#lan zhan is the best lover in a way that he doesn't make wei ying feel unloved

[carrot-felisidad]

Came here on Tumblr dot com to tell you guys that Lan Wangji is NOT a non-challant lover. He's emotionless and is a man of very few words, yes, but he shows his love grandly and will SACRIFICE his lifestyle, his reputation, and his whole ass life for the one he loves.

Also, he CLEARLY shows that he bends to Wei Wuxian's wishes, like in Guanyin temple where he demands "Hug me!" and Lan Wangji replied, "I'm hugging!" while he hugs him tight. A non-challant lover would NEVER.

This is an important reminder, because you guys might meet a cold man/woman and you will go, "Omg, they're like Lan Wangji for real" and doesn't even treat you right, talk to you, reply quick, drag you back to Gusu, let you sit on their lap for hours, doesn't involve you in their future, hide forbidden alcohol in their room for you, staying single for 13 years despite your absence... then that's just an emotionally unavailable idiot who doesn't deserve anyone's time of the day.