#maybe even a llittlemean IF YOU WANTED

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I debated whether to take your bait, since im bored ill entertain you

Dear, I wasn’t trying to bait you -- there is nothing about you that I want to catch.  You were making a half assed callout regarding something you only know half the story to, and I decided to answer you because it was unfair. It is funny you talk like I am trying to instigate shit when youre the one to @ Mishka. What do you think luring her to your childish post would do? White woman solidarity? 

, is the poor baby angwi that they got called out on their behaviour?

Are you five? I feel like I’ve stepped back into early aughts tumblr discourse. Are we all not grown here?

First of all, i never sent(besides this post), nor encouraged any “hate” towards adm, nor would I care enough to do so, is the poor baby angwi that they got called out on their behaviour? That’s too bad, but unfortunately i have nothing to do with what people chose to do once they read LM’s post

But ADM is responsible for how people react to information provided? All she said was “this is who you’re working with”. And people reacted accordingly. Some people decided to crowd around LM, other’s decided to wash their hands of her. If she, and you, are not responsible for other’s reactions to your exaggerations --- why is ADAM responsible for how people reacted to her interpertation? If there is no point in putting blame on callouts for the reactions they garner, then WHAT WAS THE PURPOSE OF THIS OG POST? 

Especially since, as stated, this is old shit.

nd please, stop making your race into your entire personality, its honestly extremely boring to see,

qwe45t4weqw324s I see. Are my comments only valid if I talk about my or ADM’s neurodivergence? Because that is what LM did. And that’s what you mentioned as well.

Why can’t I make my race my entire personality, in a conversation triggered by a charatcer’s BLACKNESS, but white people can throw in their mental health and past experiences in a situation has nothing to do with it?

Is LM’s autism her entire personality then? Your whiteness seems to be yours -- because they really weren’t kidding about it being a brain rotting drug.

you all use the same language and put labels on yourself to make people seem racist whenever you feel likI e it

I just felt like bolding this.

im not and never caree about adms race, and mind you, i never mentioned it here,

You didnt mention her race but you did mention race. 

what i did, is call out the ridiculous actions of this very special individual with zero compassion.

You made a callout over a months old situation. And you did it - as stated - making a lot of assumptions about people / a situation, you seem to know nothing about.

If it mattered so much to you, why did you not say something back then? I did. I messaged LM privately, with consideration to her point and asked her to please consider mine. And she didn’t say bupkis. Maybe if I had sent a direct @ and talked about how her fic triggered me, she would have paid me attention.

Someone writes about how this whole thing made them want to kill themselves and the first thing you do is make this about race,

Let me phrase it another way for you: Someone called out what they felt was racism, and the person who did the act decided they wanted to make it about their mental illness [instead of take accountability]. Does that make sense to you? As I said before, LM is allowed to react how she wants or feel how she wants -- but weren’t YOU the one who just said that LM and you arent responsible for any reactions sent to ADM, I take that to mean that you refute responsibility to how SHE reacts and feels ... I am confused as to why what is good for the goose isnt good for the gander?

and try to put me in the light of some white opressor whos jumping on them.

I mean I didn’t say that but if you FEEL that way. /shrugs

You’re over 30, yet you feel pressed about me defending someone whos in their 22

Dang, Iet me go tell my in her 60s supervisor and in her 80s aunt they can never speak to my benefit, even tho they care about me. It seems defense only for those in the same age gap. Gonna go leave my not even double digits cousins to the elements.

Adm can take criticism? Yeah by telling whoever criticised them to kys, and labelling the person as a ‘white girlie’

She did not. And okay, I’m done with this. White girle is the indignant hill you wanna die on?

Will I be accused of telling you to kill yourself bc I said die?

Question: Did you even read LMs post? Or did you run here like a little doggie the first chance you got?

Well, I mean it takes a bitch to know a bitch, right dear? Woof, woof.

But I did! But seeing I am the only one here who can process information. I will let you continue to think that post where she justified shit bc her brown friends said it was fine “acknowledgment”.

I hope you have a peaceful day! Deep breaths, darling! No need to respond back~

I hope you're proud of yourself, couch warriors of the wayhaven fandom, specifically you, @ava-du-mortain who can only pick on people like @/ladiemars from the security of your big horse and immersive ego. The fandom is basically a cess pool full of entitled people who are too weird about FICTIONAL characters, but you honestly raised the bar for me. Do you realise that your actions have consequences, or do you just type shit out and think that whatever comes out of your empty skull is justified??

How many times does @seraphinitegames have to tell you all to be normal?? Do you not realise that your behaviour is directly reflecting on the work that you are so fiercely protecting?

Do you seriously think that if you go around telling people to not interact with someone because you have some wild ideas in your head about that person, that the author is going to do what? Pat you on your head? Or the character you're defending is going to say thank you??? Or that putting a bunch of labels on yourself and covering yourself in an image where you appear as someone oh so compassionate is justifying the way you behave or the kind of things you say?

Wake up, you're not in kindergarten anymore, and this isn't your playground where you indicate your own rules, for the love of god I do not believe in, you HAVE to act your age, because this is embarrassing. You don't like some blog? Block them, move on. You don't have to bring them on the verge of suicide and make them seek therapy just to feel better about yourself.

You're not earning any brownie points for your shitty behaviour.