#maybe actual try and reach out to people into feedism

[astralsbigworld]

having a partner that’s into like mutual gaining? would be so good. Because the more I think about it that would be so good, someone to eat with because I already share snacks without thinking about it. The mindless feeding myself and someone else

I’d love to be stuffed while i’m actively feeding someone else, encouraging them and they’re doing the same to me. Having someone to show off progress to and praise as they’d praise me, show off their own progress to them <333

[magickman1234]

The Danger of Denial

God babe, look at you! How can you ignore what I’ve done to you? I know you come hard and long until you hurt it turns you on so much but is the obesity worth mobility issues? I know you enjoyed the freedom of giving in to obesity but you’re no longer 280, nor just 300 or 350. You’re over 400! You’re not just lightly inconvenienced now you really are experiencing your favorite weight gain stories now. You barely fit into normal chairs babe. You can’t fit in booths and I’ll need to start getting you a second chair if I’m honest. I see you pretend it’s not so and leaving it to me to fix. God is it worth it though? You’re dependent on me more and more but you pretend you aren’t. You’ve let denial be your main method and avoidance. Excuses and trying to pretend you’re in charge. I mean it’s hot to watch you slowly develop real mobility issues, get too fat for booths and barely fit through tiny hotel bathroom doors but it adds up. You’re totally helpless now. You just come harder when I’ve told you this and it’s like it’s a game to you. If we didn’t live in the USA you’d always be the fattest women hell person at every place or event we waddle you into. But fuck this last year it’s clear you’re so rotund you’re the fattest like 90-95% of the time. Yes our region isn’t as fat as others but it’s got lots of fat and super sized people. You seriously are so fat I have to take you to a buffet to guarantee you’re outclassed. I hate to say it but your now peers with even the ssbbws and smaller usssbbw. You’re over 400 now you’ll literally never be able to get your old body back and I catch you eating all the time faster when you realize it. I’ve made you so greedy you steal my food and you convince yourself you bring food for me that’s clearly for you. You’re in denial that you’re not a greedy sow like you are. I’ll be lucky if I can keep you from actually hitting 450 in the next six months to a year. We’ve both gotten in denial how turned on you get at the darkest shit in feedism. You’re seriously addicted to humiliation. I teased you about winning a free meal at that heart attack grill last month and when I brought it up again you went so wild. I’ve never seen you come so hard so long! You’re out of actual control between the pleasure of food, your gluttony for humiliation and your utter arousal when I catch a new roll/stretchmark/mobility issue I point out to you. You’re so in denial about the reality but the reality when I point it out turns you on more. You used to be so active more dominate sexually well a switch but you submit and give in to your gluttony without thought. Remember you used to be an accomplished feeder too? Maybe more of a feeder but once I got you set free yourself you slowly stopped cooking or actively focus on feeding others. You let me ply you with treats and lazing in our living room. Sure you might get busy or get things done still but it’s becoming it’s own denial as you’ve now can do it all without getting up much. You’re so hopeless now as rolls and belly fat escape your clothes to a humiliating degree but you stuff your fat face eagerly. You say nothing when I give you sweets or chips or whatever I know will turn to pure lard because honestly I’ve made you way too lazy. Lazy on levels that embarrass you when it’s just me and you let alone around others. The tasty denial of a fat girl turned utter butterball tries to pretend to be busy or uses real business to cover it’s getting hard or exhausting to do it herself. I can see it in your eyes the highly suppressed humiliation and fear when you reach for something or waddle your fat ass across “challenging” room or space that even to your average fat girl would never find restrictive or hard to pass through. You know. You lived at the nice crossroads of fat but not truly humiliatingly fat for year well then you met me. Now grazing and multiple desserts and snacks are the norm. You’re hopeless, helpless and literally blowing up with fat. You relish and fantasize about the next humiliation so hard you only come harder as you surpass each limit you hit.

[thaenad]

I didn't want to blow up the replies lmao, but other thoughts I had related to your post about whether additional marking and warnings are needed on feedist or kink social media content:

You kind of touched on this in another post, but bodily consent and reading or seeing things you don't like are not equivalent and framing it that way plays directly into good ol' anti-kink swerf & terf ideology. (Like you said, the whole "kink shouldn't be at pride because seeing someone in a collar makes me uncomfy" thing)

I just think that adding a trigger warning to any and all kink content, like I said, doesn't do anything tagging doesn't already do, and also frames kink as something bad and scary that we have to do everything in our power to protect people from. That's a branch of the anti-sex and anti-porn… tree (metaphor got weird sorry) that's currently leading to stuff like the legislation trying to make its foothold in the US rn requiring gov IDs to access porn

There is research that suggests trigger warnings don't actually do anything (I haven't done a deep dive into the actual research articles though tbh)

In terms of the aspect of this issue of feedist posts that are tagged with 'fat', which non-feedists vocally dislike: tbh, I've never seen a feedist post that was tagged 'fat' and didn't also have like 12 feedist-related tags. When people are complaining about there 'always' being 'so much' feedist content in the non-kink tags, idk maybe it's rude of me but like, if you didn't like it the first time you went into the tag, then blacklist the tags and terms you don't like before you go back to the tag a second time. I agree that feedists probably shouldn't use non-kink tags on their explicitly kinky posts (which is different from fat feedists posting non-kink photos of and text posts about themselves from their kink blog), but there is an easier fix than trying to make the feedists who don't really care about how they tag change how they tag.

If somebody doesn't want their content to be shared and potentially reach people who don't want to see it then like… I do absolutely get it but social media/the Internet are public 'places' and we don't have control over where the content goes after we put it out there. Maybe that's also harsh but the only way to make 100% sure no one sees your posts if they don't want to is to not make public posts at all.

You're right, the first time someone sees content they don't like, they won't know what tags to block, but if there was a warning that said "⚠️ this is a feedist post! ⚠️" someone who doesn't know what feedism is will still read the post and then be like 'oh, turns out I don't like that', so the warning doesn't do anything for a newbie either.

So, tl;dr, there are tools available to all of us to help curate our online experience, and it's cool when everybody uses them, but also, the mindset of feeling like you have to do your utmost at all times to never cause anyone else discomfort is not very helpful at the end of the day and isn't a very fun time either

all good points here, I think I’ll let this ask stand on its own!