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ileftherbackhome · 5 months ago

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i have identified myself as cis+ for years now where i feel like gender isn't really a real thing but i recognize that other people see me as a woman and i have no problem with that but i do have a problem with being seen as a man and i would prefer to be seen as a person more than anything else but agender feels too like trans/definitely genderqueer for me to identify with because i feel so strongly about being seen as a woman and identified as a woman but i dont know how much of that is the fact that i know people misgender me as a man to be assholes and how much of that is me actually "identifying" with womanhood because growing up, i never felt much like a girl or a boy. i just "felt like me" but i knew that the correct perception of me for others is as a girl and so it upsets me when i get called a boy but not because i view myself as a girl and so to me "genitals align with gendered identity" ends up being cis to me idk gender is weird and confusing and i dont like it dont mind me just being weird about my gender on the dash again

#personal #gender musings #i also feel like i dont see other people as different genders either which im more scared of admitting than the above stuff #but not in a i only see sex kind of way but like in a this is all bullshit and so i dont give a fuck what u want me to call u ill do it cuz #the rules are made up and they dont exist and there is no such thing as masculine and feminine to me outside of societal norms and so for m #i just kind of view everyone as different people with preferences on expression and pronouns that are to be respected becuz they know bette #idk does that make sense like im not sitting here trying to misgender anyone bcuz i dont see gender as a real thing i just view it as like #nonsense in a way that shouldnt exist but does so while it does might as well be safe and welcoming about it bcuz none of this is real #like sure theres a trillion billion genders because theres a trillion billion people #but gender itself ? useless concept throw it all out just let people vibe

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