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a-nice-egg-offering · 1 year ago

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I’m demisexual but I’ve always thought the exact same thing that’s why I say on my dating apps we have to be friends first. If someone starts acting like my partner before I know them well enough I get the ick so fast.

idk if this is because i'm aroace but it baffles me that dating apps exist like who tf came up with this idea?? i mean i go out with a total stranger with the specific purpose of starting a romantic relationship with them?? what the fuck is that? where's the friendship part? where's the part where we've know eachother for most of our lives? like some people really go "oh hey nice shirt, i know nothing about you but i definitely wanna date you" nah i don't believe it

#like I met this girl from tinder in January we went on a date it was nice we got drunk and made out in the toilets #but then she came round like 2 days later and ended up fucking it wasn’t her fault I am very awkward and if someone makes a move idk how to #say no so I just let it happen but I was dissociated the whole time bc I don’t know this woman and sex is very intimate for me as a demi #and after for the rest of the day she was cuddling me and nuzzling into me and I was just so mf uncomfortable like who r u why r u in my #house😭 she was also like nuzzling into me and making baby noises which just is my biggest ick bc I’m a sub/little & there can’t be two of us #lol especially as we’d previously discussed that she was a Dom and liked looking after her partner #like I don’t mind a bit of that once we’re in love I like looking after people I love but I need the dynamic to be mostly they are the #parental figure and we had discussed that so I was just uncomfortable with the whole thing #it’s a shame bc we got on really well and had so much in common so if she had taken things a little slower I might have actually been able #to catch feelings

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