#kpopers struggling

[poetas-thougturados]

supo que me gustan las twice y en lugar de darme las respuestas de 'what is love?' me dejó en mi 'cry for me' era

[moonsunbam]

i love seeing kpopers and antis giving jimin a hate viral ratio cause of his vocals and saying a buch of things as if they were vocal couchs who understand EVERYTHING about it and not that they are sm stans.. like they said everything bad about jimin that comes to their rotted minds BUT THEN their favs, or trainees in survival shows do a cover of any bts song and we have the most horrendous attempts to sing jimin parts and everyone realize how fucking good of a singer jimin is, how he has the most unique voice in the industry, and how his parts extremely difficult to sing that even jungkook, the MAIN VOCAL of bts struggles to sings cause jimin (and jin) parts are SOOOOO high.

like what jimin do on stage live singing and dancing NO ONE can do, he is a self-taught artist and he is one of the most remarkable and iconic idols in the kpop industry, he is the global it boy, he is a once in a lifetime artist.

you put some damn RESPECT on his name. what he did and does none of your precious big 3 idols are able to replicate.

park jimin has the majority of killing parts in bts music for a reason.

[mantasunray-art]

pls pls pls share screenies i love seeing people’s sims (but also i get you sm i never post my normal dnf sims only the girl ones bc i don’t know how to make men 😭😭)

LMFAO you're so real 😭😭😭😭😭 also there is just so much more clothing, hair, face details and etc for feminine sims so it's totally understandable. i am struggling so hard to find hairstyles for my sims dnf IT IS DIRE most cc creators are kpopers 💔💔💔 but i might share them if more people are interested maybe idk! i'll think about it 😼

[fayerien]

ᯓ★about me

hello! I'm Faye, a struggling student majoring in chemistry. You may call me Faye!

I'm 19 with an unstable financial aid lol

my mbti is intj

my pronouns is she/her

Asian

mentally unstable and obsessed with fictional men :3

multifandom!

a not really active kpopers

also a swiftie~

LIKES!!

chocolates!!, ramen, books, music, iced coffee, desserts, ice cream, tulips, my bed, my phone, fictional men

DISLIKE!!

annoying people, insects, mint choco (don't come at me), veggies

Feel free to talk to me! I won't bite!

[valfangirl]

I thought listening to Kpop would be a small enjoyable hobby rather than an intense, emotional roller coaster of an addiction. I think I made a tactical error.

[ferie-anon]

hi!!so i've wanted to get into astrology for a long time but it's kind of a struggle :/ and i fond risings signs super interesting! so i wanted to ask if they actually affect the way you look because that's super cool

Omg hii, I regard u as a mood and a fellow memey kpoper (your posts and tags are so funny and a mood) I understand because when I first got into astrology seriously, wow it was a lot to take in and more complex/deep but take ur time and don’t stress too much about it. And yes risings can affect your appearance or more of: manifest physically. 

✨Rising/Ascendant🌿

You may notice some ppl with the same rising carry a similar vibe or energy or so and sometimes ppl just cant point it out. Ex: virgo risings don’t stand out often and may have a quiet presence at first irl. Regarding the facial features, it’s pretty hard for me to at least figure out someone’s rising based on that, and I can’t form a good picture about the facial features each rising has to be exact. 

Risings can be affected from aspects within your chart, dominance of the planet or energy of your rising/ascendant. I’m not sure how to begin with it but I’ll start with each planet in the ascendant. First off I’ll start with mercury, If their rising is a gemini or virgo, it is ruled by mercury and often these individuals may be youthful physically or generally don’t age fast in appearance. With gemini rising, I have noticed quite a few gemini risings that may have their baby face or round large eyes, but often they are refered to eyes that are sparkly. (Actually gemini placements in general sometimes exhibit these traits) (Ex: Sandra Bullock and John Krasinski have gemini rising).

Virgo risings are also youthful but in a more contained moderate state due to their reserved/shy nature, they may dress simple, neat or exude some elegance from this disposition. Ofc I believe earth risings have a natural sensual appeal hidden, so there are some forms of it within virgo. Ex: Sunmi has a virgo rising I believe, and Emma watson also has a virgo rising. So if you have mercury dominance or it is prominent in your chart, most likely it can physically manifest.

Aries rising/Mars in the ascendant may make someone quite energetic. Aries is the sign ruled by mars, and aries rising often have a distinguishable feature or harbor distinct features on their face. Their gaze can look sharp, but in the sense of fueled by energy/passion. They may have distinct eyebrows and Aries rising may be individuals of their own charisma, and may be seen through a sense of an impression through their style choices. Ex: I think Shakira, and Haseul from Loona have aries rising.

