#like if ur gonna hate toxic abusive characters like. hate all of them dont be a hypocrite about it

[vypridae]

it genuinely baffles me that people still think vox is some precious baby that needs to be protected and kept from val at all costs. are we like... are we watching the same show?

[wri0thesley]

Im just gonna say if u dont "condone it" then why do u still choose to focus so much on non con and toxic shit? For ur own/ur followers enjoyment?? Fiction DOES affect reality and no im not saying all of yall gonna end up aBusINg people but it can leave great impacts on others and even if you claim that it "isnt a coping mechanism" it sure sounds like it to me, even if u lived thru it doesnt mean u should base ur blog on it. Ik imma get shit for this but im tired of ppl glorifying abuse🗿

hi anon! i don’t think i’ve ever said that writing/consuming dark content isn’t a coping mechanism for me; i find it kind of therapeutic because i get to be in control of a situation (whether that be by writing it or just choosing when/if to read it) in a way i did not get to be during my own trauma. you might find these two studies about writing about trauma (both real and imagined) interesting (they both reported catharsis in the women who wrote about them). i’ve talked with my therapist about how i write characters who go through similar things to me as catharsis/stress relief/a way of taking back control, and have always been encouraged to continue doing it

i half agree on fiction affecting reality and half don’t agree - in that i think representation in popular media is important and needed, but don’t necessarily think that we should apply the same logic to fanworks by people whose stuff is never going to be in the mainstream and is often created by marginalised groups themselves. 

not wanting to engage in and finding dark content and the like gross is totally valid. it’s why i tag everything i can and encourage people who hate what i produce or other things about me to block me. anons have told me i deserve to have gone through the trauma i did because of what i write (and once accused me of lying about it as an excuse which is a whole other kettle of fish; i’ve been open about the fact i don’t think anyone owes it to anyone else to have to disclose their traumas.). i try and make it so that it can be filtered out. if you think you’ll be affected by what i write just unfollow me and block me, but i tag everything for a reason. 

i probably won’t interact with any other anons you send me bc i want to keep my blog a safe space for me personally (it’s my blog! i take responsibility for my followers seeing stuff they don’t want to if i don’t tag it but it’s a space for me to write in and experiment in, and i don’t craft it entirely for other’s enjoyment or i’d never write anything. everything i’ve written about ever probably has someone who hates it in my following list) but i just want to urge you to unfollow me if it bothers you what i write and publish on my own blog. 

creators don’t owe you to only make content you want to personally engage in. they owe themselves to make whatever they want to. 

(and again, if you’re going to reply to this with abuse or anon hate or whatever, i’d like to remind you i have a statcounter and can see where you’re accessing from and block you via your ip address)

[aquagustd]

🐇 anon here !

wow eye,, the new chapter is insane miss yus! first off, thank you so much for giving us an update aka what we dont deserve hehe 💗

i love it so much. i can see this getting so messy

im really feeling stuck between the two and im SO broken. not jungkook being a simp for oc as we expected 🥱🤤 i felt healed and then broken all at the same time. ughhh... and junho 🥺

i really yearn for this family too. im absolutely shook. cant tell however, if jungkook is just playing us again. kinda like how an abuser will try and make the victim forget about their wrongs by throwing an emotional fit. hm. or maybe im super happy because i knew he was gonna crack eventually. he probably was telling the truth? the smut was so steamy 🥵 i could feel the toxicity through my screen. oof. down bad.

anyways. taehyung is THAT boyfie. wow wow wow. i just have no words. so in love with this. hes so hot. i live for the jealously on both sides. i hope oc doesnt hurt him. i can already see her feeling guilty asf. imperfect characters its all so realistic feeling i love it.

i do however, am interested in the whole textile thing. im trying to piece stuff together but im just so so suprised everytime i read. you really have a gift, yus. this is amazing writing. its all relevant information being given yet im so not ready to hear it all. i dont really trust jimin........ pls trust ur gut oc. although, not sure if thats worked out for her in the past. my poor baby.

junho, oc and jk never reached the beach... hmmm metaphor? wondering if this is just a huge facade/set up waiting to break our heart all over again. im trusting in your words that they will get a happy ending 😭 im being edged in the best way possible.

thank you!

