#me when i put my stepstool on top of my desk to put my lights up on my high ass ceilings 😀

[agustdiv1ne]

nah bc why is my first class on tuesday and i already have work to do 😭

[aadmelioraa]

Curtains

Completely excessive Bellarke fluff at the request of @jasperjoordan :)

It was almost midnight by the time Bellamy left work. He was in the throes of midterm season, and after six hours of grading essays he’d barely made a dent in the huge stack of papers on his desk. He’d told Clarke that he’d be home late, and had fully expected to find her already in bed when he arrived back at the house. Instead, he arrived home to find all the lights on and cheerful music emanating from the second floor.

Bellamy left his coat and shoes by the door, and went in search of his wife. Halfway up the stairs, he realized that the source of the music was their second bedroom. The smile playing on his lips instantly turned to panic when he entered the room to see his seven months pregnant wife standing rather precariously atop a stepstool, arms outstretched for a curtain rod just beyond her reach.

“Clarke! What the hell are you doing?” he called, lunging towards her and placing his hands firmly on her hips.

Clarke glanced down at him, her obvious annoyance tempered by amusement. “Relax, you. I was just trying to adjust the curtain rod before I hang these.” She gestured to the piece of gauzy white fabric in her left hand.

“Curtains?” Bellamy yelped, “You’re up there because of curtains?” His hands tightened temporarily around her waist as he helped her step down.

“I’m fine, Bell, I just got inspiration to finish these tonight and you were working late, so I decided—“

“You decided to it would be a great idea to get on top of that stool now that your center of gravity has completely shifted?” he filled in sarcastically.

Clarke rolled her eyes good naturedly. “I really need to stop telling you these things, you’re becoming more annoying by the day.”

“It’s my job to be annoying. You don't seem to want to admit you might need a little bit more help than you used to need,” Bellamy reprimanded her gently, running a hand up and down her arm. “You’re forgetting that I’m as stubborn as you are, princess.”

Clarke smirked. “I could never forget that, trust me.” She sighed and hovered a hand on her rounded stomach. “Sorry to scare you…I honestly wasn't sure how I was going to get down from there anyway, so your timing was good.”

Bellamy shook his head, though he couldn't help but laugh. “You and this kid are going to turn my hair grey, Clarke.”

Clarke bit back a smile. “Just wait till it actually comes out. Then the real trial begins. You forget this child will have both Blake and Griffin DNA. That’s a recipe for disaster, according to my mother.”

Bellamy laughed again. He had heard Abby make that joke several times since they’d announced the pregnancy, and he had to admit she wasn't wrong. “Yes, I know, I know—please, just promise not to scare me like that again.”

“I promise,” Clarke sighed. “But I need your help with this whole nesting thing. I’m short and getting more useless by the day.”

“You are not,” he rebuked her mildly, reaching both his arms round her waist again and kissing her gently on the forehead.

“I wasn't fishing for a compliment, Bell,” she chuckled. “I really do need your help with these curtains.”

He smiled and released her, then accepted the fabric she offered and took her place on the step stool.

The nursery was slowly coming together. Abby and Marcus had purchased them a crib and changing table, which Bellamy had put together over the course of several (moderately stressful) hours. Wells had brought them a bookshelf along with some of Clarke’s favorite childhood classics, and Lincoln had helped them hang a series of beautiful illustrations on the walls. It had quickly become Bellamy’s favorite place to be.

“You know that Wells and Jasper are fighting over who will get godfather responsibilities?” Bellamy mentioned as he worked at the curtains.

“Yeah, Jasper’s been pestering me about it all week,” Clarke sighed. “I think he’s taking credit for our entire relationship, which somehow entitles him to this in his mind.”

“Yeah, I’m not sure why he thinks that,” Bellamy wondered. “I told Raven she can have the next kid, by the way, because O will never forgive me if she isn't godmother to this one.”

“Ok, but let’s have this kid first before we start planning the next one, Bell,” Clarke joked.

Bellamy grinned. “Sorry, O was texting me today and got me thinking about it.”  He finished adjusting the curtains to Clarke’s specifications, then stepped down to look at them from across the room.

Clarke moved to his side and slipped her hand into his. “Looks perfect. Thanks, babe.” She glanced up at him and smiled. “You know what? Our friends may be annoying as hell some days, but this kid is really lucky to have so many honorary godparents in its life.”

