#like- i get that cleanliness is a sysphean task of constantly keeping up... but I can barely handley own mess sometimes | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

thefirstvessel · 8 months ago

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Love getting lectured by my stepfather about the kitchen after I share some of what I was cooking with them. 😑

I already tend to avoid using the kitchen bc of how cluttered and messy Mom tends to leave it... and now I feel like I'm getting punished for offering y'all some of my cooking.

#groceries are fucking expensive and i was being nice #i cant wait for rent to drop enough that i can afford an apartment plus my car payments #like- i get that cleanliness is a sysphean task of constantly keeping up... but I can barely handley own mess sometimes #add in having a constantly full sink bc of my moms untreated ADHD and its suddenly much harder to just clean up after myself #im in my 30s with a full time accounting job - why tf can't i afford to live on my own with solo income in this area?#like- the moment I started making enough to actually think about living on my own #I was saddled with sudden car payments that take out about a third of my monthly income bc my old car died #AND down payment for that completely ruined what relocation savings I had #so we had to put our hunting for a studio job on hold... again #im just ... so tired #vessel talk

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