Pisces rising/Neptune in the ascendant/aspected or planet energy dominance can make an individual be a bit of a blender, they’re the type of person you notice after closely differentiating them and then seeing their sweet melancholic feeling they give off. They seem to zone out or look sleepy at times. (Ex: Billie eilish has pisces rising, and in her childhood photos she does pertain the impression of a sweet reserved kid that wouldn’t stand out at first in class photos.) However pisces energy tend to absorb or be known as the chameleon of the zodiac, so their style or vibes are hard to pinpoint as they may be able to adapt style or energy within a crowd of people and etc. Their energies are mellow so it may take a while to spot a psices rising. (More pisces rising celebs: Bruno mars and Zayn Malik) You also tend to notice their eyes could either give the illusion of an wistful ocean or watery bright river. Since pisces has a symbol of a fish and is a water sign, they could be associated as water, interchangeable or can don different shapes/styles. (Ran out of gif space)

Saturn in the ascendant or aspected individuals are usually the ones that witness a drastic glow up or late glow up that may boost their appearance. I’m not sure about this one, but many saturn individuals retain their youth into their adulthood and it’s a different kind of youth from mercury, more of a state of elegance and coolness that is preserved. Capricorn is governed by saturn, and these individuals do attract ppl with their attitude and impression, in general. They dress in an organized and stylistically classy way? Ex: Ariana Grande and Taylor swift have cap rising. They can be seen as young and gorgeous, rather a different youthful beauty than Gemini rising, there is some maturity within it however cap placements in the big 3 (sun, moon, rising) seem to manifest a physical glowup or notice of their beauty. (ofc every sign has their own beauty so I’m not specifically categorizing cap rising like this)

The planet sun in the ascendant or aspected to it/ leo in the ascendant, may make an individual naturally attracts other attention/spotlight onto them. These individuals may have some type of regality and glamour that impresses others. They may look great in whatever style or in their own statement style. Ex: Marilyn Monroe and Meryl Streep have leo as their ascendant, and they have a sense of an strong aura, Yeonjun (txt) could possibly have a leo rising lmao he’s such a fashionista and definitely has the confidence. Also I notice from the ones with this placement their hair may be a noticeable factor or a big trait of their physical image.

Venus dominance or in the ascendant/ libra or taurus in the ascendant may bring an individual to naturally possess some type of beauty others cannot discern of. Libra risings have that air of pleasantry that partially adds to their beauty factor, and their symmetrical features are often likable and attracts others. Ex: I.N from Straykids I think could have a libra rising, and I think it was confirmed that Jihyo has a libra rising after Jihyo mentioned her birthtime. Taurus risings can be seen as sensual or very traditionally beautiful. I notice taurus risings eyes and mouth may be sensual or the attractive feature that is drawn to their face, and the celebs with taurus rising seem to have good skin presently. Ex: Camilia Cabello, Denise Richards. Taurus risings also have something ethereally beautiful but in a more earthly warm way. 

Cancer rising/when the moon is in the ascendant or aspected presence in the chart, the native can give off motherly or friendly vibes that others may feel comforted by. Their faces can be soft and round, or give off a gentle warm vibe and their eye smiles and smile in general may be eye catching or one of their distinct features. Perhaps moony eyes. Cancer risings bodies can be healthy or full depending on the presence of the planet in the native’s chart. Also these natives are part of the slow aging squad, due to their soft features/face shape they may still retain that young vibe. I think Lisa from Blackpink has a cancer rising and Angelina Jolie. Both of their bodies has some softness but healthy figure to them. (Angelina in her old days was known for her curves and healthy figure, and still is but due to age)

Pluto dominance or presence aspecting the ascendant or having scorpio in the ascendant seem to have a distinct eye and eyebrow structure/shape. Their eyes may be sharp like they are thinking but you don’t really know what they are thinking of. These natives could have an alluring/charismatic presence and their fashion statement seems to center around dark or mature colors (but ofc this can vary). Ex: Katy Perry and Debbie Harry have scorpio rising. Ofc they don’t always wear black, but their attire or fashion may have some form or association with the color black or red, whether eyeliner or dress or shoes etc. Also scorpio risings don’t have to wear black to be their smexy self, they just own it.

