#lutawolf

[kwonzoshi]

“I’m a Dom, you can’t respect me then you don’t get to us the nonnie ask. Period.”

Ohhh Luta... you absolute fucking wanker.

This is TUMBLR DOT COM, not your sex dungeon. You don’t get to use your “dom” card on people without their consent, and trying to do so because you’re being held accountable for the wild comparisons you were making, is weirdo behavior. 

How you can use your blog and your reach so IRRESPONSIBLY is astonishing. You sit on this weird high horse and for what? You think that posting long “articulated” posts means that people don’t get to call you out when you say outta pocket/insensitive shit? Cause you are INCORRECT, my darling.

And to the people messaging this cunt talking about some “don’t let the hate get to you”... y’all realize your lil “dom” friend (who instead of using that “dom mentality” to accept she was wrong and LEARN, just blocked people like the submissive little bitch she actually is) was comparing Build’s situation with the HOLOCAUST?! Comparing it to one of the most tragic cases of racism in this country?!

If you’re going to be ANYTHING in this world, be fucking serious. 

I am trying my HARDEST to be civli, I really am but I am ANGRY. How dare you sit here and act like what you said was, not only incorrect, but COMPLETELY insensitive to the communities affected by these horrible vile things. Build, a known woman hater, being accused of hurting a woman IN NO WAY compares to Emmett Till being murdered. This situation is not comparable to the Holocaust AKA the LITERAL ATTEMPTED GENOCIDE of Jewish people. 

You are WAY too old to act this willfully ignorant. WAY. TOO. OLD. 

[kinnsporsche]

i also want to thank you for responding (publicly and clearly) to that person. i've been avoiding all the drama but something like can't be let go and absolutely requires a response. i'm still in shock that ET's name was even THOUGHT of in this case. it's ludicrous. i briefly scrolled their page before blocking and people are actually sending a bunch of supportive messages?! man fandom sucks sometimes.

hi hi nonnie!! sorry for the late reply i was sick today and yesterday

it's literally baffling how much support they have, and also baffling how the people they're mainly going after are black women when i (a WHITE person) am literally the one who started all this and i feel so incredibly guilty and awful that they've become her targets it's ridiculous

i dont, and will never, regret calling her out for being ignorant and (whether intentionally or not) racist, but i do feel so awful that she's continuing to target the black community

im blocked but i just got told she took the post down, not because she felt what she said was bad or wrong or inappropriate, but because it upset a friend? nevermind the effect it had on an entire community

and then added this? despite the fact that when i and a few other people called her out we didn't add anything about the build situation, but rather the audacity to use emmett till as an example of cancel culture? i just cant understand the victim mentality behind being told what you've posted is harmful by a community that you're NOT a part of, and then doubling down and basically going 'actually its not its your fault you cant read properly'

her witch hunt against @negrowhat @piningintrovert and @kwonzoshi is out of hand

i don't understand how she's turned this into taking sides when the problem stemmed from her essentially conflating the murder of a 14 year old black boy with cancel culture? how are there sides to this when the exact community you used as an example have told you how hurtful and damaging this comparison is, and then you proceed to say 'no it isnt' and play the victim when you continue to get called out on your behaviour?

ily anon and i hope theres some small comfort in knowing that even though she has vocal supporters, there are more people against her and that racist take than there are supporting her ♥

[piningintrovert]

You address me and then block me when I respond? That's not very Dom-like behavior, now is it Luta?

You can do whatever the fuck you want, but keep my name out of your mouth. I have never spoken to you or attacked you on anon and I don't plan on starting anytime soon. Who are you to hide from? Also, I have never mentioned your children and don't condone those who are bringing them into this so let's make one thing abundantly clear:

You better be damn sure of who your aggressors are before you open your mouth and start spewing accusations. THAT was your original point, wasn't it?

For those just joining this shit show, below is my response to a post in which Luta directly addressed me. As I predicted, she blocked me so her followers won't see it.

I'm posting it again for transparency. Take from it what you will, but I won't allow anyone to put words in my mouth or silence me.

—

Original Post

How does it feel to be so loud and so wrong? There must be some kind of dopamine hit involved to have your head so far up your ass that you fail to see reason, but don't worry. I got you.

The anon above is not me. I only addressed this with you twice: under your initial post (original has been deleted) in a comment you deleted (I usually keep receipts in these situations because people end up showing their asses, but I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt) and in the ask you won't publish because it does not align with your rhetoric. But again, don't worry. I got you.

