Can Transform Pisceans

Pisceans love to love. We are the sign of unconditional love, our love runs deep. When we are introduced to something that we like, we attach to it. We make it our routine, we feel comfortable in it. We imagine our lives with it forever, all the scenarios and challenges, we dream it. We make a decision to settle in and make this our life.

So when this relationship starts falling apart, as sometimes relationships do, we start becoming confused or disillusioned. We become upset that our relationship is not matching the fantasy we imagined. So we begin to try to fix things. We fight to save our relationships. It’s why people often think we’re delusional because we can’t unattach easily from a toxic relationship. We cannot easily unattach from the things we dreamed about together. We would rather fight to defend that dream. We see the good in people first, therefore, we know what our partner could be. So we fight to fix that. We hold on tightly. It’s why we give chance after chance.

Yet, what a Pisces won’t say is that we are also fighting to avoid heartbreak and disappointment. You see when we finally decide to release someone (usually due to massive amounts of resentment from giving chance after chance), next comes the heartbreak. Pisces want to avoid disappointment because it’s akin to a knife stab in the heart for us. Looking at the wreckage of the thing that used to be so beautiful to us, the very thing that gave us hope.

Heartbreak for a water sign is DEVASTATING. Our emotions fuel our livelihood, it is our survival instinct, it fuels our behaviors and thoughts. Water signs feel emotional pain deeply, we are not able to separate our lives from our emotions the way other signs can. We feel everything deeply.

That is why when a Pisces faces heartbreak, it feels like death to us. It is so emotionally painful that you might as well kill us. Heartbreak is death to our hopes, our potential with another, what could’ve been, how we see people, etc. Once we face a heartbreak, there is usually a large transformation on the other side waiting for Pisces. We are different after heartbreak, there is a new person forming at the end.

Now who this new person is, is dependent on the Pisces. Young minded Pisces may choose to become darker, the more hurt they amass, they will choose to inflict onto others. They turn their heart off, and begin lying and emotionally manipulating others with little mercy similar to how our hearts were played with. Please note an evil Pisces is a hurt one. They will need to find the light on the other end of the tunnel in order to heal because this route will always leave the Pisces jaded and bitter. An angel whose wings shriveled during its time on earth.

The other route the Pisces will can choose is wisdom which is the reward for pain. The Pisces will be hardened by its experience but choose to harden the wall around its heart. The native will choose boundaries with strangers. Respect our boundaries or we will swim away. This is a smarter Pisces who understands that not everyone is deserving of its endless love and affection and therefore becomes selective with who it chooses to love. Our kindness will not be taken for weakness and we will move accordingly to the behavior others.

Facing heartbreaking situations will be devastating for a Pisces but one should embrace it. See heartbreaking situations as an opportunity to transform. But the choice is up to you whether you will choose to be wise or to be cold.

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8th house Aries,

I think our transformations transpire because of pure rage. 8th house for Virgo Risings means our anger is hidden from others. This house is dark yes? So this seems to be insidious rage to me. Have you ever had a full blown meltdown in private? Or with those most intimate to you?

Do we store our negative emotions deep down in us until it is full and it erupts? Does clarity follow you afterwards? I encourage you to think back to the biggest transformations in your life, was there a huge fight that prompted this change? Maybe you were enraged and it was so overwhelming you decided to change yourself or your circumstances.

I often notice that when my rage clears, so does the next path I’m supposed to take. I’m curious if this resonates with 8th house martians has well (specifically 8H Aries, 8H mars)

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CHIRON/Pluto/Mars in the third house natives:

(Pisces mercury natives too tbh)

Write down your points before you confront somebody!!!!!!!!!!!! JOT IT DOWN BOO. People are so quick to gaslight us and allow a conversation about boundaries to escalate and get out of control to a full fledge argument. Often times, we wanted to have a mature conversation, and end up having our words/emotions be misconstrued or the faltering memory of examples of how others have been unfair against us. This is how people gain power in discussions against us and control the narrative to make us feel powerless.

By writing down your specific points, you are able to take back your power to stand up for yourself and avoid being gaslighted or silenced. You are able to stay calm and you can provide someone with clear examples of their fuckery so they can face it full on. You are able to respond to their rebuttals with your own calm ones as now you have the support of your notes to help you explore aspects of the conversation without feeling like you’re losing the plot. Take note and write it down!

