#look im all down for aging naturally and dont care about laugh lines or wrinkles just as much as the next guy

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a friend of mine got a nose job because she had a deviated septum

my sister got a nose job because she didn't like her nose

my fiancée got a nose job because they felt their nose made them dysphoric

my sister was truly shocked when no one noticed the difference in her nose afterward, but at the end of the day, she said she didn't care if no one else noticed. she got the surgery for herself, not anyone else.

my fiancée said they considered getting ffs but decided their nose was the most dysphoria inducing part of their face and decided to just change that.

my friend said she never planned on changing the shape of her nose at all until her surgeon offered the option since she was fixing her deviated septum anyway. it wasn't done out of insecurity or a hatred of her looks. she just decided that if she's going to get this surgery, she may as well get her money's worth.

they all got the same surgery. they all got rhinoplasty. every one of them had a different reason. whether it be insecurity, dysphoria, or fixing a deviated septum. you do not get to choose which of them deserved to get surgery. they are allowed to. they have bodily autonomy. if you support bodily autonomy, you have to support it even if you don't like what a person does with Their Own body.

Yall do NOT hop on a cosmetic surgery hate train during an ongoing campaign against trans Healthcare I am fucking begging