#moitivation

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i took myself as a ref for this one :3

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Happy valentiine's day boomers :b

NO DRAWING TODAY CAUSE IM NOT GONNA MARRY AND HAVE KIDS

[tweedfrog]

Was Rhaegar hoping for Elia to die giving birth to Aegon? I mean he crowned Lyanna while Elia was still pregnant and before he learned she couldn't have any more children.

I dont think Rhaegar was hoping for Elia to die giving birth for a couple of reasons

1 - He could have just tried killing her in an easier way by making her have a 3rd child and then marrying Lyanna after an appropriate mourning period if thats what he wanted. I cant remember whether it was that the maester said Elia just couldnt have more children (as in couldnt concieve) or whether it was that Elia couldnt have more children safely (as in her and the child would live past the birth). There was quite a gap between when he crowned Lyanna and when he ran off with her and he seems to have run off with her after Aegon was born. This means that he knew Elia possibly wouldnt live past a third pregnancy when he decided to take off with Lyanna. The timeline around Roberts Rebellion is quite fuzzy though so this is hard to piece together. If he ran off with Lyanna before Ageon was born then maybe???

2 - His fixation on the prophecy - the things he is doing with his children (trying to have 3, using the naming scheme of the conquerors, Having Aegon be conceived during the time of the comet etc) stem from a desire to fulfill the prophecy and create the prince that was promised. I know fandom argues about how much him taking off with Lyanna was based on "love" for her vs seeing her as a vessel to bring forth his third child but from his actions during the war we can at least see he isnt actively plotting Elia's death. He kept Elia and Rhaenys and Aegon on dragonstone until Aerys recalled them to KL to use as hostages for Dornish loyalty.

3 - Finally characterisation as a reason he wouldnt do this. In the books Rhaegar isn't portrayed (or thought of by anyone except Robert) as an evil person. Hoping your wife kicks the bucket giving birth to your second kid is Craster level evil and i dont think GRRM set up Rhaegar to be characterized this way. I think he's just selfish/has enough of a messiah complex to simply not care about the way his actions are affecting his first wife. "Of course she'd be happy to be the mother of 2 heroes they're going to save westeros from the long night and shes lucky to be part of that" etc etc.

Also just from an outsiders perspective he seems to be either consciously or subconsciously trying to replicate the original trio of Aegon/Rhaenys/Visenya with himself as Aegon Lyanna as Visenya and Elia as Rhaenys. Snd with his own 3 children as the 3 conquerors. This would require Elia to live and be cast in the role of one of the wives.

Of course the thing is despite not actively hoping for Elia to die his political stupidity and actions cause her death and the deaths of their children anyway. That's one of the things i find so interesting about the situation - hes ostensibly this gentle clever handsome prince who at every turn makes the WORST decision possible.

He probably didnt set out to hurt Elia's feelings during the Tourney of Harrenhal! He probably didn't want to have sex with Elia so soon after her bedrest ended after her 1st pregnancy but you see he has to because the comet is here! He probably wants her on Dragonstone away from his clearly insane father but it's really just easier to leave her in KL and he promises he'll somehow fix all this in some way during an unspecified time during the future!

His moitivations mattered less than the result of his actions because functionally nothing changes if he hoped Elia died. He got her killed anyway. Hes like a bad person but not because hes evil deep down it's because he consistantly makes choices that hurt almost everyone close to him to serve a prophecy. And what makes it even worse is that he seems to realize these are the wrong choices but he goes ahead and makes them anyways because he thinks its for the greater good or its just easier for him personally.

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"'If you can love me, you can love yourself."

~ Lizzo

[positivephil]

Morning Motivation

by positive phil

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push 21/01/2019

just a year ago i had such high hopes,

i wanted to reach the top.

but now i’m at rock bottom crying into the sheets

and i can’t make it stop.

one disaster after another,

this story has become a tragedy.

but i am yet to reach breaking point

and i know that i will find my remedy

if i just keep pushing

when life keeps pulling,

i refuse to bow down,

its all or nothing.

i’ll take the pain and turn it to paint,

watercolour canvas; a teary-blue stain.

i will make my stress the path to my success

even if it it is an arduous process.

rejection tells us something better is out there for us,

failure is a sign of effort and trying,

lack of recognition does not mean lack of ability.

so chin up now, keep focused on the grind.

after all nothing good ever came easily

and just remember this moment is merely temporary.

time: 10:11pm

[a-dedicated-duck-out-for-quack]

Self hate is a loosing battle

It is never usually an in the moment decision to take your life, it usually happens from years of abuse from your own mind and from other peoples careless actions. Everyone is terrified of dying, yet a lot of us smoke, take damaging drugs, sleep around without protection, cut our own skin. We are taking active steps to dying faster, rather than taking a knife and jamming it into our throat. Why do you think this is?

I like to think it’s hope. No matter how hard life is, we always have hope, always. The only time we loose all hope is after something potentially traumatizing happens. This can be someone abusing us in a sexual way, a physically abusive way or just verbally putting us down.

In these moments of loosing hope you need to know what to focus on, rather than focusing on the easiest way to make yourself happy in the moment; sex, drugs, self harm, there are so many small things you can do that make you happier in the future but are a bit boring at the time.

Making little sticky notes and putting them around the house in areas you usually go to when having a bad day is such an underestimated tool for combating low mood. If you struggling with over eating then put a sticky note in the cupboard or freezer for the next time you’re tempted to give up on your diet.

If you’re with someone and they leave little notes telling you to “go get em, tiger” or other motivational things that gives you the strength to do stuff marry that girl, she is the one. 

If you have an addiction to self harming then something as simple as putting a photo of a loved one in with your tools, I hate referring to them as that, can often be the difference between hurting yourself or not. Also counting to five in your head before acting on impulse can be the difference between spending another thirty quid on your fix and having the money to treat yourself to new clothes or a new game.

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[moireia]

character study ::  sasha harmon

“She was her own. Her mind, her choices, her magic, hers and hers alone. She would never let herself be possessed so completely. Not like that. Not by fate.”

(inspo)