#like theres people on here who will have a rape kink and then shame you for being otherkin like.......................

[snekdood]

i refuse to let insecure fucks from my home town who are so controlled by their fear of being different make me feel bad or weird existing as i am online. yeah, i did find a place i could express myself freely and people didnt reject me, im sorry you weren’t able to shame me into having 0 friends anywhere, hoping that’d make me become the basic blonde bitch you want me to be

[growling]

It's kinda funny (not funny at all tbh), but even more "acceptable" forms of wanting to be dominant feel shameful to admit to. I'm not into the idea of causing pain for a partner (no shame on anyone who does though, it's just not my thing), but I do want to exercise control over a partner in a sort of caretaker way. To be seen as someone safe and in control of everything makes me feel powerful. But if I said that on the hellsite, I'm sure I'd get called some nasty things. But if I said the opposite- that I want someone to take care of me and protect me and call me their good boy/girl, that would be seen as totally fine

I'll never understand it

(sorry if this is TMI, mate)

yeahh ://// i think for a large part of this aggression towards people who want to be dominant is that so many people just see them as just pleasure dispensers purely existing to fulfill their (submissive) desires. and the belief that doms should be okay with everything, don't need any aftercare, don't need safewords, don't need their boundaries considered don't need any reassurance etc. and that those things are just for the poor subs only cause doms obviously don't get bothered by anything like this, and only exist to be used by their partner then discarded. a lot of subs reallyyyyy have a hard time considering the feelings of like, all parties and not just themselves

theres like. a huge difference between reactions of people on here (and not even just on tumblr!! hell) to someone, say, being a masochist or a sadist. there is this stigma around doms being openly horny about their kinks or even just expressing any desires at all. it's fine for subs because they're always seen (even sometimes by themselves?...) as the "victims", while the the dom is the "aggressor" or "abuser" and thought crime is real again. like, subs can have their quirky harmless fantasies all they want, but the moment someone actually wants to fulfill those and - god forbid - enjoy it too, then that's something dangerous, a "red flag", or "pornsick something something rape culture"?? like. what the fuck do you think are. who do you. i. wh. guys i can't

[scribblemetae]

I think this is just mean honestly but I have a cnc kink that comes from my trauma BUT don't think I am like upset or triggered by it by any means I completely okay but I have gotten so much shit for saying it when people ask me my kink and that for some reason is just a big one for me 👽

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(Trigger warning, rape, non-con, dub-con_

Girl I also have past trauma, people close to me on this website know all about it and I myself write and read a lot of rape, none con, con non con.

Being into it is 100% fine and dont let anybody judge you for it, they have no right to tell you what you can and can not like, they have no say in that. As long as what you are doing adhere to the 3 S's then nobody has the right to say other wise

theres a huge commuinity out here who have the same experiances and enjoy the same things, therer are people out there with a rape kink who have had no trauma and thats fine to

be you, be safe but have no shame

[sheensou]

24 y.o anon here, yeah how about you not make this into something its not. It's not pedophilia, finn is not prebuscent, he's a teenager. Like i said i'd never actually do anything with him but I have a right to express that im attracted. I just think it's crazy everyone on here is into shaming everything. In the real world adults fantasize about teens all the time (see: student/teacher tropes) and it's a normal thing.

he’s a child. he’s 14. i can’t believe you’re even trying to justify this? okay i get saying hes “good looking” or “cute” but saying you’d bed him? thats disgusting. I dont care if you “wouldnt actually do it” it’s implied pedophilia and you should stop trying to defend your morally wrong actions.

The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child defines child as “a human being below the age of 18 years” - FINN IS A CHILD. 

yes you’re completely right, there are people who fantasizeabout teenagers/minors in this world - they’re called peadophiles. I get being pissed off @ kink shaming - but if your kink is ahything to do with the following: PEADOPHILIA, incest, rape, death/abuse etc - you’re fucked up and you deserve to be “kinkshamed” 

theres a reason you’re staying on anon, and it’s because you KNOW you’re in the wrong.