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social-muffin · 2 years ago
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People liked the first OC I introduced! They even asked questions! :D so I will introduce another one!
This time, I'm introducing one of the very few people who once happily called Hibari Kyoya his best friend. Since then, they've almost gone back to being strangers...
Is there any hope under the Read More? Check and see!
❗First I must establish a bit of lore! I headcanon that each school in Namimori has a high level delinquent/Disciplinary Committee Chairman/Student Council President that has a similar job to whatever the frick Kyoya does around Nami Middle, or Nami High. There are canonically four schools in or close to Namimori. Nami Middle, Midori Middle (Haru's all girl school), Yumei Middle (Irie's private school), and Kokuyo Middle (most likely the school for 'difficult' kids).❗
❗The leaders of the schools, Hibari included, carry the shared title 'Four Seasons' between themselves. Because they are absolutely neck deep in Namimori's delinquent culture, so they gotta have good titles for their group. In this case, Kyoya is titled after Spring btw, which is traditional for whomever is the highest profile delinquent of the Nami middle part of town❗
General Questions first!
What is their name? Their pronouns? Age? Gender identity? Sexuality? (if any of that matters lmao)
Are they somehow related to another khr character? In what way?
His name is Itsuki, but he also goes by his title Jūnigatsu(December) and Kyoya has nicknamed him Fuyu(Winter). His pronouns are he/him and he'd be surprised if someone used another pronoun, but he wouldn't really be bothered. Itsuki is 17 years old and he used to id as Bi. Nowadays relationships are not on his mind even a little bit.
I think when I wrote this I meant related as in, connected to another khr character. So... Yes! Itsuki was created to be someone at about the same level as Hibari pre-canon. To be a friend and equal. That didn't turn out well. :<
What does your oc look like? Do you have any art of them? Picrew also welcomed! Ai art... Not preferred >:/
This is the closest picrew I managed to get to how I picture Itsuki in my mind. He'd just be larger (195cm tall) and much better built. Both, muscular and also kinda Chubby? Is difficult to explain. He eats what he likes (junk food and sweets, as well as healthy stuff) and he eats well. He also works out consistently.
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He has dark neck-lenght hair that he brushes out of his face when he remembers to, dark brown eyes, a scar on his eyebrow and one on his cheek he used to have more piercings but the ones in his ears are the only ones left now. Do take notice of the lack of a smile, the scarring and the vaguely haunted/tired look in his eyes! Will be important later!
What are their relationships to other khr characters? Pairings you like with your oc? Adopted siblings and parents maybe?
Oki so!! Kyoya is Itsuki's Bestie! Or used to be, in Itsuki's mind anyways. They knew each other since early childhood and Kyoya actually dragged Itsuki into delinquency when they turned 10. That all fell apart after The Incident.
Which is. Well... Mukuro is Itsuki's worst nightmare. Because before everything, Itsuki was the Student Council President of Kokuyo high. When Mukuro took over the school, Itsuki attempted to overthrow him, but Itsuki's own students were mind controlled and used against him. For like. A solid week, Itsuki lived through a nightmare of torture and he did not have a Tsuna to save him.
Hibari attempted to rescue him after Tetsuya confirmed that Itsuki was allegedly still in the school building, but we all know how that turned out. That is the reason Kyoya's and Itsuki's friendship ended as abruptly as it did. A lot of self loathing on both of them because they either couldn't protect themselves or protect their buddies. Its also why Kyoya holds such a massive grudge for Mukuro.
Actually what's the family situation of your oc? Do they have siblings that's a background character perhaps? (example: sometimes I give Kusakabe Tetsuya a brother
Itsuki does have parents and siblings! But ever since he started having issues post-Mukuro.... Well. His parents put him in a mental hospital for his own good. And Itsuki's siblings don't really even visit him anymore...
Does your oc have a mental illness? Neurodivergencies? Other disabilities? At what age did they get these disabilities if they weren't born with them?
Itsuki has ptsd, consistent Night terrors, severe anxiety and depression. He's easily over stimulated, genuinely terrified of crowds and he desperately wants his old life back. :( he is trying to get better but these days it's a miracle if he manages to get out of bed without weeping on the spot.
If they had a super power what would it be?
Itsuki would probably want to have time traveling as a super power, either to go warn himself of what's to come, or to go back into his childhood and just live in that innocence again.