p.s. fuck sora. im apart of that club for sure 🔫 i want her gone lol. im onto her

hey !! ofc jk is a simp for miss oc 🤚🏻 i definitely see your confusion w jk. like we don’t really know if he’s being sincere or if he knows oc too well 🫣 predicting how she would react etc. ig we’ll see…

tae 🫦 literally where can i get a bf like him. he’s so hot & jealous in a totally non-toxic way *hint hint* & her guilt is there meaning that she does feel a lot for him :(

ah thank you 🥹 yes yes it’s all very relevant and we’ll definitely get more info about the textile business. do you guys remember that jk has another warehouse in the area where oc, tae, yoongi, etc live?? yeh

i agree. oc should just trust her gut about jimin 😔 YES !! i mentioned before that the beach is a metaphor for something. i think someone got it 👀 it’s supposed to be ~something~ that ~one/all of them~ yearn for.

LMAO the sora hate club is alive & thriving i see. tysm for reading <333

[gandalfsbignaturals]

this is pissing me off so in order

-a major plotpoint of homestuck is terezi being, like, super duper in love with vriska

-dave does NOT hate terezi or jade, he hates the fact that he had to endure years of abuse and toxic masculinity

-karkat pines after terezi and fantasizes about jade multiple times

-rose could be bi or gay, she doesnt say and the text doesnt say either

-kanaya is confirmed to be a lesbian but also, these kids are 13-16, literally any of them could realize theyre a totally diff sexuality or gender later in life

-same as above

-jake is in love w dirk but theres no reason he cant be bi. maybe he just doesnt have those kinds of feelings for jane. not being attracted to all two (2) women he knows isnt grounds to rule out bisexuality entirely

-roxy??? straight????? lmao the fuck she literally put a ring on calliopes finger shes either lesbian or bi but shes DEF not str8

-jane doesnt actually end up with anyone, tho the snapdates imply she might have been involved with roxy and calliope. again, what labels they have at 13-16 isnt necessarily indicative of what theyre gonna id as for the rest of their fuckin life u moron

in short, fuck u, fuck ur biphobia, hc these characters as whatever makes u happiest but dont u dare shit on other ppl for what their hcs are. good fucking night

I mean name a single bi character. Terezi is straight, she's had sex with John, Dave is gay he openly discusses how hates Jade and Terezi. Karkat is gay. Rose gay. Kanaya gay. Dirk gay. Jake gay but FORCED into marrying Jane. Roxy straight. Jane straight. Literally, not a single bisexual character in canon unless you're just lying.

terezi is bi as fuck and my proof is the entirety of Homestuck and also Dani who owns Terezi now and she said so but also its laughable that you think ANYONE in homestuck is straight tbh?? like idk... seems like you’re kinda projecting onto them a bit? :/

[discorclcallout-blog]

this is a callout for tumblr/twitter user @discorcl

tw for : ableism, racism, incest apologism, and manipulation

op note: i am not the person that zee is talking about. im his friend. please keep this in mind. 

please also keep in mind that my friend’s name thru-out this is “ Grass “

zee is white and uses she/they pronouns.

zee’s ableism:

[ image of a post that says: “ i love it when friends go into explicit detail into killing themselves repeated times in a week and never actually attempt! 

i love it when friends talk about how depressed they are but don’t explain why! 

i love how i have to pretend it does not trigger me and keep my cool!! even though they fucking pussy out in the end” ]

zee straight up doesnt care about mentally ill friends and claims that they “pussy out” from committing suicide like. what a great friend.

[ image of two tweets. the first tweet is someone saying “oh my god i just remembered.. im in a bpd discord server from tumblr and its the most ugly toxic shit ever. ive had it muted for months” 

zee replies to this tweet with:  “ no offense but... what was expected “ ]

thats pretty blatant ableism, zee.

zee’s racism:

i dont have visual proof of her racism happening but as my friend (and the person zee keeps vaguing and namedropping after 5 months of the friendship dropping) vaguely recalls:

[ image of me and my friend discussing zee’s racism. my friend’s memory isnt the best at times, and so he can forget things half the time. here, my friend asks: “ my memory is bad whatd she do? What racist things “

i replied with ; “ she called u white multiple times “ ( which he has told me in the past that this is what she did )

he said ; “ OH yeah. shes gonna tell me im racefaking i know it but like i cant remember but i know she did “ ]

grass is a mixed individual, and calling mixed people white is racist.

i am not going to delve deeper as i do not have the evidence to further lay accusations on her for this.

