#like anon u misunderstand me. i love her. but she has written and released some absolute garbage in the last 15+ years

[petruchio]

What songs would you say are considered to be the great Taylor Swift songs? Despite, of course, iconic ME!

i cant tell if this is sarcastic or not -- but i listed my top ten (not joking) taylor songs here and since you mentioned ME! im going to use this as an opportunity to be a hater. so here is a list 5 of my least favorite taylor swift songs that i wish i could erase from my brain:

you need to calm down. needs no further explanation, that song sucks ass. in my opinion its worse than ME!

i forgot that you existed. absolute garbage. like so much of taylor's songs that i hate, is more concerned with the real life drama and setting up a narrative than it is with being a good song. vocal delivery and production both sound lazy. it was an insane choice to open lover with this song, it sucks so bad, i hate it

so it goes. imo her most boring song and i think she agrees bc she didnt even play it on the rep tour. i posted a comment on reddit saying that once and got downvoted like crazy and i was like youre all lying to yourselves that song sucks

bejeweled. if bejeweled has one hater its me. i despise that song. the hook is so dumb and who allowed the sentence "familiarity breeds contempt dont put me in the basement when i want the penthouse of your heart" to be put to track. like enough of the mixed metaphors taylor. just say "set me free" or something and move on. and the stupid little repetitive synth on the chorus just grates on my nerves. ugh that song sucks. imo worse than vigilante shit even though that song sucks too.

suburban legends. hate everything about it, from the insane plastic summer line to the dumb title (its a bad attempt at a taylor swift "twist on a popular idiom" -- like that isnt even what urban legends means. its so dumb) to the insane wordiness of every line that just makes me doubt that it was actually written during 1989 era (like most 1989 era songs are ... simply not that wordy or obsessed with like 10 different mixed metaphors. taylor didnt really get that wordy until post folklore and i just think the 1989 vault (save for say dont go) is NOT actually from that era there i said it) anyway ya suburban legends haunts me god i hate that song

honorary mention for slut! also, because 1) it also sucks 2) there is no way she actually considered releasing THAT instead of blank space and that was such a bald faced lie i couldnt believe people bought it and 3) clink clink? be so fucking for real with me right now.

[dojae-huh]

this submission might be a little bit late, but a very big reason made me into jaedo is this blog, so yeah, you 🙆

to begin with theres a lock down in my country last year due to the pandemic. people had to work from home, and at a point i quitted my job and switched to work online since then. as my schedule was more flexible, i had some free times at certain hours and decided to watch 127's content (prior to that i had listened to their songs, their music is my type, but i didnt think of digging into their personalities). my first show ever was idol room, and the scene of jaehyun being so... hm, rude and raw to doyoung, but then came to hug him tightly later made my eyes go like O_o i did notice jaehyun before, but only think of him as a pretty face, acknowledge of the fact that he can be decent in many things. still to me a pretty face is just a pretty face, and his abilities did not stand out too much to beat his appearance much so 🤷 (i was still on the road to find a bias then, and later on fell head over heels by doyoung's breathin cover, better than the original imo, his vocal uwu).

but back to the main topic jaehyun's violence that day really caught my attention. i talked to a friend who's once a die hard jaedo shipper (jaedo still holds a special place in her heart i guess, but she's more into other ships now), that did i just come to a ship? and she recommended your blog to me. im always in love with analysis thingy, and very into couples (actually couple is the main reason i stan a group), so i said why not. there're so many posts on your blog, but i told myself to just read everything (im kinda curious). every night i read a little bit before going to sleep, scrolled in my free time, hit like to re-read. im so grateful of the things i learn here, forever will be. (recently i have re-read your blog for the 2nd time, hehe, but not done).

thanks to you now i know that jae's more like a pretty face (his stubborness is a plus). and yes he has written a better romance than any of us can. how he's been so persistent with his feelings, always supportive of his precious, and then had his desired result when he thought of letting go. ah, i just want the best for him, for them, and of course, for my doyoungie. for you also 🥺 to say thank you is not enough.

at times your words really get to me. like before nct 2020 i was so worried of jaehyun having depression (oops it sounds like jh is my bias), after his so-called scandal but in fact just a misunderstanding. people can be so harsh. i just wanted the full force smile back to his face, he pulled up a cover and became so faraway, even a little bit 'fake'. its such a relief to see his genuine smiles on the vids released at the end of the promotion. haha i might be thinking too much.

sometimes i want to call u sis. at times i think of u as a teacher, or a senpai. some might say you're strict, but its perfectly fine. i really like that u can still be calm after stumbling upon some rude, or ridiculous asks, (like one some ask you about how it goes with your anons, but how could u know when we keep ourselves as anons?!), sometimes draw a clear line and stop the bullsh*ts. keep doing your work here (it benefits us afterall hehe) 🥳

No, you can’t call me “sis”. 

No worries, long messages are never late. I have this problematic tiny urge to make any of my blogs interesting, I always end up being a magazine editor of sorts, but I’m busy, so readers’ input helps. It’s especially interesting to hear the stories from fans who started get to know NCT in late 2019-2020, when JaeDo were the most low-key. 

Was I the only one who singled out Jaehyun due to dancing? So many say they skipped him at first due to him being a pretty face. Jae’s real charm is seen in small details and reveals itself with time.

Jaehyun wiped the floor with Yuta as well, why did you see his exitement during the game as something suspicious? Is it because of the hug for Do later or because you didn’t know about Jae’s infamous competitiveness? 

Can you tag my posts for me? Haha, I’m still stuck in 2018, it’s neverending... 

I have problems recalling the past and what I experienced, so I don’t know what I felt when I undercovered certain key points, but when I think about the whole story, it’s really surprising how “soulmate AU” worthy it is. Look how quick Jae is to flirt. Doyoung had to change his religious believes, change himself to accept his attraction even.

Jaehyun is a very kind person, so him crumbling under the accusations was a sad sight. Thankfully, he is very resilient as well. I don’t watch his solo vlives because he is closed off in them. The quite, polite, pleasing idol is not him. Maybe some fans get warmth from such attention, but I don’t like seeing a facade. When Jaehyun is a teasing brat he gives off the positive energy I’m looking for, therefore I prefer watching games and the puppy around Doyoung.  

For most people communication is exchange of emotions, experiencing companionship, for me it’s exchange of information, so I tend to sound mentory. As it’s my core nature, there is no need to change it. I’m exposing you to that 2-4% of people I belong to. 

I’m actually quite stubborn (look at my biases) and irritable, so I myself am learning to be more patient and reflective with the help of the blog. Some things I say are meant as a reminder for myself as well. If you want to understand something, try teaching it to others. Forming thoughts into words involves different areas of the brain in a way that helps to process information, come up with a new conclusion. That’s why they say that talking about your problems to someone helps. It’s not the listening, it’s the talking that does the trick. 

As for rude asks. I don’t perceive agression as an attack on me personally (took me time to learn not to, of course, I used to be sensitive as many of you), so I don’t get hurt. If I reply with passive agression, it means I can’t deal with human  stupidity anymore.