Hi, Luta. After you deleted my comment, I've been going back and forth on whether or not I should address this again, but I decided to give it one last shot given our history. Your point and opinion on the situation are not wrong. The issue is you using Emmett Till's tragic, very racially-motivated case to emphasize and bolster your point when it was not needed. It comes across as tone-deaf because, although it may not have been your intention, there is an implicit comparison being made. The circumstances of each case are vastly different and cannot be placed alongside each other in this way. That is point I and others are trying make.

You always preach about being open to discourse despite differing viewpoints as long it's done with respect. I guess that only applies when it's on your terms, huh? I do not want or need access to your blog so spare me that holier-than-thou mess. Who tf do you think you are? I addressed you directly and respectfully. Yet here you are talking out the side of your neck with this bullshit.

Let's go, then.

I did NOT say you were drawing a direct comparison. I said that there is an unintentional, implicit comparison being made. This happened just by having both cases present in the discussion.

Since you like to bring up literacy, let's have a quick vocabulary lesson:

unintentional (adj) - not done on purpose implicit (adj) - implied though not plainly expressed

Got it? Good.

So yes, you're damn right I feel some type of way. I am witnessing a horrific tragedy in my history being used in an asinine way. I and other Black people are telling you the use of Emmett's case in this context is in tone-deaf, offensive and hurtful and instead of listening and trying to understand, you decide to double-down, go on a diatribe, and backpedal in postscript when people call you out? Be fucking for real.

Our history did matter @lutawolf which is why I came to you directly hoping you would see where I was coming from, but that's on me for being naïve.

[acacia-luna-royal]

I can’t wait for this! I can’t believe it’s nearly been a year already… where the fuck has the time gone?! 😱😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Hello Kinnporsche fans!

To celebrate the 1 year anniversary of Kinnporsche: The Series, starting from the beginning of April, we’ll be hosting an event to show our appreciation for this show! There will be 14 prompts running across 14 weeks - one prompt a week, every week, beginning on April 2nd (exactly one year after the show started airing)!  

We’ve decided to do 2 sets of prompts: one with more specific prompts aimed towards graphics/gifsets, and one with looser prompts aimed towards fics, but you can pick from either list, or mix and match to your hearts content! You can participate in as many or as few prompts as you’d like, and you can, of course, make multiple gifs/edits/fics for the same prompt - the main thing is to have fun.

You can tag your creations with #kpappreciation if you’d like us to see them! Have fun, and happy creating!

Prompt list one:

week 1 (april 2 - april 9): favourite main character(s)

week 2 (april 10 - april 16): favourite supporting character(s)

week 3 (april 17 - april 23): outfit(s)

week 4 (april 24 - april 30): favourite romantic relationship(s)

week 5 (may 1st - may 7th): favourite platonic relationship(s)

week 6 (may 8th - may 14th): quote(s)

week 7 (may 15th - may 21st): location

week 8 (may 22nd - may 28th): favourite antagonist/villain

week 9 (may 29th - june 4th): favourite scene(s)

week 10 (june 5th - june 11th): weapon(s)

week 11: (june 12th - june 18th): favourite trope(s)

week 12: (june 19th - june 25th): underrated moment(s)

week 13 (june 26th - july 2nd): favourite behind the scenes/tour moment(s)

week 14 (july 3rd - july 9th): free choice! feel free to make anything you like!

Prompt list two:

week 1 (april 2 - april 9): beginning

week 2 (april 10 - april 16): phoenix

week 3 (april 17 - april 23): confession

week 4 (april 24 - april 30): power

week 5 (may 1st - may 7th): guilt

week 6 (may 8th - may 14th): growth

week 7 (may 15th - may 21st): sins

week 8 (may 22nd - may 28th): music

week 9 (may 29th - june 4th): ghost

week 10 (june 5th - june 11th): sacrifice

week 11: (june 12th - june 18th): love

week 12: (june 19th - june 25th): family

week 13 (june 26th - july 2nd): truth

week 14 (july 3rd - july 9th): free choice! feel free to make anything you like!

[bl-bam-beyond]

Socially Awkward Guy (KRITTANUN AUNCHANANUN aka PING) is a lonely guy as an introvert. To his luck a gorgeous new friend introduces himself. His name is Whan (TANATAT KUNANEKSIN aka WINNER). And Whan is a beautiful man with a beautiful smile and Guy quickly falls for this stunner.