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Leo men are cool or whatever as friends but as a Leo moon idk if I would ever mess with one romantically again.

I think they are very corny and gross.

Let me explain: I said before that they are typically attracted to women who stand out and cause attention. They crave attention and validation themselves so acquiring a woman like this will boost his status and self-esteem because he was able to get her. HOWEVER!!! If he’s immature, insecure and misogynistic this trait can turn ugly as hell.

Once they are able to bed this “baddie”, he will air it out to the public. They want the status that comes with being able to get such a beautiful and alluring woman. He will have no problem telling her sexual business and private matters to his peers in order to be seen as cool. They are attention seekers and their actions are always publicized. If they have problems with you, they will do really petty things to get under your skin. It’s all for show and embarrassingly corny and he also has no problem lying about something too.

Just beware when dealing with situationships with one. They are pretty cool guys tho and have such great personalities. But if they don’t respect you, your shit will be on the front page of the news the next day.

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I’m an Aries Mars, the only things that light a fire under my ass are:

money, a new crush, and competition.

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You have to declare your devotion to a Pisces and prove it to them, for them to be loyal to you.

Tbh, you only really have one shot with a Pisces trust, once you prove to us you’re not trustworthy, you fall off that pedestal we’ve placed you on. While before, our love was unconditional, it is now, full of conditions based on our opinion of you. Depending on the personality of that Pisces, they might choose to become a snake.

We are naturally loyal but after several jaded experiences (which is inevitable for a Pisces as they grow up and navigate the word) we can become mistrustful and will keep our options open even if we’re in a relationship. Only when we feel like we can trust a person to remain loyal to us despite temptations, can we do the same.

Are we cheaters? Not exactly but we can be…especially if you’re neglectful to our needs or you come across an extremely jaded Pisces. We communicate what we need and if it’s consistently ignored, well… whatever happens, happens.

An unevolved pisces can compartmentalize their hurt and anger for being mistreated and become vindictive. It’s something we must actively work on in order to not turn cold and evil. But we definitely fight with our dark and vengeful side especially when we are hurt.

It’s one of the many ways a Pisces is at war with themselves.

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this just popped into my brain. Someone left such a bad taste in my mouth. I have words on both ends of the astrology community.

I hate when u already know a lot about astrology and want to interpret placements that stump you, so you pay 150-200 dollars to an astrologer that spends 45 mins of an hour session reciting how a birth chart works after you expressed there is no need too or when they tell you a jumble of poetic phrases and words that mean absolutely nothing. That is why ppl think astro is a scam.

And I hate consumers who are are self absorbed in astrology and want you to tell them their whole life story thru their birth chart + advice for FREE but won’t even say thank you or indulge you for their own personal interpretation of how a placement can manifest in their life for ur knowledge.

Maybe I just dislike human beings. But if I’m doing a birth chart reading, you are paying me for my personal interpretation of your chart based on my knowledge thru books. Then it becomes a discussion of how this can manifest based on ur personal life experience.

I won’t do anymore free personalized interpretations and you can thank the astro community bc u bitches come into my dms and ask me astro questions and I give THOROUGH explanations without the superior divine knowledge complex and don’t even bother to say thank you. So yeah, read my bio.

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Natal Mercury in Pisces: while talking to yourself do you ever say something so profound that you get emotional?

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Dear the girls with a Pisces Venus,

Are you fixated on an unrequited crush? Constantly have someone who doesn’t know you exist on your mind? Wondering when you’ll receive the unconditional amounts of love you can provide someone else?

Here’s your cure (and semi-hard truth):

Whatever you would do for the love of your life, do it for YOU.

You have the love language of a sign with no boundaries. We have an extraordinary gift of empathy and love which can quickly become a curse if we don’t learn to curb it. It’s an instinct for us. We love to love. We accept and give all the five types of love language. We love people despite their flaws. Yes, you know you’ve ignored how stupid that guy was just bc he’s cute and you had a good conversation with him.

Our love has no boundaries, which is such a beautiful thing but it is the very thing that causes us earth shattering pain. I can’t describe the amount of times I’ve laid in bed so hurt by someone bc they didn’t want me back or I got played. We are powerful enough to heal our own hearts and love again but the cycle will never end if we don’t learn.

As this is one of our most powerful gifts, you have to understand NOT EVERYONE DESERVES IT.