Jupiter presence in the chart or in the ascendant/sagittarius rising usually have thick or healthy looking hair. Their smiles and features seem to give off a bright and charming energy that attracts others. I think there is a natural talent of attracting ppl in their social circle, or may be popular or known in some way. Ex: Princess Diana, Anne Hathaway and Kim Kardashian have a sagittarius rising. Ofc their bodies are one of the physical focal point, for princess Diana she had a very healthy and opposite of a thinner physicality. Kim Kardashian was at first known for her natural curves and desired body. Anne Hathaway’s figure has been noted through wearing fitted dresses and other iconic fashion moments of her curves and hourglass figure.They also may present a jovial expression or vibe, from the way they smile or etc. Sagittarians may have distinct thighs or their legs may be the attractive point for others.

Uranus dominance or in the ascendant/ Aquarius risings are people that may have a unique look or statement. They may have an otherworldly vibe, something found spacial or not your typical vibe, (Audrey Hepburn has an aquarius rising and it can be noted that there may be that aforementioned description found when glancing at Audrey, especially her eyes like they’re staring far off into another space, like they see something or past the earth. Due to uranus’ symbolization of bringing new changes by forging new paths as an innovator and bringing unexpectancy, Audrey for one has been setting trends in the old days or referenced for her iconic fashion moments within her old films, alluding to starting something new.) Thus aquarius rising natives may set off new trends or spark controversy or talk of a different perspective of style and fashionistic choice. Another example of a celeb with aquarius rising, Nicki Minaj :))

[look-its-amber-blog]

Kpoper confessions.

- If somebody next to me starts pointing at my bias saying its handsome, or sexy, or hot, or gorgeous, i want to kill them. But if they point him as ugly i want to kill them also. 🙅🏻🤦🏻‍♀️ That's part of a Kpoper struggle I guess🤷🏻‍♀️ Reblog if it happens to you too. 🙋🏻

[doruwuwei]

Listen I want to ask you all of these but I'm going to try and refrain myself : daydreams, silk, clouds, mochi, sunset ! only if you want to answer of course :)

First of all, thank you so much for all these questions!!! You’ve chosen the cutest ones, omg! I’m sorry if I get carried away answering them hehe.

daydreams - If you could be anything or anyone, who would you be?

I don’t think I would like to be anyone else, because I don’t want to idealize anyone’s life. Even if I may think their life is easier for any reason, everybody has their own struggles and I’ve been working on mine for a while, so I don’t want new ones.

I would love to be a bird, though. Hahaha. I just want to fly.

silk - Do you like k-pop?

I love this question because for the longest time I didn’t want to get into k-pop (mainly because of the fandom because I don’t feel comfortable when people put too much pressure to be perfect on their idols and I though all kpopers were like that). I se my mistake now and some of my friends have been introducing me to their favourite bands and songs and I AM LOVING IT.

Tbh, I’m listening to k-pop 24/7 now a days. I love PENTAGON, NCT and Twice and I would really appreciate any recommendations.

Clouds - describe your favourite dream

I don’t usually remember my dreams, only nightmares. But when I was a kid I used to dream all the time about this house on the coast and I used to spend the whole dream chasing a mermaid.

Mochi - favourite studio Ghibli movie?

This is so difficult!! But I think it would have to be Howl’s Moving Castle or Spirited Away. And if you understand Spanish, I really recommend you to watch the Spanish dubbed version; it’s so god.

Sunset - what are your pronouns?

She/her. Super thoughtful of you to ask this.

[healthyamountofcrazy]

I think what draws a lot of international fans to kpop is the unique hideaway it provides. Over the years I noticed that a lot of kpoper struggle with a lot of personal problems, that being health, mental health, family, sometimes bullying. And kpop is their escape. It’s choosing to belive that person who is hundreds of miles away, would never do that to us. That they would never hurt us, betray us and that they would always greet us with arms wide opened if something happens. All of us know that it’s not going to happen. That we will be lucky if we ever see them life but maybe partially that’s why it’s so easy to find safe space in kpop - because it’s hard to actually feel betrayed. Because at the end of the day we will never know if those people -our idols - would react the way we want them too. And that’s okay. Sometimes believing is more than enough. Sometimes if you feel comfortable with something, you just should corss the boundary.