Sadly, at least for now Whan isn't into guys. Ready to reveal his feelings on Whan's birthday he's disappointed as Whan brings a long a girl. A girl that usurps his confession with one of her own. His best friend and crush is now taken.

Devastated Guy feels he's not for the real world but instead he's more suited for an online existence. So he begins an online game. Meeting many friends including Yuri. As the gamers decides to meet offline. The gamers want Idealize (Guy) to get the cagey Yuri to join. Believing Yuri is a female. Guy prepares to meet this new friend offline...but alone. Surprise is in store.

MY DEAR GANGSTER OPPA (2023, THAILAND)

Based on webtoon THE IDEAL RELATIONSHIP

Episode 1 (THE PREMIERE)

Post 1 of 2

@pose4photoml

@lutawolf HAPPY BIRTHDAY

[thequeenofsastiel]

D/s Dynamics in Episode 9 of I Will Knock You-Thi's Point of View

This is the second week of collaborating with @lutawolf on examining the D/s relationship between Thi and Noey. She's taking Noey's pov while I'm taking Thi's.

The first part I'll focus on is Thi's reaction to Noey's attitude about Phayu in the morning. He's clearly a little embarrassed by Noey's possessiveness, but he doesn't say anything. And when Noey threatens to hit Thi if he sees Thi go anywhere with Phayu, Thi clearly takes what Noey said seriously, but he doesn't protest even slightly. He pouts the tiniest bit, but he's entirely accepting Noey's authority. Just like when Noey threatened to hurt him if Thi didn't get on his bike back in ep 6. Thi very easily could have gone back upstairs and locked the door. But he didn't. He scurried to get his helmet and came right back down. He consistently accepts Noey's authority. He's almost always some degree of sulky or resistant, but he'll do as he's told. And if he truly doesn't want to do something, he's capable of letting Noey know, and Noey backs down.

Thi has gotten more obedient in general, though. He felt submissive to Noey from the start(side note I rewatched the first couple of episodes and jfc do they react to each other the way a feral Dom and timid yet needy sub do), but the longer they've known each other, the more Thi has seen that Noey, while not always the most mature, has Thi's best interests at heart. That kind of faith inspires obedience from Thi. Even if your Dom is scary, you know that they'll never hurt you in a way you can't handle. They're always protecting you, however strict they happen to be. Thi's trust in Noey was very apparent this episode.

One of things I truly loved about their dynamic in ep 9 is the fact that the way they positively influence each other was strongly on display. Noey, despite his admittedly childish reaction to Phayu, was overall calmer and less aggressive towards those around him. He was helpful, and polite. Thi was much braver and more outspoken. Especially with Noey. Some might assume that this means that their D/s dynamic is diminishing, but it's not. It's simply growing into something much more stable. Thi knows that he can make a joke about smacking or spanking Noey and that Noey won't get angry. That he can be a little demanding, like when he refused to go downstairs to meet Noey after getting off the phone with his mother, gesturing for Noey to come upstairs.

Regardless, he's obedient. He didn't go off alone with Phayu after he was forbidden to, he stayed in bed after he was ordered to, he didn't argue when Noey said that he didn't consider Thi his senior, because he planned to make Thi his boyfriend. Despite the fact that they were surrounded by people.

Also the way they spoke to each other at the end of the episode was a great demonstration of how comfortable they've grown with each other. Thi made playful jokes like he was the Dom, and Noey, even though he laughed, made it clear that he was the one in charge, saying that Thi was "under" him. Thi smiled at that and ducked his head. Noey added that Thi shouldn't forget how tough Noey is just because Noey's been soft and sweet. I think Noey wanted to make it clear that his sweetness towards Thi did not change the fact that he was in charge. And Thi didn't fight him on this even slightly.

Honestly, I just love how much they adore each other. What they have isn't easy for most people to understand, as evidenced by the way so many characters looked sideways at their relationship in this ep. And I think that reaction had a lot more to do with Noey's treatment of Thi than the age difference. His behavior could very easily be misinterpreted as abuse. But it's not. It's what they both want and need, and the mutual understanding of that between each other increases with every episode. In this one, the romantic love was at the forefront, because Noey has that old fashioned vibe that he's cultivated, and wants to court Thi.