It doesn’t matter if they have an extremely cute face, or they make you laugh or they were simply NICE TO YOU!

The only person truly deserving of your love without limits is YOU. Yes, YOU. Would you cook for the love of your life? Create the whole damn Thanksgiving dinner if they asked you to? Do that for YOU! Do you love chocolate or been wanting those cute earrings you saw while window shopping? BUY IT FOR YOU! Damn, does your back hurt? BOOK A MASSAGE FOR YOU!

You may be the only one who wipes your tears when you’re sad. You may be the only person who is deserving of the powerful gift you have of loving with no boundaries. Imagine how powerful you could be if you directed that attention and adoration onto yourself? It’s not easy but it could be.

You must constantly remind yourself that you only show that love and generosity to those who truly deserve it. You see what they’ve done for you first and reciprocate it. Yes, he/she is cute and you find comfort in dreaming of cuddling them or them kissing you. But look at the reality. Not the body language or the way they’ve worded a sentence. Not how you feel. The REALITY. COLD HARD FACTS. While Pisces may be Jupiter ruled, it is also argued that Neptune rules the sign Pisces as well. Neptune is a sign of fog, distractions, confusion. We can become clouded by love. Gosh, it’s a powerful drug. It makes your skin buzz warm and your brain feel fuzzy. But snap out of it! We have to look at what the regular logical person would see and deduce. Ask your air sign or earth sign friends about him. They will tell you whether he likes you or not because they are logical and look at material facts, not the abstract ones. Water sign friends will simply dance in your delusion with you. Good in the moment, bad in the long-run.

If you’re fixated on someone and you want to stop: use your own curse against you. You love love right? Well find other guys/girls to love. It’s more than enough of it to go around boo! Download a dating app, you don’t have to get sexually or romantically involved with these people but what’s the harm of distracting yourself? Watch how quickly that guy/girl you’re thinking about all the time fades to the back because of all this new attention! Now you can talk to them without the hearts sparkling in your eyes. They can probably tell. And if they’re a shitty person, they’re probably using that against you. If they’re not your first priority, how will they take advantage of you now?

Us, Pisces Venuses, have to stick together. People are so cruel that they use our naivety and innocence against us instead of protecting it. People who notice you like them will use that to their advantage. Stop it. Choose yourself first no matter how lonely you are. No matter how much it hurts. Too damn bad. You know very well, that the love you yearn for is rare. We are blessed to have this gift. So why not use it on yourself until someone truly worthy comes along. Then you can share (ahem, keyword: share, not give, SHARE) your love with them.

I made this post, as a triple Pisces threat, because everyone always tells us our issue but never how to fix it without throwing a bunch of wordy sentences that truly don’t make sense at us. It’s time we realize our power and use it for our own benefit!

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Another astronote from THEE mutable queen herself💖

Moon/Cancer in the 10th says emotions are directly tied to my work. And my home life leaks into my work life.

Great moods radiate through your work environment and how people see you. It leaves a positive affect on people, they watch you to see what mood your in today. Your emotions are in the public’s eye. This fucking sucks if you’re a moody person. You must learn emotional intelligence well and understand when to act up and when not to. Yet, it can be uncontrollable sometimes. Now, anything wrong with your home life will fuck shit up at work. With moon in this house, your career matters to your emotional needs and fulfills you (esp if north node is here). Your career sucks, you feel sucky. Your career is going great, you feel powerful! Anything happening with your family or your home, and eventually u will bring these issues to work. You may not be able to preform well bc ur upset and can’t focus on tasks or you may be snappy with people at work. Whatever the case, it interferes with your job and is why you should work to keep your home life stable. Your moon sign determines how you will express these types of concerns emotionally.

Funny enough tho, there are interpretations that fluctuations may occur with home/work. Home life may be shitty but work may be great. Or vice versa. I personally think these interpretations hold some weight, however, if one area isn’t doing as well as another, your emotions won’t be stable. It requires a true balance in order for you to be fulfilled.

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Here’s my own personal astrology note. I think Mercury Conjunct Venus allows you to be well received when you speak from your heart. I have a Pisces Mercury conjunct my Pisces Venus and I notice whenever I write or speak from my emotions (a very vulnerable side of me), I strike the hearts of people. This could possibly pertain to sextiles and trines as well. I wonder if this can make you attractive to people as well.