#mendosuck

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GENDERED DILEMMA: I get that women are tired! A homeless guy has set up a little what looks like a "death alter" in front of a woman’s car. With flowers and alcahol, a "vase," and "notes" telling her if she "Wants to fuck” he's down. But if not she can just hang in his white van. (That is parked two cars in front of her. ) And she can get drunk or just “not get too pumped” with him. And to show he is a "good guy" he is in front of the cameras and left his social security number on the note. “I ain’t got nothing to hide.” And because I am who I am. I talked with him for 20 minutes or so... He feels like this offering is better than going up to her and touching her (Or risking her thinking he's dangerous). But its literally a hundred times worse. But I only know this because I'm and adult and have females who have told me extensively that this happens too much. But his is what I would have done in the second grade. To me, It’s kind of sweet. And he is tiny. Just high and lonely. But I am torn!! Because I KNOW the girls seeing all this will be freaked out. And will have to "tacfully" turn him down. Because he is stalking her car! But I can't call the police (Or maybe I should? Tell me please) because he hasn’t done anything wrong. And I think it’s “harmless.” But I’m a “Big black man wearing all these fruity colors.” as he said. And he asked me if I wanted to join him; offered me alcohol too (and the vase). And I just said, “no thank you”. I hope it’s as easy for her. Am I a bad ally? Ps. He whistled at me when I was a block a way - holding up a forty ounce - waving to me to join him. I gave him a peace sign and kept walking. So... he doesn’t hear no. Maybe she shares the car with someone else... But maybe it’s true love. #SorryLadies. #MenDoSuck #WeAreImmatureAndDumb #TeachUs #LifeIsStrange #AndHardToNavigate #feminism #feminist #girlpower #womenempowerment #menace2society (at Hollywood Boulders) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9VHcLmBZjW/?igshid=1twqgmc2ol2v