He also feels like he needs to prove to Thi that he's worthy of him, which is honestly an excellent Dom move. Noey knows that he needs to grow up, understands that there are ways in which he's immature. And he knows that if he remains that way, he's never going to be able to take care of Thi the way Thi needs. And he truly, truly wants to be a good Dom and a good faen. I think it'll be a few years before either of them can put words to the kink dynamic they have, but for all their inexperience, they're doing an excellent job at navigating their kink dynamic with no outside help. They were so natural and so much more comfortable with each other in this episode. Their relationship has continued to improve as time has passed, and I think they have a bright future.

That's all for this ep! Don't forget to read the one @lutawolf put out.

[liyazaki]

tinn's dad- aka the most dad to ever dad | requested by @lutawolf 🖤

MY SCHOOL PRESIDENT | EP. 12 [2022-2023]

bonus: and the wingman award goes to...

[kwonzoshi]

Let me just CACKLE, Imma break it down cause this is UNHINGED.

1.) I am a mother. I have a 7 year old daughter whom I love dearly. I would never, and I mean NEVER, send hate to a child (neither would Rae or Eboni). I MENTIONED Luta’s children because SHE did so, and it was in NO WAY hateful. You can look through my blog, all my posts are still there.

2.) I don’t even have an AO3 account, I stopped reading fanfiction a LONG time ago. I write sometimes, but I don’t post even though everyone I have shown my writing to, tells me to do so. I didn’t even know where those screenshots that were sent to us came from, Eboni had to tell me.. LIKEEE...

3.) Accusing people BY NAME, with ZERO proof nor evidence is absolutely bonkers. Especially considering the entire reason for this back and forth was LUTA’S post about “witch hunts with no evidence”... So how are you going to be the BIGGEST hypocrite and try to paint yourself as the victim? 

4.) Allowing your nonblack friends to weigh in on this topic and basically push the “angry black woman” card is as antiblack as it gets. And yes, I said it. You and your friends are being antiblack.

5.) I tagged Luta directly, asking her to come talk about the issue. I was OPEN to dialogue BEFORE I made my post. You can scroll down my blog and see that as well. Again, I have NOTHING TO HIDE. 

6.) The comparison you made, albeit accidental or not, was TONE DEAF and INSENSITIVE. You tried to compare the Build situation to something that is not even on the same PLANE of existence. It was SO EASY to just admit you messed up, apologize and move on... but now we are here. 

Lastly, I wanna understand what this means and why you’re laughing at something with homophobic undertones while you are an AVID consumer of the BL genre...

Hmmmm... okay. That is all I have to say here. None of us sent hate to your children, and the fact you are trying to accuse us with zero proof is weird, bud. But you do you Luta. You do you.

Y'all friend Luta is a wack job...why she talking about us on ao3? And threatening legal action? Ma'am...are you ok?

[bengiyo]

Take 2 haha

For the character break down, Segasaki from My Personal Weatherman :)

I deeply appreciate your patience on this one. I originally answered this one but then Tumblr ate the ask for some reason. I had a busy weekend, so here's our second attempt!

How I feel about this character

I actually really like this absolute mess of a man. I'm not in kink culture, but this was one of the shows I felt I benefited the most from reading @lutawolf reactions for. I found his devotion to Yoh really compelling, and I really enjoyed how completely Yoh often misunderstood him. I also had a blast with his flares of jealousy and deeply unhinged behavior around it. It's rare that we get characters with intensely sexual relationships that are this out of emotional alignment, and I really liked digging into why Segasaki liked Yoh, and how much heteronormativity fueled their mess.

All the people I ship romantically with this character

Just Yoh. He would probably be mad if I thought he had eyes for anyone else.

My non-romantic OTP for this character

I genuinely don't remember him having a friend or confidant to talk to in this show. Still, I enjoyed every scene he had with Manju.

My unpopular opinion about this character

I don't know if it's unpopular or not, but I actually really hated the school flashback stuff. It felt a bit divergent from the character read we had earlier on his dynamic with Yoh, and I felt like I got confused.

One thing I wish would happen / had happened with this character in canon.

I really wish they had gotten a second season or a movie, because I genuinely feel like they left this story unfinished. Segasaki and Yoh had finally started talking to each other, but I don't feel like we had resolved the issues with them.