Khr specific questions:
Free Space! [Anything else you want to talk about?]
Kinda made myself a little sad with this, so let me also add! Itsuki has not been stripped of his four seasons title!! He's still the leader of the new Kokuyo High! (a container school that was build in a rush, a couple of weeks after the Kokuyo arc.) The same students that were mind controlled to torture him swore their undying loyalty to him as well! Kyoya and the other Seasons still include him in their outings! Itsuki has even started to smile a little bit when the younger delinquents tell him his scars look dope. :'3
What's their flames? And how many flames do they have? One? More? None?
Itsuki used to have one (1) warm, billowing rain flame but he hasn't been able to spark properly since the Incident. Much like Tsuna's feelings affecting his flames, Itsuki has lost large chunks of his will to live so his flames don't spark either. He can still make a ring glow blue because he has not given up on himself yet!
How do they use their flames? If they have one.
Itsuki used to use his flame to soothe the people around him to create a cozy, chill atmosphere. He also used his flame to slow Kyoya down during games of tag, which is lowkey cheating. He never really used his flames for fighting. These days, when he can, he uses his flames to give himself dreamless sleep/rest. Sometimes it seems like he's high when really he's just so dang tired his flames leaked into him and he is dealing with twice the sleepy.
If they don't have a flame, how do they fight? Do they fight at all?
Itsuki has actually never used his flame to fight and he honestly doesn't see the point in that. His flame is to soothe and slow things down. Fights aren't supposed to be slow or soothing. When he fights, he goes in with his fists primarily. He has the meanest right hook in all of Namimori! Would be able to actually knock out Kyoya if he ever managed to land a proper hit. (impressive since evem Genkishi hecking failed at that big time) One time a 15 year old Itsuki was confronted by some assassin sent after Tsuna and Nana and he actually shattered that guy's skull on impact. Made a loud crunch sound and all. Itsuki should not be messed with.
If they can't fight for any reason, what's their preferred method of self defense?
And last but not least and mostly for fun!!! Khr character questions:
Sometimes now, Itsuki freezes up and can't fight because terror has a hold of his soul. When that is the case, he prefers to hunker down, cover his head and cry. It's piss poor self defense, but Namimori is absolutely teeming with delinquents at all times of the day, so if Itsuki was ever in that kind of trouble, someone would 100% see and step in. The delinquents care for and love their Four Seasons!! Especially their gentle giant Jūnigatsu!!
Free space! [insert any khr specific question you want!]
Itsuki may have needed a while to recover, but these days (post Canon) he's out and about on the street during the day again. And he's picked up his training regime again, when he has the energy. If he continues to improve, he will be a powerful asset for whomever befriends him!
How much does Tsuna want to protect your oc upon first meeting them? After knowing them a minute, is Tsuna now scared of them or worried about them?
Hoooly heck the first time Tsuna meet Itsuki is a huuuuge mess! Cause Itsuki saw Kyoya and came over to say hi. But then he saw Chrome and had a panic attack on the spot. Kyoya and him ended up arguing about that, Kyoya threw away his bracelet and left and when Itsuki tried to leave, Tsuna wanted to ask him if he's fine. And like. Itsuki obviously wasn't so Tsuna wanted to help but Itsuki just wanted to get away. So Tsuna ended up knocked tf out and Itsuki booked it before the others could react.
Yet!!! Even after all that!! Tsuna's opinion is straight up: Gentle Giant, protect at all cost and KEEP FAR AWAY from Chrome and Mukuro.
Does Reborn think they're pathetic or does he have a slight respect for them? If he suddenly appeared out of a wall-hole, how would your oc react?
Oh Reborn 100% thinks Itsuki is pathetic and massive wasted potential. He'd love to use some strong mist to fix Itsuki's mind, but he ended up suggesting that to Kyoya and Kyoya very bluntly told him. 'If you put a mist anywhere near Itsuki you will never see me again.' straight up handed over the cloud bracelet and told Reborn to heck off for the whole next week cause he didn't even wanna see him, just for that suggestion. Reborn lowkey has no idea how to approach this situation now, or if he even should get involved tbh.
Would Hibari Kyoya be able to stand being in a room with them for five minutes? How long do they last in a fight against him?
Even post Canon Kyoya does hang out with Itsuki! Just never by himself. He drags the other Seasons into it cause Kyoya is lowkey unsure if he'd say something wrong and make it worse. They still go on like. Day-long outings as a team!
