#likeyoure literally just trying to change who you are for her. its not worth it | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

cruelsister-moved2 · 1 year ago

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man one thing idk how to feel about is the trans men you periodically see weighing in on 'lesbians who fuck men' discourse, usually pretty young people who dont have much experience, desperately insisting that lesbians can be attracted to men because their lesbian girlfriend says so. look I'm not trying to be mean but you need to realise she doesn't see you as a man. she sees you as a woman, or basically a woman, and that's why she likes you. if she was attracted to you as a man she would have to reconsider her feelings about men. if it's just you, that's because she doesn't see you as one.

#lesbian chasers of trans men are so real and massive creeps ive seen it #it often ends up a kind of ESH situation because u also get trans men who are obsessed with getting a lesbian or whatever #but yeah i feel like people dont realise thats a thing and it super is #this one guy who left a huge seething coping rant in my notes #and i went on his blog and it linked to a tiktok acc where he posted 1000 coping videos about it #because he had a massive crush on a lesbian who agreed to date him #and all these videos like 'im trying to see my attraction as more sapphic'#mixed with 'i feel so lonely in the sapphic community because theres nothing about men' (!)#likeyoure literally just trying to change who you are for her. its not worth it #same person that was like just let people have fun or whatever!!! i mean this doesnt look like youre having fun but do you #'sexuality is fluid and complicated!' yeah and if she was attracted to you as a man she would realise she likes men #if her attraction to you isnt making her consider her feelings towards men it means she doesnt see you as a man so its not a challenge to h #her. do the maths

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