#multiromantic culture is

[multisexual-culture-is]

multisexual culture is mainly being attracted to the opposite gender for a while and questioning if you're actually straight and then seeing one cute person the same gender and being like omg im so queer

[bilesbiancultureis]

mspec lesbian culture is silently gay panicking over how hot the nude croquis model you're trying to draw is

April 18, 2024.

[tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity]

"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

[mspec-culture-is]

Mspec culture is not realizing mspec means multisexual (or multiromantic!) Spectrum instead of masculine spectrum until finding this blog and actually searching it up

Mspec culture is :)

[ply-space-archived]

since tumblr blessed us with pinned posts i figured it would be appropriate to write a kind of overview of this blog

What is this blog?

This blog is intended to connect, uplift, and celebrate polysexuals and polyromantics. It is NOT a discourse blog, but a blog for positivity, art, and conversation.

the ply flag

What is polysexuality/polyromanticism?

Polysexuals and polyromantics are attracted to multiple genders, but not necessarily all. Polysexuality and polyromanticism are NOT the same thing as polyamory.

How is that different from being bi?

A ply person could be attracted to one binary gender and nonbinary genders, but not the other binary gender, and thus not feel like bi describes them. But a ply person could also fully qualify to identify as bi, but choose not to - honestly, picking one mspec label over another often comes down to taste. There are also ply people who do identify as bi simultaneously - such as myself!

Why is it abbreviated to ply?

The abbreviation 'poly' is already used by polynesians to refer to themselves (polyamorous is shortened to polyam)

What's multisexual/multiromantic/mspec?

The multi spectrum is an umbrella term that unites all people who are attracted to more than one gender, such as bi, pan, ply, and omni people. This blog stands for mspec solidarity and supports non-ply mspecs. We do NOT approve of infighting.

the mspec flag

Alternatively, mspec people are sometimes called pluralian

Pluralian: someone who embraces their attraction to multiple genders fully

the pluralian flag

What's monosexism?

Monosexism is the oppression of mspec people on the basis of being attracted to multiple genders (e.g. biphobia, panphobia).

Can i be ply if i'm bi/gay/ace/aro/polyam/other identity?

Of course! You can be ply and any other queer identity at the same time. No one can stop you. (Yes, this is me saying i support mspec lesbians)

Can i be ply if i'm not same gender attracted?

You absolutely can, in fact many people who previously identified as straight start identifying as ply out of respect for their nonbinary partners.

Can i be ply if i'm cis/not nonbinary?

The owner of this blog is cis, so, sure.

Can i follow if i'm not ply/not sure if i am ply?

Yes! All allies and questioning people are welcome.

What does this blog stand for?

Radical inclusion and queer liberation ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

the queer chevron

Can i ask a dumb question?/I don't mean to be rude, but i'm wondering...

This blog is a safe space to express any of your thoughts and questions about polysexuality/polyromanticism, as long as it's done in good faith. Trolls and bullies will get blocked

Is it safe for minors to follow?

This blog is sfw, but does contain occasional swearing and discussions of heavy themes. The owner is an adult if that's something that makes you uncomfortable.

Can i suggest a post?

Go ahead.

Can i dm you?

Yes. I try to answer quickly, although different time zones make it a little difficult

You reblogged from someone who fits your dni, what's up with that?

This was likely an accident. Please report it to me so i can decide if i should take down the post

🗡️ Dni: TERFs, SWERFs, transphobes, biphobes, panphobes, nbphobes, transmeds, queerphobes, aphobes, SAM gatekeepers, anti-MOGAI, anti-mspec lesbians, exclusionists and assimilationists of any kind, racists, islamophobes, antisemites, cop apologists, ableists, fatphobes, kink critical types, proponents of cringe and cancel culture, and people looking to start fandom discourse.

Posts made by this blog or reblogged from @gardeninthevoid under #og post

Other tags to look out for:

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solidarity - posts about identities other than ply

polysexual / polyromantic - posts specifically for people who are one but not another

mspec / mspec solidarity / bi pan solidarity - posts about other mspec identities and unity between us

ply women / ply men / ply nbs / wlw / wlnb / mlm / mlnb / nblw / nblm / nblnb

non sga - posts for ply people who aren't attracted to their own gender

mspec lesbian

diamoric

omni / abro - posts highlighting omnisexuality, omniromanticism, abrosexuality, and abroromanticism, which are often forgotten about

You might wanna block if you don't want to deal with negativity: #tw exclusionism, #tw negativity, #tw terfs

YOU'RE ALL VALID AND I LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH 🌷

[multisexual-culture-is]

Multisexual culture is liking feminine guys and masculine gals.

[multisexual-culture-is]

So i couldn't find any blogs specifically dedicated to conversations about multisexuality. Also i know this says multisexual but it also includes multiromantic people. It includes anyone who's attracted sexually and/or romantically to more than one gender, irregardless of if it's two or three or all of them and irregardless you have a preference or not and irregardless of your own gender. This blog will also contain the good and the bad, positivity posts about multisexuality and posts about exclusionism in the queer community towards multisexuals. Submissions and asks are open.

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