[jjpmoans]

yes!! smut writers in my perspective get more attention. back when i used to write got7 smut i used to get a lot more interaction than what i get today. maybe it’s also related to the fact that i’ve changed writing communities. but still. usually my smut works used to get more attention than fluff/angst ones. and this is also something i’ve talked about with svt writing friends. they also feel like their smut stuff gets a lot more likes/reblogs than their other works. and if you write more than just smut, we all feel like most of the people come back for smut stuff only :/

Yeahh i admit that. I think it's bcs most of the time kpopers are horny hahahahaha but I just want to point out that though smut writers do receive more likes and reblogs, that doesn't mean one should belittling smut writers. I feel belittled for once bcs the way the moot says "when you write smut, 300 notes are easy to achieve". I mean, uhm there are also smut writers who are struggling? And yeah. Anyways me as a smut writer thinks that we can't really control what our audience are here for. That's my point. I mean like my blog is a smut blog, of course people who were here were for smut. If I post fluffs, I should have expected less notes. And from what I saw, some readers were just here to read. Not to engage or anything. That's why.

[autumn-leaves-and-crystal-snow]

The Most Famous Anti On Tumblr?

Kpoperic

You’ve probably heard the name in the last few weeks with some of the racist and malicious comments he makes, not just towards idols, but towards their fans too. For a guy claiming he’s only expressing his opinion, he sounds like an actual piece of shit. It’s people like him that make me think human decency is dead.

This dude, he doesn’t fucking know what he’s saying. I scrolled through, probably, hundreds of his posts and each one was as disgusting as the last.

Now I never fucking call anyone out on here, but if anyone reading this hasn’t already, I beg you to report and block him. He violates Tumblr’s Community Guidelines with his ‘opinions’. 

He’s discriminating skin colour calling darker skin ‘ugly and dirty’. He fat shames, and encourages people to lose excessive and unnecessary amounts weight.

What tipped me over the edge is that he called BTS’s Jimin fat, and all us ARMY’s know Jimin really struggles with body image, eating and is losing lots of weight because he feels he’s not skinny enough. 

It would bother me if it was directed at any other person going through the same thing aswell. I have personally suffered anorexia as a result of people fat shaming me and I still suffer from this eating disorder 5 years later.

Honestly, this man is disgusting, and for such a person being part of our community, truly sickens me to my stomach.

[viriyanon]

When you get this, it would be cool to post 10 facts about yourself and then pass it along to 10 followers.😊😊💕💗💖💗💗

Okay dude i was awkward af but here we go:

1. I was shooketh to death when there’s an ask from @husbandsjjp like wtf did she know that i stalked her blog everytime after school (cus yes obviously i reblogged here and there, causing havoc). Hey emmy i luv your blog 💖

2. Im quite an introvert, be it in the real world or the cyber world. Don’t like party, if invited would rather blend with shadows in the corner, hello darkness my old friends.

3. A tomboy, curses a lot, often plays soccer, always read book in free time. I read nietzsche, machiavelli, hermann hesse, an author who wrote about human rights through fictional tetralogy named pramoedya ananta toer and now i am beginning to read kahlil gibran and fyodor dostoevsky (tho im still struggling to interpret all of them)

4. A kpop enthusiast established since 2010 and when new kpopers at school diss agencies i was just like “welcome to the zoo, kids. We are in the reptile house, this is SM snake, yeah that one is pledis alligator, …” Yada yada. No offense tho. Just do this when needed.

5. I am fluent in english, a little fluent in korean, a little little little little fluent in deutsch (i passed A1 tho), a very basic french, a very basic chinese, a very basic icelandic, and a very very basic japanese (just ohayou, minna san. Boku no namae wa …… desu. Shitty skill from only watching animes.)

6. I am indifferent, careless, and cynical(?) but become definitely different when talking about kpop. I guess im quite a veteran in this business.

7. My earworm this week is seventeen’s rock.

8. An author and amateur graphic designer since 2012. Currently writing taejinkook, markhyuck, jinxreader, and jayjaypeh (and none of them is close to fin).

9. I have things for jayjaypee. Even though they had vanished for awhile and the fact that im in 999999999999999999 other fandoms, but i just have things for their domesticity. It’s unexplainable if it’s told verbally, i just feel like i could make a 400 page book consisting of evidences abt jayjaypee’s relationship, a body language dictionary of jayjaypee, and prolly a blueprint of their future house geezwhatamitalkingabtimustbefuckedinthehead

10. I want to live in iceland. I want to escape the mad city and all of those school shits that need to be done in New York minutes. Yeah, the world is rotating, revolving, and evolving but human’s body stays the same throughout centuries. I need the longest hybernation a human could have in iceland because i love cold, silence, and nature and i see that iceland provides them all.

[rygttriana]

DMN TRUE!

Inc : How to be a good fans!

Hiiii I’m back!!!!

Setelah lama hiatus karna kesibukan yang gak jelas. Haha.