Itsuki's record time of sparring with Kyoya is 30 minutes! At which point they caught the giggles and the spar devolved into a game of tag. They are cute friends actually. Kyoya likes to play physical games :3 tag, hide and seek, sparring, parkour, patrolling, it's all roughly the same level of moving around and having fun!
Would your oc go off rambling about crytids with Gokudera? If yes, which is their fave cryptid?
Nope nope nope nope NOPE! Itsuki likes Hayato well enough. Particularly he likes his style and attitude cause frick yes delinquency! But Itsuki scares incredibly easily! He's not superstitious, but he will get freaked out if someone clever like Hayato told him some scary conspiracy stuff. He will opt out and politely try to get Hayato to shut up about it.
Would Skull try to flirt with them? Would he score a date? Pity date or genuine interest?
After Itsuki turns 18, Skull would probably try a little flirt and they'd go on a date and it'd be nice but it would lead to friendship. Itsuki loves his style and piercings! It's just.... He isn't ready for that kinda thing yet. Maybe someday when Itsuki feels better and more stable at age 20-something-ish?
How loud does your oc cheer when Yamamoto hits a home run? What if the ball hit them?
Hehehe Itsuki doesn't cheer for Yamamoto, he is cheering on his own school's team! Takeshi would be salty about that, but hey! It's all in good fun! At least Itsuki attends every game his school plays... (Unlike Takeshi's friend actually :/ I'm salty about that.)
If the ball hit him Itsuki would be momentarily stunned, cause ouch?, before recovering swiftly and handing the ball off to a child near him. He'd have a bruise for a week but it wouldn't be a big deal to him. He has a thick skull and tough skin. Kyoya would still use it as an excuse to fight Takeshi and that would probably make Itsuki chuckle.
Would your oc be able to last an hour watching over Lambo, I-pin and Fuuta? What if they all had sugar beforehand?
Itsuki is a good influence on little kids! He will get them all the sweets they want and then just watch when they get chaotic. Maybe he'd even join in and play with them! He loves to play and draw with crayons and do childish things because it's peacefully innocent. The kids would love to have him as a babysitter! In fact, I think Fuuta would rank him as the best babysitter choice the Vongola potentially has access to.
What food would Sawada Nana cook for your oc? What's their favourite food? Drink?
Nana would love Itsuki's company and cook anything he want! Unfortunately Itsuki wants to eat anything she'd like to cook! They end up in many polite back and forth over what to cook, only to end up ordering take out and just talking endlessly for hours about any topic. Itsuki missed having a mom-like person to talk to and Nana really needs the company.
Free space! [insert any other character questions you want!]
There is hope for Itsuki. In some AUs he overcomes his trauma and gets better. In some AUs he keep improving at a slow pace. There is no super dark outcome. Itsuki deserves some kind of joy and he gets it in every AU.
Oh also! Itsuki already hangs out with the girls during canon. They love the same bakeries and cafes and have a solid acquaintanc-ship going.
Also also!! A silly thing. As the spring of the Four seasons Kyoya could be nicknamed 'Haruto' which means spring. Kyoya is salty about that nickname, so only Itsuki has permission to call him that. Because Itsuki calls that name very sweetly and sincerely. Kyoya's official Four Season's title for anyone else is Sangatsu(March) .
And I think that's about it on Itsuki for now! I'll try to get more reblogs going but this boy has drained my energy ^^; A lot of his lore was created on this day!
I desperately want to know more about people's khr OCs! Specifically yours @lilacdon20 and also yours @masterdisastre !!!!
But really anyone is very welcomed to reblog this with ramblings of their OCs!
Yes You! The person reading this! I want to know about your OCs specifically!!!!
Also you are all welcomed to tag other people who's khr OCs you like as well!! ANYONE IS WELOCME! /pos
Questions, if needed because flustered or confused, are under the Read more!
First up! General questions!
What is their name? Their pronouns? Age? Gender identity? Sexuality? (if any of that matters lmao)
Are they somehow related to another khr character? In what way?
What does your oc look like? Do you have any art of them? Picrew also welcomed! Ai art... Not preferred >:/
What are their relationships to other khr characters? Pairings you like with your oc? Adopted siblings and parents maybe?
