#like people ive known in the past have fallen down this whole anti vs proship rabbit hole

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because the "anti vs proship" debate is so out of hand its genuinely hard to tell what people mean when they say "proship dni" because theres a long list of things they COULD mean.

1. they mean people who dont care what people ship. sometimes this includes people like me who step away from the entire "debate".

2. they mean people who actively ship "problematic" content like underage, incest, non-con only in fiction. this also gets muddy as hell because some people will include general toxic relationships, or just anything kink and fetish.

3. they mean people who actively ship "problematic content" and support it irl. ive seen these types of people by the way (they more commonly use the label "comship") and theyre like actually abhorrent people who think sh and eds are funny. like. eugh.

like if people ONLY mean 3 i get it. but like. how the hell do i tell.