[kissablelips-desireslure-vol1]

WE BEST LOVE (2021)

SAM LIN (as Shi De)

&

MURUYAMA YUSUKE aka YU (as Shu Yi)

@pose4photoml @lutawolf @absolutebl

[bl-bam-beyond2-sidecoupleblog]

WE ARE: THE SERIES (2024, THAILAND)

Episode 14

Some special moments between Chain (NATARIT WORAKORNLERTSITH aka MARC) and his best friend slash secret love Pun (POON MITPAKDEE)

At this point I'll take what I can get.

@pose4photoml @lutawolf @just-another-boyslove-blog @absolutebl @wanderlust-in-my-soul

[piningintrovert]

How does it feel to be so loud and so wrong? There must be some kind of dopamine hit involved to have your head so far up your ass that you fail to see reason, but don't worry. I got you.

The anon above is not me. I only addressed this with you twice: under your initial post in a comment you deleted (I usually keep receipts in these situations because people end up showing their asses, but I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt) and in the ask you won't publish because it does not align with your rhetoric. But again, don't worry. I got you.

Hi, Luta. After you deleted my comment, I've been going back and forth on whether or not I should address this again, but I decided to give it one last shot given our history. Your point and opinion on the situation are not wrong. The issue is you using Emmett Till's tragic, very racially-motivated case to emphasize and bolster your point when it was not needed. It comes across as tone-deaf because, although it may not have been your intention, there is an implicit comparison being made. The circumstances of each case are vastly different and cannot be placed alongside each other in this way. That is point I and others are trying make.

You always preach about being open to discourse despite differing viewpoints as long it's done with respect. I guess that only applies when it's on your terms, huh? I do not want or need access to your blog so spare me that holier-than-thou mess. Who tf do you think you are? I addressed you directly and respectfully. Yet here you are talking out the side of your neck with this bullshit.

Let's go, then.

I did NOT say you were drawing a direct comparison. I said that there is an unintentional, implicit comparison being made. This happened just by having both cases present in the discussion.

Since you like to bring up literacy, let's have a quick vocabulary lesson:

unintentional (adjective) - not done on purpose implicit (adjective) - implied though not plainly expressed

Got it? Good.

So yes, you're damn right I feel some type of way. I am witnessing a horrific tragedy in my history being used in an asinine way. I and other Black people are telling you the use of Emmett's case in this context is in tone-deaf, offensive and hurtful and instead of listening and trying to understand, you decide to double-down, go on a diatribe, and backpedal in postscript when people call you out? Be fucking for real.

Our history did matter @lutawolf which is why I came to you directly hoping you would see where I was coming from, but that's on me for being naïve.

You compared build jakapan with Emmett till?!

No, I didn't you, daft illiterate. Your ability to use critical thinking skills is far too low to be anywhere near my blog. My 17-year-old is smarter than you, which isn't hard because she's smart, but you don't even have the comprehension skills of a 17-year-old.

This has nothing to do you with Build you moronic imbecile. Would you like me to copy and paste the text for you. Like I do with my seven-year-old? Where in my text did I defend Build? Hmm... I'll wait. Oh! No. I won't, because you've already proven you are incapable of intelligence.

I said, that it is safer to not make an assumption and reaction without proof. That there are reasons that we have learned to wait for proof before destroying a person's life, be it actually physically or mentally. Otherwise, you end up with wrongful convictions like Adnan Syed based on testimonies that were not concrete. That you can disagree with something and walk away, but you can't fix some things. You can't come back from some things.

Being wrongfully accused of criminal offenses can lead to serious negative consequences for those wrongfully accused and their families. And their families, let's remember that many people are involved in a dispute of this nature. Many people are harmed in a dispute of this nature. The psychological consequences of wrongful accusations will affect the lives of those accused seriously, even after exoneration or overturning of convictions. It will also affect their parents, partners, and kids. Just as my actual sexual assault had an effect on this. I saw the effect of what my assault did to the parents of my abusers. In my case, it had to be done, but I would never want to see someone go through that ANYONE, without proof.

If you believe someone is evil, then by all means walk away. But there is a justice system for a reason. And it thanks in large part to those who have been marginalized. I'm Native American and yes it is because of this that I experienced the abuse I did. Why it was so easy to abuse me. Thanks in part to the outcry of marginalized Native American women, changes are happening. Many laws have been made and changed based on marginalized individuals. The justice system rarely gives us the justice we deserve, but it's still better than taking justice into our own hands. This isn't a show or movie, it's real life.

