#movingpains

[scentaurfragrance]

Ello ello my smelling amazing friends , well I have had some moving stress and distraction. Anyways this fun warming fragrance has helped me through ! This Beauty is called Amber Fever by @azzaro_parfums ! The only listed notes are clarry sage, cacao and amber, but let me tell you something, this fragrance is boozy. When i say boozy here, i mean cognac and it reminds me of enigma. So i am thoroughly convinced this is a inspired or clone fragrance, and despite the lesser quality, it is still pretty fun. I wish this were more available since so many fragrances are hard to get, but the 20 to 30 prices on this one might be gone now. Anyways, this give me 7 hours and slightly above average performance. Don't forget to follow me for more fragrances ! Which fragrance was a affordable , but now is a gem ? Do you have a fragrance that is oddly calming for you ? Do you think designer fragrances should get away with clones ? See you soon ❤ - #oddlycalming #fragranceheads #movingpains #scents #fragrance #sotd #reviewproduct #azzaropourhomme https://www.instagram.com/p/CWCWpLgDke8/?utm_medium=tumblr

[sinequanonlioness]

My little life is a grateful mess right now. I went from a completely empty tiny apartment for 9-10 months because I couldn’t string together enough time to go home to AR, sort my belongings in storage and drive them back (which I began to love because it was so easy to clean) to moving all my belongings I didn’t give away and now having to tackle unpacking and organizing it. 😩 it is sooo cluttered! I feel another fire sale coming on...nevertheless, I got a metric ton of unpacking done this weekend and even began putting this tv stand together (brother would be proud). #movingpains #clutter #inprogress #stillgrateful (at Newark, New Jersey) https://www.instagram.com/p/CD_eAnZp0iB/?igshid=fogzb4bfgftj

[ivyadrena]

They’ve multiplied. #movingpains #teammysteriouslegbruise https://www.instagram.com/p/CAp9w20pRHT/?igshid=16aojljf5vebp

[esfumari7]

Cleaning up at the old town home selfie. #thoughtprocessworks #artistsofinstagram #movingpains #relocationrehab #instagreat #instalike #staytuned #moretocome https://www.instagram.com/p/B-AYeqxhJh5/?igshid=4d6y8c6sxlqq

[bird--machine]

Met my first Larger than Usual spider yesterday and its pretty easy to point die just when it happened 😂 Was videochatting with a friend when I essentially threw myself off the porch and back into the house because some 1-2 INCH sized wasp was dragging one of those 8 legged meaty monsters up onto the porch about maybe a few inches away. And they stopped to take note I was there. Poked my camera out the door because my friend wanted to see just what in the fuck happened, so I'm peaking the camera around the corner and it just starts dragging this dead huntsman up the wall. She thought it was a mouse before the true horror of the situation set in. This is why I live where the air hurts my face.

[silverhakai]

Me: There's no such thing as too many books. Also Me: I have too many books. #MovingPains #PackingUp #Bibliophile #GrrArgh #AnotherSuitcaseInAnotherHall #WorkWorkWork

[tiikerikani]

Just some extra-hot @siipiweikotomena wings delivered by @woltapp... Excuse my furniture-less eating setup. #movingpains (at Matinkylä, Etelä-Suomen Lääni, Finland)

[deadmaninc]

It’s been a very long and tiring 7 days but we are finally moved in. These are pictures of my almost completed room. It’s a bit different than 7 days ago haha! Me and my mum want to thank everyone that helped and supported us throughout this ordeal. We couldn’t have done it without you guys. Your all amazing and we cannot thank you all enough. #movingpains #sevendays #crazy #alldone #newstart #redesignrebuildreclaim

[jojabarker]

Done - next (tonight): #MakeComics. #UnpackToCreate #MovingPains #WIP #WhenImNotMakingComics #DadMode

[waterfish5678901]

That's another box ready to go 😅 Amazed they all fit in one. #fourdaystillmovein #springbound #htown #foxinbox #allboxedup #cosplay #movingpains (at Cabana Beach Apartments San Marcos, TX)

[j83ar]

And the packing begins #movingpains

[buckyfereke]

My sweet Valentine, watching us pack boxes, all worried that we are moving. She has no how much she will love the new place :) #boxersofinstagram #boxermastiff #boxermastiffmix #bigdogsofinstagram #movingpains #ilovemydog

[deadmaninc]

Got everything I need for a fun afternoon of Swedish Flat Pack building! Question is how much will I drink before completion haha! #movingpains #ikea #budweiser #funtimes #flatpackfury

[jojabarker]

My companion back to #NYC was #UncleRico, a gift from my longtime (since we were 4 yrs old!) childhood friend. #TooShort #Weekend #Swipe #Unpack #WIP #WhenImNotMakingComics #MovingPains #DadMode #BuildingMemories

[everymorningiwindmyownspring]

inċertezza

Uncertainty. So after my last episode, I finally talked about how I was feeling with my boyfriend. Which I thought would be a positive step, to get it all out in the air. 

But then, he told me that he wasn’t that happy either, that for whatever reason he wasn’t sure if he wanted me here or not, that he had not made up his mind.

So I was kind of blindsided. Here I was expecting to at least get some support from him or positive assurance, because I moved for him, and he doesn’t really have much to lose. Then he tells me he’s not sure about all of this? 

And this is where we are now, one person trying to settle in with someone who is uncertain about it. To the extent that he suggested I stay in Nigeria for an extended period of time. And no lie, I was upset about it. I still am. I cried everynight for about a week. I am still trying to understand where he’s coming from, but the whole thing has made me a little bit resentful. Mainly because I chose to move here for him, I have been going through all of this unhappiness because of him. I hate to talk in hindsight, but had he moved to the UK, I would have either started my PhD by now, or would have found a job working with something I enjoy (in the month after I left I had offers for consultancy positions). But no, he didn’t want to move from Sweden. So I had to make the sacrifice so to say, and now I am here, “he is not sure about it”. It almost seems a little bit selfish. 

I have actually confronted him about this, but I will leave that for another post, because I am slowly getting more annoyed about it as I write this. 

On a lighter note, the next text post, involves the happenings of the past weekend, where I went to Mallorca for a birthday weekend with the whole Swedish family. And that had its own dramas.