#mom mention //

[clown-around-and-find-out]

i will never forget about the time i went to the mall with two of my friends and during lunch one of them came out to my mom as nonbinary. so when we stood up to leave after we finished eating my mom said "alright, let's get our shop on, they/thems!"

[plaguedoctormemes]

Not to toot my horn but ive been craving chicken paprikash (a meal my mom made for me many times growing up, i moved out of state a couple months ago) so i decided to make it myself this week but my own way, and not only was it better than how my mom made it but it was so good i almost wanted to cry

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

I love her, but some days…

[gender-neautral-fangirling]

It's so crazy how I can string together a bunch of sounds and suddenly my mom knows the entire lore of SVSSS

[dddemigirl]

Goofy video that my mom sent me of my chatty cat Silver while we were out running errands. Please excuse the state of my room.

[onlytiktoks]

[biggestfraudyoullevermeet]

The forever what if question

unfortunately my mom died after my birth so no. I didn't have that maternal connection with the woman who raised me. And yes it was really hard for me and still is to try and have no resentment towards her for the way she raised me.

And yes having kids scares me, because what if im not able to connect with my kids because what I went thru?

People say "oh you never even got too meet your mom it's not that big of a deal" but it is that big of a deal.

I am a carbon copy of a dead woman.

A woman whom I will never. Ever get to talk to, bond with, laugh with.

So yes that affects me more then it should have and still affects me in my daily life.

Because theres the infinite, what. If. She. Didn't. Die. Question.

What if she didn't die.

Is it my fault she died?

Did I essentially kill my own mother?

What would I have turned out like if she was the one to raise me?

It haunts me. Every. Single. Day.

So yes. It is that big of a deal.

And the sentence "oh but you never even met her so its not that big of a deal" is hurtfull.

[dearestmother]

Dearest mother,

I would send you flowers everyday if you were still alive. I’m so sorry for what I’ve done. Please forgive me.

Love,

Your adoring daughter

[emmsiplier]

i am a huge Granny Smith apple fan. My mother is not. She wanted to eat my apple bcos there are no others in the house. She did not like it.

SHUN! SHUN THE NONBELIEVER

[smilestimz]

❤️💌✒️💌❤️

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[transastronautistic]

@hyperfix8edcryptid and i celebrated our 4th anniversary up in Ohio this past week. It was so good to see our little nieces, my bro, and my parents 🌈💚

Also look at the frog and toad print she got me it’s too perfect 😭 My mom’s verdict on it: “awwwww cute…I didn’t know they were gay!”

Simple ID: various pics of me and Leah, both white people with short brown hair, on a hike, at a Lake Erie beach, and one where Avery is holding up a small black and white print of Toad offering Frog a bouquet of flowers over the words “the lovers”

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

Alright but why is this so real lmao

[magz]

oh hm. Mom was call magz n just notice now. um. hm.

Before: she was call all time, but she cry and getting panic attacks each time Magz say hi back when Magz speech was just have bit issue.

(now: Magz not able reliably speak. is incoherent noise. n random word. is like sysiphus with the rock.)

[dddemigirl]

My mom found a lump in her breast today because it was itching. She said when she had breast cancer when I was a kid it itched too. She has a mammogram in a few weeks at least. I already feel sick with worry. Yeah I’m not close to my mom like I once was but I am embarrassingly completely dependent on her. I’m still unemployed. Still trying to get a job through vocational rehab but they’re likely not gonna see me until June and my mom keeps asking me about a job. I haven’t told her how busy these people are. I’m almost 30 (28) and I have nothing to be proud of about myself. I only finished college because of my mom’s help. She really shouldn’t have helped at all. Most parents stop helping their kids when they’re adults, you know? My problem is that my mom did everything for me while I was growing up because she’s just like that and I was a disabled kid so I needed extra help anyway. Now I’m an adult and I don’t know how to do shit. I’m usually in my room being a recluse with my girlfriend because she’s too easy on us and didn’t kick us out because we didn’t have jobs. Now Wren has a part time job but it sucks and she’s trying to get a different one. She hasn’t gotten paid yet. We could really use that money because I’m tired of owing my mom. I’m the biggest I’ve ever been. I don’t think I’m overweight but I definitely look different, like in my face. I hate it. I want to change my entire life around but I’m too lazy and scared to do it. I hate that. I hate that I’m like this. I want to get better but I never have. I’ve never been proud of myself. I’ve never been happy with myself. I feel like I’ll never be someone important.

[cuntwrap--supreme]

My sister, for her birthday, only asked that she be able to go see her boyfriend, who is in college in Delaware. She just got back today. And, the second she and my mom get back from the airport, my mom's in the kitchen telling me and my other sister about how "the blacks" and "the Mexicans" (which is what she says to mean any brown person who isn't Asian) might as well be a different species - in front of my youngest sister, who just got back from spending a week with her Afro-Caribbean boyfriend and his family.... So now she's crying (understandable) because she thinks our mom hates her boyfriend for being black (she does) and I'm having to try to calm her down. Her boyfriend is also helping, because they do that young people thing where they're always on FaceTime with one another. My mom is acting like the victim in this situation, and eventually screamed that she doesn't understand why none of us love her before locking herself in her room and more than likely taking about a week's worth of trazodone.

On the plus side, my sister loves her boyfriend's family and said they all loved her, so she'll hopefully have a place to go once she's 18 and leaves my mom in the past like me and my other sister want to. This dude treats my baby sister right, and that's all I give a shit about. That his skin color and heritage matter to my mom at all is just another indication of how shit she is as a person, that some immutable factor of someone's being is more important to her than this kid treats my sister like she's a person.

[hexcia]

My Mom: [sends me countless texts on how my father is a horrible person and how I shouldn't trust him despite telling me I should form my own opinions about him]

My Dad: What do you want for dinner when you come over :)? Do you want me to buy anything?