Actually what's the family situation of your oc? Do they have siblings that's a background character perhaps? (example: sometimes I give Kusakabe Tetsuya a brother)
Does your oc have a mental illness? Neurodivergencies? Other disabilities? At what age did they get these disabilities if they weren't born with them?
If they had a super power what would it be?
Free Space! [Anything else you want to talk about?]
Khr specific questions:
What's their flames? And how many flames do they have? One? More? None?
How do they use their flames? If they have one.
If they don't have a flame, how do they fight? Do they fight at all?
If they can't fight for any reason, what's their preferred method of self defense?
Free space! [insert any khr specific question you want!]
And last but not least and mostly for fun!!! Khr character questions:
How much does Tsuna want to protect your oc upon first meeting them? After knowing them a minute, is Tsuna now scared of them or worried about them?
Does Reborn think they're pathetic or does he have a slight respect for them? If he suddenly appeared out of a wall-hole, how would your oc react?
Would Hibari Kyoya be able to stand being in a room with them for five minutes? How long do they last in a fight against him?
Would your oc go off rambling about crytids with Gokudera? If yes, which is their fave cryptid?
Would Skull try to flirt with them? Would he score a date? Pity date or genuine interest?
How loud does your oc cheer when Yamamoto hits a home run? What if the ball hit them?
Would your oc be able to last an hour watching over Lambo, I-pin and Fuuta? What if they all had sugar beforehand?
What food would Sawada Nana cook for your oc? What's their favourite food? Drink?
Free space! [insert any other character questions you want!]
There is no pressure for anyone to answer of course. I just want to get to know more OCs and their creators. I'm talkative lately so I'll try to keep up with the reblogs as best I can :3
Multiple reblogs for multiple OCs are also very very welcomed!
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skelemira · 3 years ago
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Horrorfell Paps x reader?? Feel free not to (also you're a cool person and I'm glad you exist)
Oooh my first time writing Horrorfell Paps!!!
And just bc you didn't specify (and bc u deserve the best~) imma give you both hcs and a lil drabble!!! (Also bc writing hcs first might get me in the mindset to write Horrorfell Paps for the first time!)
(After note: imma do the drabble another time bc I got home late and I'm super drained lol but someone feel free to remind me to do it!)
Kinda long so I'm gonna put it under here
Horrorfell Paps x Reader! (I don't have names for the Horrorfell bros yet so I'm just gonna call him Papyrus)
Hcs:
*He is not one to mince words. He is going to say exactly what he means to say and he is going to give you blunt honesty. He's not going to be malicious about his honesty, and he still knows when to be tactful in revealing information, but if you ask for his opinion he is going to be honest.
*But that makes compliments from him all the more flustering, because when someone unflinchingly honest tells you that they think you did (insert hobby or skill here) very well, then that is high freaking praise and you know they mean it with every bit of their being.
*He's fiercely overprotective for obvious reasons. In the starving Fell underground, you had to fight for everything you had constantly. So when you find something as precious as a mate? You protect that to your dying breath and Papyrus is not only very strong and fast, but he is insanely clever and creative in coming up with ways to protect what is his. It can get a little much sometimes, like when you want to go to your friend's house and he doesn't want you to leave the house without him, or when you want to go grocery shopping when he's at work, but he is rational, so most times you can explain how you have defensive weapons and him on speed dial and how this location is well lit and has security in place, and he will see reason. He's not trying to keep you from the world he's just... Seen the horrible things the world can have in it and he wants to keep those things from you as much as he can.
*He's romantic but is often pretty subtle about it. There was no room for big gestures in the Underground, so the ways you showed your love (besides with food) were with small gestures, by moving the sofa you see your partner keeps stubbing their toe on, or fluffing the pillows on their bed when you've noticed they had a long day. Little things that you could easily write off as something other than romantic gestures. His love language is mostly food, but every once in a while you'll come home and your sheets are freshly laundered or your favorite fruit is freshly cut up on a plate in the kitchen or taking your car to go get groceries and filling it up on the way back. Small things that are practical but help make your day better.
