#like idk the number of ppl who act like opposite sex relationships are inherently boring | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

lord-squiggletits · 8 days ago

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Idk who needs to hear this but a man and a woman being in a relationship together does not automatically equate to being hetero as in "not queer" and the sooner you get this thru your thick skulls the sooner LGBT+/queer spaces will be tolerable for bisexuals, pansexuals, etc

#squiggposting #im so tired IM SO TIRED IM SO TIRED IM SO TIRED OF IT #you shouldnt be making fun of ppl for being straight anyways but i digress #bc the problem is like. that ppl treat a man and a woman being together as some sort of...#inherently toxic or sexist or heteronormative or cisnormative thing? and it's not #like idk the number of ppl who act like opposite sex relationships are inherently boring #or inherently doomed to abuse or to be emotionally/sexually sterile or whatever #idk just please stop it #if not for general equality then at least for the fact that other queer ppl #are getting caught in the crossfire of you shitting on opposite sex relationships #i'm sorry but if i (cis woman) got in a relationship with a man i would not stop being queer #bc saying that i wouldnt be queer is literal conversion therapy rhetoric #oh so youre saying the validity of my sexuality can be erased based on who im together with?#and not by my immutable identity and what i tell you i am?#okay then i guess gay/lesbian ppl who are closeted are actually straight #if they date a person of the opposite sex due to homophobia or other outside dangers #whoa wow is that stupid? IT IS and it's stupid when you unthinkingly do that shit to bi/pan/etc ppl #get over yourself. not everything that's opposite sex is cishet

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