“Mhmmm.” Bellamy turned to press another kiss to her forehead. “Very lucky.”

Clarke was suddenly overtaken by a fit of giggles.

“What’s so funny?” 

“Nothing, I just thought of a way to settle the discussion between Wells and Jasper. Let's make Murphy the godfather.”

Bellamy snorted in laughter, pulling her closer. “That sure would teach them a lesson, but at what cost?”

Clarke sighed. “I know. Maybe he can have the third kid.”

“Third?” Bellamy teased. “What happened to having this one first?”

“I don’t know, I got carried away for a minute. Don't tell Octavia,” Clarke warned, only partially in jest. “You sister has never in her life even tried to keep a secret.”

“I know better than that. Besides, this is all that matters right now,” Bellamy replied, wrapping his arms round her and laying his hands gently on her belly.

Clarke smiled and rested her head against his chest. It was her favorite place to be.

[styleatacertainage]

It’s that time of year when it’s out with the old in with the new. So why not set up some time for a closet overhaul? If you find yourself claiming “you’ve nothing to wear” an unorganized overflowing closet just might be the culprit. Or if you’re like me it’s time for a closet refresh. This is when I ruthlessly go through my closet item-by-item and purge. Whichever scenario you find yourself in I have a tried-and-true method for a closet edit. Are you ready?

First step, you ask, for a clean sweep? Dedicate an afternoon to your busy schedule to assess your closet and go through every item in your wardrobe. I know, I know, there are a million other priorities competing for space on your ever-expanding to-do list rather than sorting through pencil skirts, cardigans, and that swoon-worthy dress found on the final sale rack. But, I promise, devoting an afternoon to properly sort through your clothes is time well spent. If you are like me, you’ll discover that fashion mistakes have been made over the course of a season, weight gained, (even better, lost – let’s face it ladies weight fluctuates, it’s a fact of life) or maybe, just maybe, it’s finally time to retire that beloved go-to blazer. You know the one, it has a shiny sheen on the elbows due to years of love, but you’re still loath to part ways? It isn’t easy to rid your closet of items that no longer fit or have sentimental value, especially when you’ve shelled out major cashola for the purchase in the first place. But keep calm and carry on. Which is why, through the years, I have devised a tried-and-true method to purge my burgeoning closet and in the process make room for that drool-worthy new puffer vest.

Since I am a bit of an organization addict (I’m a Virgo by birth and have a strong penchant towards planning and systematizing) I wanted to share my method for a wardrobe detox.  First off, when sorting through my clothes I put on a great playlist – still loving the seventies, nothing sounds better to me than the Doobie Brothers or Steely Dan – then pour a glass of wine, and ask these three questions:

1.Does this fit?

2.Have I followed the ‘one year rule’? If I haven’t worn it in a year, it’s time to let it go. Ruthless, I know.

3. Is this item damaged, e.g., moth holes, broken zippers, pilling or missing buttons? Or can it be repaired? Having a great seamstress and shoe cobbler is a must.

If the answer is ‘no’ to any of the above questions, then it’s time to part ways. Divide your clothes into three piles. Sell, donate, and trash.

Sell

The items that make it to your sell pile are the ones that are either currently in style or gently used. It could even be a pair of brand new, to-die-for jeans that were bought with the promise of losing five pounds. Sigh. But take heart, these clothing items have the potential of making you a profit with little effort thanks to an emerging online marketplace for buying and selling clothes. There are several to choose from which have a streamlined experience that makes it possible to list my items, ship them out, and earn money or credit toward on-site purchases, all while sipping my coffee in my pin-striped pajamas. As a matter-of-fact, I don’t even have to leave the comfort of my house. How’s that for convenience? Check out thredUP.

Charity

If by chance some of your unwanted items are still in good condition, please consider donating them to a good cause. Of course, Goodwill Industries and Salvation Army are always good choices for your orphaned clothes and are reputable if that is one of your concerns. But there are other organizations that deserve and appreciate your contributions as well. Personally, I love and support Dress for Success – a non-profit organization that addresses and fulfills the needs of low-income women who have left welfare and are interfacing with the challenges of the workforce. But consider local homeless shelters or even better ones that specifically cater to battered women. In recent months, blogger The Midlife Fashionista opened a non-profit in the greater Boston area, Uncommon Threads, with a mission to empower women. Trust me on this; somehow it’s easier to let go of clothing when you know it is going to someone in need.