Ok. This time gue mau bahas masalah yang lagi banyak dibicarakan kpopers. Yap Kpop.  Kalian udah pada tau kalau gue memang suka kpop dari dulu.

Jadi masalah yang cukup menyorot perhatian kpopers sekarang bersekitar di YG Ent. Mulai dari Seungri degan kasus Club Burning Sun nya sampai terakhir Hanbin / B.I Ikon (yang sekarang sudah  hengkakng dari grup) yang terjerat kasus narkoba.

Nah disini gue gabakal bahas penjelasan permasalahan mereka seperti latar belakang skrip yang panjang bgt :D Karena kita yang gak tinggal dikorea secara tidak langsung cuman dapat berita yang belum selengkap knet. Yang mau gue coba bahas disini respon nya kpopers baik itu knet atau pun kita kpopers luar Korea.

Tentu aja gue sebagai penggemar kpop dari jaman suju masih jadi oppa oppa  dan sangat berjaya (walaupun sekarang masih tenar aja tuh om om) sampe sekarang ,merasa prihatin sama apa yang terjadi di YG Ent. Gue memang bukan YG Stand (sebutan penggemar artis YG Entertainment) tapi gue suka artis mereka kaya big bang, 2NE1, Blackpink dan artis mereka yang lain. Soal bakat  artis YG Ent  gak perlu diragukan lagi lah, artis mereka punya “warna yang unik” dibanding artis dari agensi lain. Mereka tak segan mengekspresikan keunikan mereka baik secara music, penampilan, dance dan hal lainnya. But sadly saat ini mereka benar-benar berada di titik terendah menurut gue. Dan gue juga prihatin akan hal itu.

Kasus-kasus yang ada pasti jadi struggle tersendiri  buat fandom mereka. Banyak respon yang datang. But….. Guys seriously respon yang datang dari knet dan fans Negara lain sangat bertolak belakang. Knet menurut gue disini sah aja komen pedas terhadap artis bahkan idol mereka sekalipun. Banyak dari mereka hilang respectnya terhadap artis yang memang secara moral itu bersalah…. Karena mereka fikir yang salah itu ya salah gak peduli baiknya lo dulu, gak peduli prestasi dulu. Kalo lo memang salah apalagi kesalahannya fatal ya tetap salah. Beda sama kpopers luar korea. Yang gue lihat dan tangkap disini kpopers luar korea yang cenderung membela dan melihat dari sisi “manusiawi”. Bahkan knet yang tau respon kpopers luar korea sampai menyangak hal-hal mealnggar norma yang dilakukan idol mereka itu legal dinagara kpopers I yang membela idol yang terkena masalah.

So, guys i advice you to be a good fans here! Kalian boleh sedih, kalian boleh prihatin, tapi jagan sampai membenarkan kesalahan yang dilakukan sama idol kalian. Cmon! Gak sepenuhnya knet judes!! Pakai narkoba? Melanggar norma kan? Pelecehan? Pastinya lebih melanggar norma lagi kan. Dan yang paling penting informasi yang kita dapat disini gak sebanyak informasi yang didapat knet. Salah satu penyebabnya pasti kendalah bahasa. Kalo bukan lo yang memang bisa bahasa korea, translate dari translator online pasti ada fales nya.

Jadi, kalo salah ya tetap salah jagan sampai membenarkan yang salah. Tapi jika mereka memang benar-benar memperbaiki diri gak ada salahnya di support.

Kamsahamnida~~ :D

[k-p-p-d]

I'm doing okay, tired but that's the life I decided to live. Random ass fact: there is a video that have every BTS music video but the members are labeled. It's a godsend for new kpopers but where was it when I thought Jimin and Kookie were the same person.

That does sound perfect for new babies but yeah, i’m kinda salty I never saw anything like that back when i first got into BTS or Exo either lolll I struggled for the longesttt. 

p.s Shout out to the people who actually make those videos .Y’all are a blessing!!

p.p.s Make sure you get some good rest soon Love!

-Blossom

[mrkwonandmrchoibabygirl]

being loyal to one bias is hard for each kpoper lol I feel ya

It's such a struggle especially when they have a Comeback but if I'd have to choose one bias I'd have to stay loyal too I'd definitely know who to choose :)

[bridgetokpop]

Thank you Hyman for opening up about your struggles it’s time we stop stigmatizing mental health #kpop #kpopper #kpoper #kpopfan #kpopidol #hyuna https://www.instagram.com/p/B5c7tCeAPoK/?igshid=1gwfukkg9ig6z