#learn feminist theory to make your forcemasc better

[privateenemy]

"it's more acceptable for women to wear pants" but not for her to be hairy or in certain settings to not wear makeup or (widely) to be too muscular or have desires or be fat or, hey, y'know, want to be a fucking man.

forcemascing typically doesn't even typically focus on clothes. Focuses on changes to your body and taking testosterone and your t-dick. Affirming you as a man. Actually, maybe a suit, maybe ratty sneakers and jeans (hello 7/11).

Not to be that guy, but I tried to wear a tuxedo to Prom, my mom fighting with me the whole way there. Got turned around at the door because my principal said I was being ridiculous (among other things), and I was punched and pushed to the ground by a laughing group of teenagers on the way back to the car. Mom was angry when I got back in (especially because I was dirty so "irresponsible") but also asked me "What did you expect?"

Entirely within the realm of possibility that a trans woman wearing even like, a pink suit or even a suit tailored in a certain way would've been harassed worse. A dress, maybe worst of all, and maybe the worst of that wouldn't even have left her house.

Not saying "I was punched, so give me a kink about it" (and if I was that'd be fine) but why is it so hard to imagine that some people are denied something so having a fantasy where someone else not only knows what they want without them having to ask for it, but also gives it to them despite hand wringing and conditioned denial?

The kinks are bound to be different because, yes, the responses either party typically gets are different and masculinity and femininity are different as forces.

I don't care about specific blogs, I've been wanting to write something like this for a while, it's just topical. In fact I may write another post.