Say I accused your dad of abuse. I took pictures off the internet to show. I got nothing other than that. How would that affect you? And should we lock him up on nothing more than that. What if he already deals with depression, what if he loses his job? He'll likely commit suicide. You think that's okay. Do you think the people who accused without proof have no part in that destruction? That they are just allowed to go on a witch hunt based on their feelings alone. Or that this wouldn't negatively affect you.

So once again for those in the back! This isn't about Build. This is about not being part of a witch hunt. If Build is found guilty by the courts, I will be right there with you guys calling for justice. More so because I know what it's like to survive that shit. But if it were my husband being accused, I'd want there to be proof. I wouldn't want my life capsized based on words alone. And I can't comprehend a society in which someone even thinks it's okay. But it used to be like that. People from the witch trials, to the civil rights movement, the French Revolution, holocaust, and many more events in history. So many of you are headed in a direction in which other people do the thinking for you. And it's so mind-boggling to me.

If you don't like what I say... Then block me. You have that right. But these comments can't touch me. I know who I am and my worth. At the end of the day, I know that I'm a decent human being. And I will not censor what I'm saying on my blog to fit your feelings. It's my blog. Just block me. I'm okay with that. I'm not here for a popularity contest. I'm here to find like-minded individuals, and mutual who want to have discussions. And let me assure you that everyone who responds will just be blocked by me.

[bl-bam-beyond-markyourcalendars]

MARK YOUR CALENDAR BL FANS, BECAUSE ANOTHER SAMMON NOVEL ADAPTATION IS ON THE WAY.

NOVEMBER 28, 2024 which is Thanksgiving Day is said to be the premiere of SPARE ME YOUR MERCY adapted from SAMMON NOVEL EUTHANASIA.

This series will have 8 episodes and stars TOR THANAPOB & JJ KRISSANAPOOM.

ORIGINAL NETWORK: ONE D

Every BL fan should know SAMMON rather you like her work or not. She is the original creator of such works as MANNER OF DEATH, TRIAGE, MAKE A WISH AND BITE ME.

And she is the screenwriter of: DFF (DEAD FRIEND FOREVER AND 4 MINUTES as well as upcoming GL PETRICHOR and 4 MINUTES UPCOMING SEQUEL 8 HOURS.

IT'S OFFICIAL INTERNATIONAL FANS. IQIYI WILL AIR THIS SAMMON ADAPTATION IN THE UNIVERSE OF MANNER OF DEATH.

@pose4photoml @just-another-boyslove-blog @absolutebl @lutawolf @wanderlust-in-my-soul

[piningintrovert]

My final words regarding this mess

I had written another post to bookend this whole situation but since she dm'ed me last night, I'll instead let my response to her message speak for itself.

She can share her message to me if she wants to, but I won't be posting here it out of respect for her privacy.

Again, take from it what you will, but I will not be addressing her or this situation anymore.

Note: Anything that is written in [brackets] has been added for context/transparency and is not part of my original message.

I did not attack you in that comment. I politely addressed you and pointed out the issue. You may have been seeing red from previous comments but the one from me should not have garnered that kind of response from you. Friendship goes both ways — if my comment felt off, you could have also dm'ed me to address it but the way that you replied to that anon thinking that it was me tells me all I need to know about how much our friendship meant to you. To make matters worse, you immediately blocked me and didn't allow your followers to see my rightfully angered response. Then you let them berate and badmouth me in your comments and asks. You did this — you burned the bridge and created this storm. Now you have to live with it and I really hope you learn from it. I see that you took down your response to me [linked above] but the posts where you accuse me, Eboni and Zo of things we did not do are still up [which is pushing the narrative that she is without blame, making my anger and response seem unprovoked]. I am asking you to take them down. I had a post queued up to address them and this situation one last time but I'll take you messaging me 2 mins before it went up as a sign from the universe [because my tone would've admittedly been much harsher than it is here]. These would've been my final words to you on that post so I'll say them to you here: P. S. I know you're watching my blog because you deleted the line where you thanked me (liankuea) for helping you with your pinned masterlist after I mentioned it in a recent ask, but it'll live on forever in the reblogs as a evidence and a reminder that I've only ever had the best intentions towards you from the moment we met up until moment you decided to speak to me the way that you did. Unfortunately, I can no longer say the same for you. And you know what? That realization, as I unwittingly read your hate-filled response yesterday morning, actually broke my heart. With that, I have nothing more to say to you.

