#mr seldnei
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Just saw āLonglegs,ā and Mr Seldnei and I came out of it going āI donāt know if it was good or bad, but it sure was *something.*ā
(We both quite enjoyed itālove a movie where I have no goddamn idea what the fuck itās doing until the end, and even then Iām not sure.)
And saw a trailer for āMegalopolisā and I may have to track down a showing of that when it releases. Everything I have read says *nobody* knows what that movie is about.
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In my opinion, if you want loving gestures that you didnāt ask for then it behooves you to look closely at what your partner does naturally. As an example: if I want a love letter, Iām going to need to ask Mr Seldnei to write me one, because his mind doesnāt naturally go there. But that man knows my order at every restaurant, knows the names of my favorite writers, and makes sure I get to ride the Haunted Mansion any time we go to Disney. Once I realized these were his romantic gestures, I started feeling very much like the lead in a romcom, even if I did have to flat out tell him Iād like flowers on my birthday.
So yeah, if you want something youāre not getting, ask for it. If you really want stuff you donāt have to ask for, start looking for what youāre already being given.
btw one of the key components of actually being in a healthy relationship is just asking for things that you want. i keep seeing posts on this website saying 'i really want to do/receive [X] but my partner has never done it'. just ask. 'nobody exchanges love letters anymore' ask. 'i want to have my partner's hair in a locket like the victorians' just ask. 'i want to be bought flowers regularly :((' literally just ask. your partner doesn't know they're being held to these expectations and that you're unhappy unless you tell them. it's so unfair to expect your partner to read your mind. 'it's less special if you have to ask :((' grow up and stop pretending you're the lead in a romcom. when people say communication is crucial they mean it !! just ask !!
#mr seldneiās assigned love letters are a thing of beauty#and by beauty I mean they crack me up every time#and theyāre also sweet#when he really wants to do me in he texts me shakespeare out of the blue#the love of my life yāall#mr seldnei
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Mr Seldnei woke up and chose violence.
#weāre up early#and he has played all the songs we all hate#which is only funny when it happens to someone else#so i got *his* favorite queued up for the car#gonna be great#mr seldnei
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The fam went to Disney this weekend, and the plan last night was to get dinner in the park, ride a few things, and watch the fireworks. We got to the park and every last dumbass one of us, including my mother who is supposed to be in command of our shared brain cell 98% of the time, forgot about dinner.
(āWhy are we all so tired, woozy, and angry?ā we wondered at 11pm in line for the ferry out of the park. Well, at least the ghost of Walt Disney didnāt get the $120+ we probably would have spent on mediocre food.)
We get in the car, and I set Siri up to give us directions to the nearest Burger King (I didnāt say I was doing this; when Siri announced through the stereo that we were starting route to Burger King my husband cracked up).
So we make our way to the random access road where this BK is supposed to be, and like a lot of touristy areas there are other fast food joints off this road, which is how this exchange happened:
Siri: Turn left into the parking lot.
Me: Siri, this is a Wendyās.
#Apparently only Mr. Seldnei and I found this funny#My child said he could tell how late it was by how hard I was laughing at this joke#I say my humor is unappreciated in its time#things that make me laugh like a loon#the joys of mothering a zweeble#mr seldnei
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Me, coming out of the shower, to Mr Seldnei: So i managed to flip a glob of shampoo directly into my eye. I rinsed it out and am now experiencing minor discomfort, so you know what that meansāI am DYING and when you wake up next to my CORPSE in the MORNING, that is WHY.
#jesus christ on crutches this is annoying#like the other eye is watering because of allergies AND is the one with worse vision#but i canāt get that one can i?#no! Iām going to fuck up the good eye so now they can both water like a fucking drip wall fountain!#seldneiās life#fuck shampoo my hair is clean but AT WHAT COST?!#mr seldnei#puts up with my bullshit
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My husband, pre-me (so, 20ish?) drank a bottle of Everclear and lit the fumes on fire.
This is cinema actually
#seriously Iām the reason that man has lived as long as he has#mr seldnei#has a low threshold for boredom and very little in the way of self-preservation instincts
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Mr Seldnei just got banned from an Elon Musk subreddit.
His response to the message informing him of this and the instructions for possibly being unbanned was āNah, thatās fair.ā
First heās fixing shit around the house and now this? How hot can one man be?
#he apparently did not realize he was on the pro-Elon subreddit#so he was like āoh well obviously my message that you all simp for Elon broke the rules yeah ban meā#mr seldnei#things that make me laugh like a loon#the love of my life yāall
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Had some plans for the morning, but the husband is fixing drywall and otherwise being handy and competent, so that all went out the window because hello, there ā¦
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Apparently Mr Seldnei was today years old when he learned about Magic Earring Ken.
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Mr Seldnei: <plays pokemon>
Me: <starts playing the song>
Mr Seldnei: <bops head. recognizes song. grins>
Me: <looks for phone>
Mr Seldnei: <grins again as the melody kicks in>
Me: <starts recording video of adorable husband bopping his head and foot along as he plays pokemon>
Mr Seldnei: Who is this?
Me: Ginger Root.
Mr Seldnei: Thatās pretty cute. ā¦ Why are you taping me?
Me: ācause *youāre* pretty cute.
Listen/purchase: Linus Nā Lucy by Ginger Root
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Husband is listening to Mongolian Throat Metal at the moment.
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Things I Said That Made Mr Seldnei Propose A Quiet Day Today:
1. āYou know what we, as a society, did not give enough of a chance to? Leeches and cocaine.ā
2. āYa know how thereās the term āfreeballingā for going without underwear? I think there should also be ābreasting boobilyā for going without a bra.ā
#for context#I got my Covid booster yesterday and spent the night having a robust immune response#and for 2 i know the phrase came from tumblr#Iām not sure if the idea for how to use it came from my own brain or not tho#so if I am borrowing from someone let me know so I can give credit#mr seldnei#also I hit him with both of these in the space of 30 minutes; Iām surprised Iām not divorced
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Yāall Mr. Seldnei is over here putting together furniture and for fuckās sake, using a drill should not be this attractive.
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Mr Seldnei when Guns and Roses comes on the coffeehouse sound system.
#I am not a gnr fan but his hatred of this band is one of my lifeās joys#mr seldnei#the love of my life yāall
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Q has friends over. They have taken over the living room. They are playing ā¦ Mario Party? Maybe? Anyway, the husband has decided that what we need is a metric ton of popcorn made with ghee, like weāre some sort of hipster cool parent nightmare, and honestly itās ghee popcorn, Iām not going to *argue* with him about making it, but he is being the most Mr Seldnei he could possibly be right now.
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Sat at the kitchen table tonight going over page proofs while Mr Seldnei sat across from me re-reading Swamp Thing and occasionally pointing out the bits he found really cool, and my kid and his friend played Smash Bros in the living room.
Honestly, after the chaos of the past week, this was really good.
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