#marriageprep

[seyifulfilled]

[metromedi-2022]

Metromedi Pre-Marriage Counseling

Marriage is a significant milestone in one’s life, and building a successful and fulfilling partnership requires understanding, communication, and shared values. Metromedi, a trusted healthcare provider, recognizes the importance of preparing couples for this lifelong journey and offers pre-marriage counseling services. In 2023, Metromedi introduced its Pre-Marriage Counseling program, providing couples with valuable insights, tools, and guidance to establish strong foundations for a lasting and harmonious union. This proactive approach to pre-marriage counseling aims to equip couples with the skills to navigate challenges, resolve conflicts, and foster a thriving relationship.

[karlinnda]

Bekal Pernikahanku Belum Utuh

Seringkali aku mendapat respon dari temen-temen seperti,

“Lu tinggal nyari laki aja sih. Udah bisa semuanya, apa yang kurang.”

“Kamu kapan dong dinikahin? Yaampun padahal enak banget jadi suami mu lin. Bisa dimasakin enak-enak mulu. Istriable banget.”

“Tapi, kakak kalo nikah tahun ini udah siap belum?”

Yaaa, memang yang aku bagikan di sosial media selama #dirumahaja lebih banyak soal masak-memasak atau mencoba menu baru.

Bukankah apa yang kita bagikan di sosial media lebih kepada kemampuan kita, kesenangan kita atau bahkan keunggulan di bidang tertentu ?

Begitu juga aku, yang senang masak dan menyalurkan hobi fotoku.

Mungkin itu yang jadi membentuk opini mereka kali ya.

Sesungguhnya apa yang terlihat di sosial media tidak sepenuhnya utuh.

Ada kesiapanku yang aku rasa belum penuh.

Dibalik kesempurnaan yang mereka lihat, ada kekhawatiranku yang belum runtuh.

Aku akan bilang ke mereka bahwa buatku menikah itu tidak semudah itu, maemunah.

Kemampuan yang aku share itu untuk menutupi kekuranganku.

Di saat kalian bekerja dengan beban kerja dan tanggung jawab yang berat, jam kerja yang ketat, tidak sempat untuk belajar masak, tapi mungkin keuangan kalian sudah mencukupi.

Sedangkan aku punya lebih banyak waktu buat belajar masak karena tanggung jawab menggantikan mama dan waktu bekerjaku yang lebih fleksibel.

Nah, di pekerjaanku saat ini, aku merasa belum settle, aman ketika harus melanjutkan ke pernikahan dan menjalani rumah tangga.

Cukup sih kalo cuma buat memenuhi kebutuhanku sendiri aja.

Tapi kan menikah bukan sekedar berputar pada diri sendiri kan?

Itu yang mungkin jadi beropini, “apa yang kurang ? apa lagi sih lin yang dicari?”

Pada akhirnya kita hanya wang sinawang kan?

Dan Allah Maha Mengetahui, diriku yang belum utuh.

Belum Allah tetapkan.

Belum Allah mantapkan

Pada akhirnya, belum Allah dekatkan hati ini berlabuh pada yang mana.

Yogyakarta, 18 April 2020

[mybodyliberation]

*Long Read* It was my final individual marriage prep class today (we have a few left as a couple). The reason I (and we) go is because its important to prepare yourself as you transition into new phases of your life. How we prepare be different for each of us. Within relationships its important to do the work of healing from past trauma and experiences so that we don't drag that pain into the building of something new. This last session was about the fact that as person I am still "becoming". It was profound and divine timing considering some of my personal thoughts today. I often feel fear over the incorrect narratives projected on me but honesty why live in fear of somebody else's projection? It's okay if I am not perfect in the eyes of everyone around me. I am not perfect. I will never be the perfect wife or mother. I will never be the perfect Christian, performer, advocate or activist, friend, daughter, sister or friend, but I stand ready to learn and grow. I remain ready to evolve. I trust in grace. I earnestly continue to become...me. Imperfect but loved. • • • • Ph// Aga Łapucha [Michelle stands beside a brick wall. She has one hand on her chest. She is looking to the side and she is smiling.] #wifetobe #marriageprep #heal #marriage #growth #nextchapter #growthmindset #becoming #new #rising #mindset #mindsetshift #priorities #blackwomen #dothework #strength #christian #christianwoman (at Edinburgh, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9WzruOnzz0/?igshid=urakdh6iy881

[rebirthwithlatoniataylor]