Rubbish

Now onto the hard part, those items that can’t be repaired or have significant wear-and-tear must be tossed into the rubbish bin. I know it’s hard to say goodbye to your beloved LBD, or your favorite graphic tee worn on countless occasions, but don’t let your emotions get the better of you. It must be thrown away. I repeat, the item must be thrown away.

It might take more than one try to get into the swing of downsizing your wardrobe, but the reward is a streamlined closet that makes getting dressed in the morning just that much easier, and maybe even fun. But you have to know what you own is working for you.

Happy cleaning!

It’s time for a tour of my closet/office. Yes, this is where you will find me on any given day editing my daily post or planning my next outfit. Notice how the shelves don’t have doors. This one feature lets me utilize every square inch of space. Nothing hides from me behind closed doors. There’s never a time when I have to squeeze in and fish something out from a dark corner. A nice design trick would be to install curtains in front of the shelves. But for now, I’m happy with an exposed workspace. The shelving unit is ALGOT from IKEA that we’ve had since our Shanghai, China days.

When we moved to Georgia last year, I knew the first re-do in our home would be my closet. Here’s what happened after we finally found a contractor. Which took several months… They kept disappearing on us. Who can relate? Originally, this room opened to the adjoining bedroom. The first step to enclose the room was drywall. Then a few coats of paint in Dove Gray by Benjamin Moore. For many years, I’ve been a big fan of neutrals in bedrooms – they’re sooooo soothing. But gray paint is currently on-trend in home decorating so it’s safe to say this room is ‘in.’

A Possini Flower Chandelier replaced the original light fixture to give the room a modern look. After it arrived, Mr. Style thought it might be too big. But once it was installed he changed his mind. What do you think?

In keeping with a light and airy space, I chose a contemporary glass desk from World Market that sits on a chrome sawhorse base. But when we created our YouTube room we exchanged the glass desk for a white desk. Anyone else moves furniture from room-to-room? The desk chair is chrome and white leather. It’s very simple and practical. Tucked underneath is a turtle stepstool that I rest my feet on when working. Sometimes, I pull it out if I need to reach something on the top shelf.

Last year I purchased an orange egg chair and glass table for my office/closet. But, again, those items were repurposed to the YouTube room. After our new kitten, Ollie arrived and decided to use the wool chair as her scratching post the egg chair found a new home in our guest room. The good thing is I’ve used a cohesive color scheme throughout the house which allows me flexibility. And that egg chair (which is a favorite of mine) has been repurposed several times over. Sheesh! Recently, I ordered a modern hot pink chair that will sit in front of the desk. At first, I thought I could get away without having an extra chair in the room but when my children visit they always drag a chair in from the other room then plop down so they can jabber away. Mr. Style does the same thing. Point taken! Directly across from the desk are three inexpensive white bookcases that house my shoe collection.

How about some closet organization tips? Here we go.

Organize by category.

Organize clothes by category – skirts, pants, sweaters, blouses, jeans – arrange pieces by item and color so you can see exactly what you own. The same holds true for shoes. Hang sleeveless dresses or shirts first, short sleeves then long sleeves.

Stack foldables.

Jeans, sweaters, scarves, lingerie are all items that I fold then stack on the shelf. Arrange cedar strips or mothballs on your shelves to prevent moths from snacking on your cashmere or wool sweaters. Jeans are folded lengthwise and layered one on top of the other. Chinos and leather leggings too.

Lingerie is organized by color, size, and type. These are folded and tucked inside lingerie storage units. Place a linen sachet inside for a special treat.

Upgrade your hangers.

Who else remembers the movie line “No wire hangers!” Well, we don’t have to be quite as obsessed as Joan Crawford but I would advise upgrading your closet hangers. It’s a simple style trick that will extend the life of your clothes. And it gives uniformity. Whether you prefer thin velvet hangers, Joy Mangano huggable hangers, or wood hangers, there is a hanger for you. Don’t forget space-saving stackable skirt or pant hangers.

Shoes, scarves, hats, and handbags.

Store your shoes and handbags where you can see them. Use clear shoeboxes or better yet store them on closet shelves or a bookcase. Right toe out left toe in is a space-saving technique. I like my handbags out of their dustbags and visible. Out of sight out of mind happens if I don’t! Hatboxes are perfect for storing hats with the larger ones resting on top. Scarves are color-coded, folded and stacked.