#mom🌹

[secreterces5]

Happy Mothers’ Day 💐

If your mama teaches you kindness and encourages your interests, cherish her and lover her, and hold her wisdom close to your heart.

[acebytaemin]

bday weekend day 3 success 😌💖

[cinnamonest]

Alright let's make one thing clear;

Riddle (from TWST) would 100000% do things that are on the verge of momcon. I doubt he'd do actual momcon (I mean have you SEEN their relationship??) but he'd project it on his darling.

I can see him forcing his darling to dress more like his mom, put her hair up like his mom, do her makeup like his mom, but not act like his mom. HE wants the power in THIS relationship.

10000% would call you either "mom", "mommy", or his mother's name while he noncons you.

Yes omg omg AHHHH he WOULD he is such a Mama's boy, a kind of the same vibes as [this post] from forever ago? He would subconsciously single out a darling that bears some physical resemblance and make you his replacement Mommy :))))

Although he doesn't realize it, it's also where he gets his preferences. It's subconscious; if you asked him if he sought out facial features or traits that resembled his mother, he would scowl, say no, that that is a frankly reprehensible notion.

But anyone who has seen both you and her, well, they can't help but raise their eyebrows a bit at the facial structure similarity. No one says anything to him about it, though, out of fear of invoking his ire. The last thing anyone needs is him getting embarrassed over the realization and going into a pseudo-tantrum over what an absurd suggestion it is that he would ever select for someone based on a facial similarity to his own blood. What kind of pervert would even come up with such an idea? He's just too oblivious to his own self to recognize it.

He sort of tries to make you this... ideal figure, what a perfect mommy to him should have been. Obviously he's a controlling little bastard from the get-go, always, always correcting every little thing you do. But the way he moulds you into a maternal figure is not entirely a conscious decision. He enforces things upon you that just sort of seem right -- that you have to wear this and this in this specific way, that you should hold your posture this way, walk like this, speak more formally in public and more casually with him, and with this sort of tone to each setting respectively... no, it's not in the rules or anything, but there's a sort of well-known propriety to such things, you know? Just because it's not a rule doesn't mean there isn't a very specific and proper way for people to behave and carry themselves and so on, especially for someone in your position, seeing as your behaviors and mannerisms reflect on him.

He doesn't realize to what degree his idea of normalcy and propriety has been shaped by example. That is, his own mom. It's where he gets all of his ideas of proper behavior for anything not explicitly in the rules.

It's not just a matter of forcing you to behave a certain way, either, but also discouraging what he doesn't like. Sometimes you do certain things that don't seem out of the ordinary, that you don't even think would upset him, yet he still seems to scowl. What exactly is his problem with the thing you're wearing? It's not inappropriate, nor does it defy any of the countless regulations you know are imposed upon you... but it just doesn't feel right to him. It's not something she... that you would wear.

And why does he not like this or that part of your speech patterns, the hairstyle or length you have, so on and so on? He couldn't say. He just knows he wants to change it to this specific idea he has in mind. All the while unaware he's subconsciously basically just redesigning you into Mommy 2.0, more or less.

But yes, there's a few things that he does not want you replicating: a sense of authority over him, and that constant, merciless criticism. On the occasion you have been upset with or reprimanded something he does, it makes him unusually, exceptionally uncomfortable and upset, the way he stiffens and scowls. Usually, he's fairly receptive to and humble about criticism (as long as its valid), but you're just not supposed to do that. You're the one person that can't, even if he made a genuine mistake. You're supposed to be the embodiment of tenderness and affection.

If he recreates the setup himself, with you, he can give himself a sort of power he never had with his real mother. It's a very comforting sort of feeling, all the warmth and familiarity, but with none of the fear of failure, none of the anxiety around a single misstep. So when you give him that anxiety anyway, it feels like a transgression, like you've done something wrong, and he can treat it accordingly.

And with you, he's a lot more sensitive to criticism too. Even if you say just the slightest thing, even if its worded very nicely and given to him very gently, it upsets him. He's uncharacteristically petulant about it. He'll cross his arms and scowl, mutter something under his breath, and more or less give you a cold shoulder and silent treatment for the rest of the day. Unless, of course, you make it up to him somehow, namely by apologizing and admitting you were wrong and he was right and he did nothing wrong. If not, the bitterness and hurt can last for quite a while.

As for what he calls you, well. He unfortunately isn't the type of guy who can say something and not realize what he's said, so he does catch himself, face buried against your neck and balls deep inside you.