Someone told me, my Timeline reads like "I am woman hear me ROAR!" Let the record show the that birth of every roar comes from a PURRRR! I pur much more than I roar. LOL!!! _ _ Even the so-called "powerful" woman, has a tender side of her that needs nurture. The problem is we have been taught to think; EITHER This or That! Linear & Fixed; on the versions of POWER from the ROAR! _ _ Don't have emotions in biz, they tell you. Play like the big boys to be respected. Fight your way to the top & many have. None of that makes me Purrrrrrrr! _ _ My best ROAR in this work that is comes from BOTH this & that. I call it SACRED JUICE. The merge of Spiritual Power & the sweet spot of #PurposePleasurePassion. That's The Both/And Lifestyle I invite you to explore. _ _ Come on the journey of BOTH/And with me in 2020, or nottt!!! If you do, you'll LIVE The Law, feed your Sacred Feminine & Apply your FIERCENESS to accelerate your Love, Sex & Money Goals that make you Purrrrrr, to!!! ☆ You can have BOTH, or you can have it ALL! ☆ Learn More About "Sacred Juice" - A Monthly (Success) Accelerator ☆ Link in Bio ☆ #TheSacredJuiceAcelerator #SuccessMastermind #SpiritandSuccess #WomeninBusiness #BusinessandPleasure #MarriagePrep #relationshipstatus #loveandships #workingmomlife #mastermindgroup #FeminineLeadership #FemalePleasure #fierceandfearless #yingyang (at Atlanta Airport) https://www.instagram.com/p/B65e_9fhJMl/?igshid=1b91qu0vewrzp

[allylavalley-blog]

my fiancé and i volunteered to help at our church’s confirmation classes as small group leaders ... i am super grateful for the chance to start our life together by helping strengthen others in their faith 🕊 #sundayservice #catholic #marriageprep #couplegoals #casalavalley #walkbyfaith (at Saint John Vianney Catolic Church) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2cZ4OSBkMR/?igshid=1ez16qlczufjm

[jaysonlo]

About to speak at the Marriage Preparation for these couples. Excited for their next chapter in their life. #MarriagePrep #VictoryGreenhills https://www.instagram.com/p/BtplDybBjVr/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=16ciil9zsu9e7

[efia13]

Marriage prep round two, this time with unpasteurised Roquefort cheese, homemade grain free crackers, walnuts (from the bulk shop), Manuka honey and sliced apple and guava - to die for, but not easy to eat whilst explaining why I’m so sure I want to marry the wonderful man beside me 😍 • • • #efiaskitchen #marriageprep #grainfree #glutenfree #homemade #healthybaking #paleo #whole30 #unpasteurised #guthealth #christian #religion #weddingplanning #wifelife https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs0Epofnlap/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1jisndnmc3t0

[brandingsweetie-blog]

Yaaaaasss, perfectly said!! #issavibe #truthmovement #wednesdayflow #grownmanstatus #marriageprep #marriagefirst #marriagemotivation #worththewait #nothingsfree 💯💍#putaringonit #singlelife #singlemom #beyonce

[pidengski]

Last day @victorymakati #marriage #preparation #marriageprep #wednesday #october 👰🏻❤️🤵🏻 (at LPL Center)

[noellegraycreative]

I've been a wife before...but this next time around, i want to do it the right way....God's way. #GodlyGirlsClub #MarriagePrepWorkshop #marriageprep @rebeccalynnpope (at NM Cafe at Neiman Marcus)

[mgcpuzzles]

Marriage proposal jigsaw puzzles. - Hand carved wooden jigsaw puzzles with proposing marriage in mind. Typically 75, 100 or 150 pieces carved from photographs of the couple or of a romantic piece of art. #proposing #marriageproposal #marriageproposals #marriageproposalideas #marriageproposalpuzzle #proposalpuzzle #puzzleproposal #willyoumarryme #willyoubemybridesmaid #willyoubemygirlfriend #willyougotopromwithme #willyougooutwithme #romanticpuzzle #uniquemarriageproposal #uniqueproposals #unusualmarriageproposals #marriageprep #weddingplanningfun #weddingproposal #weddingproposals

[precanacourses]

The 4 A's of a relationship. Don't wait until your relationship is on the rocks. #MarriagePrep #Blog #RelationshipExpert http://tinyurl.com/ybo97eyv

[mybodyliberation]

Okay yall, the working day is done (sorry performer/creative friends yall still going strong - you got this), stick on the kettle, make a cup of tea, get into the comfy chair and let's chat. Relationships. Going through our marriage prep sessions has been so insightful and its opened a really wonderful dialogue in which we talk about how to continue growing as a couple! When we pour our efforts into the foundation (communication, compromise, respect, faith etc.) We put less stock into the aesthetics (appearances, money, self gratification etc). That in mind, what would you say is one of the most important aspects of a strong relationship foundation? • • • Ph// @gracewellsphoto Dress// @fandfclothing [Michelle sits outside a cafe drinking a cup of tea and looking out into the distance.] #marriage #relationships #advice #relationshipadvice #foundation #relationshipskills #relationshipmanagement #marriageprep #marriagecounseling #weddingadvice #marriagetoday #partnership #relationships101 (at Café Rouge - Edinburgh) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8uHxaVn9TO/?igshid=1lxjfis7bw6k

[snmphoto]

Here we go #marriageprep #curtains #napkins #placesettings #notcrochetforonce #boogerandpoptart http://ift.tt/2oke9fc

[sleepingbeautysisters-blog]

Your singleness is bigger than you. Your future marriage is bigger than you. But you won’t be able to experience all that God intends during those seasons with toxic people, thoughts, and patterns around. It’s time to break the cycles of what’s keeping you from experiencing the relationship desires of your heart. Join the FREE 4 Day #BreakTheCycle Challenge with me! (LINK IN BIO) #christiandating #datinggodsway #singleness #faith #love #marriageprep