#lilla's art

[adorablebanite]

When you try to help the REAL protagonist of BG3 to finish his cool plans but his brain turns to soup.

(From this post)

[adorablebanite]

Peasant-maxxing all by yourself, beautiful? 🥶

I've finally set a date for my winter campout/retreat. In February I'm planning on taking off a full week from work and spending it in a 5' by 10' shack out in the woods. I'll have a wood stove for heat, but no electricity, cell reception, or running water (besides a well). It'll be a detox from the world for a little while, and give me a chance to spend some time reading and praying.

And because I'm a massive anachronist, I'm going to make myself some medieval winter clothing, roughly like this:

(sorry I couldn't find credit for the image, its not mine)

Temps in February vary quite a bit around here, so this will be a fun experiment!

[life-imitates-art-far-more]

Lilla Cabot Perry (1848-1933) "Reading" Oil on canvas Impressionism

[shyblacksheep]

[artystyczny-nieporzadek]

Art Details Series: Women & Books  | Jean-Honoré Fragonard, Eleanor Fortescue Brickdale, Victor Gabriel Gilbert, Lilla Cabot Perry, Louis Emile Adan, Thomas Benjamin Kennington, Seymour Joseph Guy, Delphin Enjolras, Ethel Porter Bailey |

[metamorphesque]

The Silver Vase, Lilla Cabot Perry

[kaviserier]

Here is my smallest zine yet

It's a story about repeatedly shoving yourself back in the closet when your belief in yourself dwindles

[kala-mies]

Peculiar fish!

[literaryvein-reblogs]

Writing Notes: Parenting Styles

What can parents do to nurture a healthy self-concept?

Diana Baumrind (1971, 1991) thinks parenting style may be a factor.

The way we parent is an important factor in a child’s socioemotional growth.

Baumrind developed and refined a theory describing parenting styles based on 2 aspects of parenting that are found to be extremely important:

Parental responsiveness, which refers to the degree the parent responds to the child’s needs.

Parental demandingness, is the extent to which the parent expects more mature and responsible behavior from a child.

Using these two dimensions, she recognized 3 different parenting styles:

Authoritarian (Too Hard)

The authoritarian parenting style is characterized by high demandingness with low responsiveness.

The authoritarian parent is rigid, harsh, and demanding.

Abusive parents usually fall in this category (although Baumrind is careful to emphasize that not all authoritarian parents are abusive).

Permissive (Too Soft)

This parenting style is characterized by low demandingness with high responsiveness.

The permissive parent is overly responsive to the child’s demands, seldom enforcing consistent rules.

The “spoiled” child often has permissive parents.

Authoritative (Just Right)

This parenting style is characterized by high demandingness with huge responsiveness.

The authoritative parent is firm but not rigid, willing to make an exception when the situation warrants.

The authoritative parent is responsive to the child’s needs but not indulgent.

Baumrind makes it clear that she favors the authoritative style.

Comparison of 4 parenting styles

PARENTING STYLES & CULTURE

Authoritative Style

Of the 4 parenting styles, the authoritative style is the one that is most encouraged in modern American society.

American children raised by authoritative parents tend to have high self-esteem and social skills; however, effective parenting styles vary as a function of culture and, as Small (1999) points out, the authoritative style is NOT necessarily preferred or appropriate in all cultures.

Authoritarian Style

In contrast to the authoritative style, authoritarian parents probably would not relax bedtime rules during a vacation because they consider the rules to be set, and they expect obedience:

This style can create anxious, withdrawn, and unhappy kids.

It is important to point out that authoritarian parenting is as beneficial as the authoritative style in some ethnic groups (Russell, Crockett, & Chao, 2010).

Example: First-generation Chinese American children raised by authoritarian parents did just as well in school as their peers who were raised by authoritative parents (Russell et al., 2010).

Permissive Style

Not surprisingly, children raised by permissive parents tend to lack self-discipline, and the permissive parenting style is negatively associated with grades (Dornbusch, Ritter, Leiderman, Roberts, & Fraleigh, 1987).

The permissive style may also contribute to other risky behaviors such as alcohol abuse (Bahr & Hoffman, 2010), risky sexual behavior especially among female children (Donenberg, Wilson, Emerson, & Bryant, 2002), and increased display of disruptive behaviors by male children (Parent et al., 2011).

There are some positive outcomes associated with children raised by permissive parents. They tend to have higher self- esteem, better social skills, and report lower levels of depression (Darling, 1999).

Source ⚜ Writing Notes & References

[mumriksworld]

Some spying in the woods

Graphite, charcoal and digital enhancements.

[a-random-british-top-hat]

Mymble finally remembers she has a son with Joxter and Joxter realizes that Snufkin isn't just his best friend's son's bf...

[adorablebanite]

It's not that I'm proud of it but I made something, and making something is better than wishing I made something and not doing it.

[craiorub]

something different

Wanted to draw something other than DogMan fanart after some months and i finally did it—

[moon-n-night]

Little My with her hair down.

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[ikeagisburne96]

Two fluffballs are my oc's but anyway they could exist in moomin's world🤭 I think...