[ image of zee tweeting : “homie ur 3 of the dam Gorillaz What Are YOu doing” ]

homie is AAVE, and she has been told multiple times by nonwhite people to stop using it, yet she continues to do so. 

HERE are more screenshots of grass telling me racist things zee did.

zee’s incest apologism: 

zee likes a 1990′s adult cartoon titled “Duckman” - she often draws art and encourages other individuals to watch it. she has often drawn self-insert art with him and themself.

[ image of a curiouscat anon asking

“i dont know you personally but why do you self insert with Duckman when he’s been established as a racist misogynistic asshole who fetishizes incest? “

zee replies with;

“ it’s for personal coping reasons. DM me on the site of your choice and ill elaborate. ( he’s also transphobic but yet i’m somehow not appalled by that either... i think its because his character develops against bigotry randomly but then regresses?)  ]

this is a synopsis of a duckman episode:

[ there is a link here for those who do not want to see the image. it has nsfw elements. ]

bernice is duckman’s sister. there is literal incest in the show, as well as transphobia as zee says. which somehow she is okay with transphobia? which makes her transmisogynistic.

zee’s manipulation:

before i go into the background with zee’s manipulation of grass, i would like to post that i had confronted zee earlier today about her name-dropping of grass.

[ image of zee’s tweet from yesterday (which has since been Deleted.) of her namedropping grass. 

“ like this post if you use miitomo but aren’t friends with grass please i need more people “ ]

this name-drop is what cause me, the op, to confront zee about her name-dropping of grass. i sent her an ask which stated: 

[ an ask stating: “ hey. you dont know me but you do know my friend, grass. he told me of the name dropping you did yesterday, and he’s tried to @ you multiple times for you to stop, yet you’ve ignored him. can you stop name dropping him. 

you havent spoken to him since last year. he stopped being friends with you for a reason and there is literally no reason for you to continuously vague and name-drop him when he doesnt do those things about you AT ALL unless its a response to your own damn vagues and/or namedrops. ]

zee responded back to me trying to manipulate me into hating grass. 

zee claimed that the vagues were about another tumblr user, yet :

[ image of two tweets. the first tweet asks if anyone still uses miitomo. zee replies with:

“ i used to but some1 i don’t like still uses it so -_- “ ]

grass and zee were friends on miitomo, which is where the namedrop came from. hence why grass knew the vague was about him. 

zee claimed that she namedropped grass because “ i wanted to go on miitomo without him hassling me like he did over an inside joke. “ 

the link above links to what zee considers "hassling” which is an image of grass saying “hey uh... zee.. you heard of jokes?”  the inside joke that zee is referring to one of grass’ friends who posted an ironic picture saying “ im normal, im white, christian straight etc etc “ and zee commented with “but ( x ) you arent even white! “ and grass and his friend was joking around with “thats the joke, zee.” 

okay, zee. 

1. he checks your twitter and blog because you keep vaguing and namedropping him. it is out of paranoia. he’s not stalking you. 

2. she says “i havent thought of him in a while” yet went up to multiple friends of grass’ and asked if he was still using miitomo cause “she didnt want to get yelled at” ( grass talks about it here )

3. zee did not cut him off scott free for grass acting as a victim. GRASS was the one who wanted to cut off zee because she made him uncomfortable and refused to acknowledge it. ( skype logs )

4. grass was not the one sending anonymous memes. the person doing so was his friend, who did it without grass’ knowledge (he found out a month later about it.) 

zee no one who gets name dropped would mind their own business, just saying.

the link that zee sent me was the link to the skype logs. as you can see from them, grass wanted to end the friendship because HE was uncomfortable by her. he did not abuse her by saying that he wanted to end the friendship.

at the end of the reply zee gave me was that she blocked me because i have her on my do not follow if you follow. i have her there because of these reasons. she makes grass uncomfortable, and continues to talk about him despite the uncomfortable friendship having ended LONG ago.

here are other bits from the skype chat logs.