*He's not really opposed to touch (read: this mans is touch-starved as all heck) but, bc of the Underground, he was taught that touch was for harming, never for showing affection. So when you first reach out to hold his hand or put your hand on his femur or something he tenses up. Almost imperceptibly, but you notice. You're a little hurt until you realize what I said above about how he probably wasn't used to showing affection through touch. (Some might say that he just isn't affectionate but you've seen the little signs and ways he shows his affection that may not be obvious to other people, but with him you notice everything.) So gradually you help him grow comfortable with touch. (Normally you wouldn't push, some people aren't okay with touch, that's fine, but you saw him hiding just how desperately he wanted physical affection). You, of course, stop if he ever gets uncomfortable but it goes quite well and eventually he feels comfortable hugging you out of the blue and even holding you while you both sleep. He's still not initiating a lot of physical touch, but he is receptive.
Wow that was a long hc lol uhhh onto a couple more then the drabble!
*He likes to be the only one to handle food. He's not obsessive about it (he nearly is but shhh he's working on it) but he likes his kitchen a certain way and it's just... It's easier for his piece of mind if he decides how much of something is made and how it is made. Sometimes he lets you help cook or bake (baking isn't his strong suit) but most times it's him in the kitchen or (on the rare occasions that you have takeout) you get it at the restaurant or it's from a restaurant he trusts.
*When he does eventually get comfortable enough for physical touch you are ever ever allowed to touch his cracks or scars. The first time, when you do it unknowingly, he actually flinches and gently explains to you (with his body tense and his fangs gritted tightly) to please never touch those parts of him. (He doesn't explain this to you, but he doesn't actually mind the scars, they show he's tough and they show he's a fighter but..... He doesn't want your perfect innocent fingers having to touch the flawed (in his mind) parts of him.
*His ideal date? Doing a puzzle with you with gentle jazz playing in the background. Though he "complains" about it "not having enough spikes to truly be fun" you can tell that he's enjoying figuring out something with you like this in a calm and peaceful environment where he knows he's safe. He makes a meal and, instead of eating at the dinner table, he declares it a special occasion and has you both at on the couch, chatting about the puzzles and each other's day. He's still watching you eat carefully, though, and making sure you get plenty of healthy food to eat.
*On that note, if you aren't at least a little chubby he considers himself to have failed in his job of feeding you, regardless of what those ridiculous human beauty standards say. (If you have trouble gaining weight for whatever reason, though, and you explain that to him, he understands and will back off a little and will stop trying to give you extra portions at dinner.)
*He signs sometimes because his jaw aches, of course you help him get to a dentist and an optometrist to get glasses and braces (though it's a battle of wills to get him to admit he needs help), but some days his jaws ache too much to talk, so he taught you sign language, writing down what he was saying in the early days of you learning.
I hope you enjoyed the headcanons Kat, sorry I couldn't finish the drabble tonight but I will write that as soon as I can!!! It was fun getting to know Horrorfell Paps and maybe one day I'll name him lol!
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mistaeq · 4 years ago
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Hi! Can I have a matchup for parts 1 and 3, please? I'm a 5'2'' black demiromantic bisexual genderfluid/non binary female (she/her pronouns) who is chubby with dark black braided hair, dark brown eyes, dimples and is nearsighted and wears glasses. Hobbies include playing video games, drawing, writing, reading manga and comics, watching anime and movies (mostly supernatural and horror), eating sweets and junk food in general.
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Matchup
TW // depression references
Thank you for your request! Your description sounds like you're really beautiful and a funny, interesting person to be friends with! Hope you enjoy your matchup ^_^
Stardust Crusaders and Phantom Blood Matchup
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My first matchup choice for you is...
Kakyoin Noriaki!
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Oh boy. He's in love with your body, he dedicates entire mornings or even entire days to making you feel beautiful and special, covering you in kisses.
Kakyoin likes your braids, and deeply respects your culture. When one day Polnareff jokingly said that you could make the same braids on Noriaki's red lock of hair, your boyfriend got really upset.
When you least expect it, you might catch him staring at you, gently shoving a finger in a dimple of yours. He loves them, Noriaki says they make you look so cute he can't help touching those. If you're okay with it, obviously.
Not the type of man who steals your glasses to try them on. Out of curiosity, he once asked you to try them, but really only once.
As soon as he learns you like videogames, he might just pull his heart out of his chest and give it to you as a gift. He's always more convinced, everything of you looks like he's meant to be your boyfriend.
You often happen to forget about the time, when you're focused on winning against each other, holding the game controller and screaming. Jotaro hates you both. Playfully.
Noriaki has probably a whole collection of mangas. Not gonna guarantee every single one of those is... appropriate. But he also owns lots of famous and known appropriate manga series.