[destroy-some-evil]

So... I'm watching Until We Meet Again while waiting for more episodes of The Sign (because I need more reincarnated soulmates please and thank you).

And I can tell the narrative says this:

But my theory presupposes that maybe:

Look I get it - the narrative really wants us to buy that Korn is the "strong silent" type and Dean, as his reincarnation, is similar in attitude but a way better Dom because he learned from his past life and became better at caring for his loved ones. Meanwhile, Intouch was the "adorable cinnamon bun" in the past who couldn't cook and occasionally pushed Korn's boundaries, and now as Pharm, who can cook (character development!), is basically the perfect sub to Dean's Dom (yes, I read @lutawolf's post about the soft D/s moments in the series and clicked subscribe -what off it). I get that's the story they are showing. Also, I like the story it's been fun to watch and I'm looking forward to the last two episodes.

But - but what if

Korn who basically was forced to be the strong silent type because he was the eldest and not allowed to be soft with how his dad raised him. He just wanted read literature volume 4 or what ever but circumstances and society expected different of him. I don't know there is something sweet to think that in his next life he gets to be that soft boy who likes cooking. Who still takes care of those around but he doesn't have to force himself to be the visibly strong one all the time. Both Korn and Pharm were both the ones who were initially afraid of what it meant to love this person in front of them.

Meanwhile, Intouch, who just wanted to care for Korn, makes that the core of who he is in his next life. He's not as carefree as he once was, but he still loves to be in the water. (All In's suggestions for vacations related to water. The beach vacation they took and the raft one they never got to do.) He still loves teasing his boyfriend and he still makes it his life goal to make him happy. Also, he can now at least follow directions for cooking but it's not something expected of him. And on a more serious note, he's more able to protect Pharm than Intouch was able to protect Korn. Korn probably would have never allowed Intouch to protect him because he had to be the one in charge; even if, maybe, he didn't want to be. Also, both Intouch and Dean are the ones who see their other half and go, "yes, that's him. He's the one I'm going be with for the rest of my life." No hesitation, just plans for how he's going put a ring on it. (I also have a headcannon that Dean was the one to suggest the red thread faculty tours. His fellow classmates tease that Dean's thread is already picked out for Pharm. And in the past Intouch is the one to tie the red thread on Korn.)

I also get that visually the show wanted to associate that Intouch and Pharm look similar and that Korn and Dean look similar because that makes it easy.

But you know what stupid romantic is this post about the Japanese legend that you have the face of the person you loved the most in your previous life (okay so the post applying that legend to Avatar the Last Airbender but it's still stupid romantic).

Apply that to these two and tell me it's not sweet and romantic to think that they get reborn into the same families they were originally in and that they are surrounded by people who loved them in both their lives and now those people have grown and learned to support them AND they have the face of the person who they loved most in their past life.

Yes, I'm late to the party (I only found found out about how to get easy access to Thai BLs in October 2023 - thank you @talistheintrovert) but I have thoughts. Also this was fun.

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Tag Game - Poll: 5 Fav Characters

Challenge: Make a poll with five of your all time favourite characters, and then tag five people to do the same. See which character is everyone's favourite.

Tagged by @thisonelikesaliens & @mikuni14 Thank you so much ✨

I just couldn't pick one character, so here are pairs that are my all time favourites.

It was so hard to pick favs, and after I came up with this list I realised that I picked from Korean and Taiwanese BLs, but that doesn't mean I have any favs from Thai BL. Others I would have loved to put on this list- Ayan from The Eclipse, Boston from Only Friends, Tang Yi from HIStory 3: Trapped Charn from Laws of Attraction and many more.

No pressure tag: @yousaygoodbyeandisay @catatonicrainbow @sammie-lightwood-bane @ellsieee @conscbgb

@telomeke @heretherebedork @lurkingshan @troubled-mind @lukaherehelp @my-rose-tinted-glasses @mysterygrl20 @oyeicher @dribs-and-drabbles @pharawee @lutawolf @ima1ing @respectthepetty and anyone else who would love to play this. Do tag me because I would love to see everyone's favourite characters and click some buttons!!