Mommy...

And he freezes up, stops completely. Stiffens. There's a few moments of silence as he has to come to terms with and process his own words.

That -- I don't --

A slip of the tongue, perhaps. So he tries to pass it off as. However, it's only at that moment that it seems to click, all the dots connect and he realizes what he's done with you, how he's moulded you. The poor thing gets extremely self-conscious, hurries to the library to desperately seek out psychology texts in some desire to find out if there's something wrong with him.

However, he does find said material, which claims that, at least to some extent, this sort of thing is normal... maybe not to the extent he's done it, but, it says something about how men often pursue partners that bear some resemblance to their mothers... so he takes that piece of information and runs with it. Rather, he stretches the concept beyond the point of what anyone else would consider reasonable, and extrapolates it to mean that what he's doing is normal, too.

So now, he can let the anxiety go and not have to feel paranoid that he has some kind of problem, because it's normal, so he doesn't have a problem at all, no. In fact, even if you object in some way, he uses the information to justify and argue the matter from that point forward... so he'll keep calling you what he feels like, thank you very much. Just hope it doesn't accidentally slip when you're around others... that would be the end of him, they'd never let him live that down.

And in truth, somehow the whole thing makes him less anxious around his actual mother, he feels less of an urge to live up to her expectations and is less afraid of upsetting her, now that he's redirected his need for approval and validation to you instead. Although with that gone, he does get a bit more openly resentful, which impacts their relationship negatively a bit... and although he'll have trouble both explaining to you where he got all the clothes from that he comes back with over break, he'll have even more trouble convincing her he doesn't know why hers went missing...

[starfilled-galaxy]

SAAAAAVVVVEEEE MEEEEEEEEE

[oceanmoss]

made iced coffee and it turned soooo good yayyy ☕️🥛🌹🌹🌹

[schizomothh]

juniper, alyx, and lewis are all jaunes children and this is my gospel. she spent YEARS raising alyx, lewis, and juniper those are all her babies!! do not ship them!!! shes their mama their mother she takes care of them and loves them unconditionally!!

[hypernova-writes]

Yknow…Ive kinda wondered if Alexandria’s parents met any of the older mercs at some point. Yknow if Spy at some point ran into her mother during her spy years (or her dad, I can’t remember 😅) - 🌹

Oh Yes Yes! Definitely! Since Ally is 32 years old, her mother is 53 years old! And was (and still is) a Spy! So she most definitely has ran into Spy on occasion. I'd like to think Spy saw Ally and was like "Great theres two of them now.." Because he had to deal with her mother alot. He claims that he finds her annoying but in reality the two could be considered close friends, they'd often had to work together. I may draw her mother later down the line, but she's more chaotic than Ally, she has to lay low because she was a spy, But She has probably ruined a couple of marriages.. ALSO her and her other share a name, so when she's home she goes by Alexis (or just Ally). Which also probably gave spy a mini heartattack cause he thought her mother was the one Joining. I could go on and on about her family. But imma cut it off here for now~ <3

[cold--carnage]

applied for social assistance again folks cross your fingers that the government finally recognizes that I cannot fucking work and need money

[taegularities]

Cf jk are you scared that you might have more children out there?

Jungkook: "Of course I am. But... it was a bit different with [redacted], so in hindsight... I am not that surprised about her being here."

[rpfisfine]

hiii 25........🫶

HIIIIIII aleks um. [pees]

25. do you and anyone you know have “a song”?

i think so….for me & my dad it’d be mistadobalina by del tha funky homosapien or any outkast song (based) and me and my toxic homoerotic ex best friend whom i haven’t seen in over 5 years def considered i saw her standing there by the beatles to be our song I think. Slightly less based

[charlizetheron64]

[armando-triplepapito]

I sometimes remember how my father’s last name is Mendoza…

I could’ve been a Mendoza 😞

Ig it’s a good thing that I’m not. It would’ve probably made me delusional to the core, believing that I’m actually married to him😩

[mer-se]

out by the water and things

[wildchild-11]

Love that I did Demeter 's face 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[schizomothh]

it means so much to me that alyx has a bunny on her dress. like jaunes signature animal? its like they were always destined to meet. it kills me that their relationship never improved. it kills me that the last time that they technically saw each other was when alyx was poisoning jaune. in another universe do you think alyx wouldnt have betrayed jaune and they wouldve been a happy family?