He enjoys reading them with you, and discuss about the differences between manga version and anime version of something.
Noriaki likes movies about supernatural stuff, he's interested in that. He tries to convince himself he likes horror movies for you, but if you happen to watch one together, he'll cling to you or hide under a blanket.
He's the ceo of eating junk food and sweets while playing videogames, watching movies and stuff. Noriaki looks like a healthy boy, but he just has a fast metabolism.
When you're with new people, for example when Kakyoin introduces you to the crusaders, don't be afraid of relying on him to help you. He understand how difficult it is, having been quite alone all his life.
Once you and the crusaders get to build a friendship, you become Jotaro's nightmare. Kakyoin, Polnareff and Joseph are always there to laugh and be weird with you. Avdol doesn't mind y'all's happiness, leaving Jotaro without someone to lean on to hate you.
If you don't feel like getting out of bed in the morning, don't force yourself and tell Noriaki the truth, he'll totally understand it and stay there with you.
Sometimes he's the one who has mornings when he doesn't feel like getting out of bed himself. He'll be laying on you to stop you from getting up, mumbling he only wants to stay with you and not talk to anyone.
Please make him happy even if you feel like living the day, otherwise he'll show you a neverending pout throughout the whole day.
Don't worry about what to wear around Kakyoin. He loves it when you wear a t-shirt and jeans, the same way he loves it when you wear a skirt, or a dress. He'll never be ashamed of your fashion choices, you're just perfect in his eyes.
The boy is quite romantic, so he's just the right one if you need a little romance. Also, Noriaki is kinda touch starved too, this is what leads to your neverending sessions of sleepy cuddles in the morning.
Just like you, Kakyoin doesn't stand out for being an impatient boy. But if he gets angry, he's quite scary, above all if the reason is someone who was annoying or hurting you.
He deeply cares about taking care of your insecurities, having been through it too. He questioned himself too much in the past, for he wasn't able to make friends. But he only suffered from it. Noriaki doesn't want this to happen to you.
If you know some foreign languages he doesn't know, he gets really excited in listening to you while you speak them or tell him something about them.
He doesn't compare you negatively to others, he doesn't even compare you to others, basically because he's not interested in the differences between you and someone else. You're just you, and that's what he loves.
My second matchup choice for you is...
Jonathan Joestar!
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If you're okay with it, get ready to have your body covered in kisses and compliments, he's a deeply romantic boy and will never lose the chance of making you feel how special and beautiful you are for him.
Jonathan's eyes are as blue as a clear sky, and that's why your dark eyes are a thing he absolutely loves. He could spend hours staring at you, and he's expressive, might pour his heart out with a gaze.
He loves the way you look with your glasses, and he would probably gift you new glasses sooner or later, for your birthday. He has a soft spot for how you look with those.
Oh man. Oh man. Get ready for "Jonathan being brought into things he couldn't imagine he could really like".
There are so many activities he's never tried, and he's the cutest baby when he gets to try them with you and thanks to you. Videogames, for example.
Jonathan pouts a lot, when while teaching him how to play, you have no mercy on him and beat him to every game. You probably do it on purpose to see him like that, because he looks like a puppy.
Everytime he finds you drawing, he'll hug you from behind, resting his chin on your shoulder and kissing your cheek, whispering you that you're so talented, he feels the luckiest man ever.
If you happen to write something you'd like to share with him, don't be afraid or ashamed of doing it. The young Joestar is your number one fan.
He'll watch horror movies with you, he doesn't mind them, after everything he went through. Just know he might flinch with jumpscares. Like a lot. Last time he moved the couch from its location.
To make you proud of him, he'll read a couple mangas too, but he'll admit he has't understood a think. He read those from left to right.
Jonathan is a gentleman, but deep down he loves junk food. He says he needs it, if he wants something tasty to feed his muscles.
If he knows you're about to meet someone you don't know, he makes sure he previously tells you some information on them, just so you feel a little bit more comfortable with being introduced to them.
He sometimes looks - has to look - so chill that your dorky and goofy behavior gives him life. As already seen before, Jonathan is not perfect and strict on his gentleman behavior. He'll just let you carry him with you.
You can be clingy with him in public, he doesn't mind it, maybe he even enjoys it, so everyone sees how happy you two are.
Mornings when you don't feel like getting out of bed, well, just get ready to be spoilt, because he's gonna bring you breakfast in bed.
Jonathan will never force you to wear skirts or dresses. If he wears something elegant, he doesn't feel like he should tell you to do it, too. You'll do it if you feel like it, he cherishes you anyway.
You won't have time, to feel touch starved or insecure. He's affectionate, and every - long - cuddling session becomes a list of every single detail he likes of you.
If you happen to tell Jonathan about your daydreaming, he'll get it seriously and promises he'll manage to make every single dream of yours come true. From the easiest to the most bizarre.
He doesn't really know many other languages apart from english. He once tried with french to sound more like a gentleman, but he gave up after not even a week, that's why he admires your passion for foreign languages.
Jonathan is a dog person, but after everything that happened with Danny, he'll be down to get a cat with you. It'll be useful to warm your bellies in winter when it'll come to rest on you, loudly meowing.
He compares you to other people, sometimes too much, but always in a positive way, as if he wanted to show of what a beautiful angel he loves.
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adulttalk · 7 years ago
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Hey! do you know any way to like, help you slim down gently/feel better about yourself. I'm a huge stress eater and although its not as bad as I was I'm still chubby and look kinda pregnant in the wrong lighting. Only problem is whenever I try to exercise either my family find out and make fun of me or I decide to just go on a diet instead and it spirals into binging again. I really want to be happy with my self in college and not be the ugly friend any more, or the single one maybe. thank you
I would first recommend that you don’t listen to anyone making fun of you. If you want to work out then that’s great. Working out isn’t only good for your physical health but your mental health as well. Typically, after you work out you’re going to feel better about yourself because you feel like you’ve accomplished something, which you have. I strongly recommend that you keep working out for yourself because it’ll boost your confidence in yourself. Also, I strongly recommend ignoring “diets.” They’re only temporary and often when dieting you miss important nutrients and it can lead to unhealthy habits. Diet culture is honestly awful and I’d recommend just staying away from it. However, you can learn to eat healthy as a lifestyle. Learning to eat healthier in general is a much more stable way of learning to put the right ingredients and food into your body. Do some research on healthy recipes for ____ and put in the blank some foods you really enjoy such as chicken, pasta, potatoes, etc. Find what you like and start letting that transition into your eating habits and let unhealthy eating rotate out. This doesn’t mean never eat chocolate. It means eat unhealthy foods in moderation.
Here are some great motivation/exercise/home workout posts from the lovely @herhighnessthequeen
How to Burn Tummy Fat and Boost Metabolism
How to Stay Motivated
Daily Workouts for Different Parts of the Body
30 Day Glow Up Challenge
Home Workouts
Here are some of my general tips to just feel better about yourself, gain self-confidence, and learn to love yourself because, ultimately, this is the most important thing you can do for yourself. If you don’t love yourself, no amount of working out or dieting will help you love yourself or make you feel good about yourself.
1. Don’t look on social media. it is so easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others when it’s already there in your hand. Following fitspos or whatever to motivate me just didn’t work. I think completely turning off social media when you’re feeling bad about yourself is the way to go. It prevents you from comparing yourself to a created image of another person.
2. Start telling yourself one thing you like about yourself every day. it can be the same thing every day if it needs to be, until you find another thing you like about yourself. it doesn’t even have to be that you like this feature about yourself every day. Some days I love my chin and some days I hate it. That’s natural. But telling myself every day that I love the color of my eyes helped me to learn to accept other parts of myself and appreciate the beauty in others.
3. Literally fake your confidence to the max. You have to talk to yourself like you’re a king, paying yourself the best compliments. When I would go to send a snap to a friend, instead of picking at everything I hated, I would look at the photo and go “Damn I’m fine as fuck” and then just send it. It’s okay if you don’t believe these compliments at all. Eventually you’ll learn to appreciate yourself and learn how important it is to love yourself from these self-given compliments.
4. Realize that you are completely fine the way you are and that no one else’s opinion matters. It’s all about how much you love yourself. If you’re healthy, focus on being happy and loving yourself.
5. Remind yourself that it’s okay to slip up sometimes. Acknowledge when you do and move on. Compliment yourself when you realize you’ve said something negative. “Oh I don’t like this feature today but damn my hair is poppin.” Remember that no one loves themselves 100% 365 days a year.
I hope this is what you were looking for. Keep me updated!
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