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[oddballkinfessions]

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[kin-one-kin-all]

Hello Hello, we're a bloody new kinfession blog here to create a safe space for kin, alter- and nonhumans, system members, DAs and more!

A promo, perhaps? @fictionkinfessions @kin-mart @citizenoftmrrwlnd

[paradoxkinspace]

yknow, being a ghost wasn’t so bad. it was kind of weird and yeah the way i went out was sad but i remember being happier after? now that i typed that out it sounds kind sad but it was nice to be a ghost. for the most part it actually made me more confident in a way. plus i found it funny to scare the hell out of people (vriska). and i could float?? tell me how that’s not fun

-aradia megido

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[hazyaltcare]

I'm a Hilda (Pokemon Black and White) kin, requesting some positivity!

I feel guilty about having negative emotions and always expressing them so extremely (especially anger and jealousy), especially after this happened:

I used to be in a Pokemon-centered RP group (oddly enough, I never RPed as Hilda there), and occasionally, they'd talk about Pokemon Masters EX (which my phone doesn't support, sadly). Whenever they did, I'd just feel sad and left out, simply saying "Man, I wish I could play the game too..."

Eventually, after seeing a shit-ton of messages about Masters EX, I couldn't take it any longer, so I lashed out to try to get them to see that I didn't want to hear any more about it. They only got mad at me for bringing my jealousy to the forefront, and took away my RP privileges.

More than one of the mods even said the server would be better off if I left, and even though I apologized for it and said I'd try to prevent it from happening again, TRYING was not enough for them - they wanted perfection! And I eventually believed they were right that the best choice was to leave, so I did, even though I loved it there. I even thought I was actually welcome there, but apparently THAT was bullshit too!

And if you're gonna try the "Oh, I'm sorry they were so toxic!" excuse, the people in the server were actually very chill - I was the toxic one. I have a bad habit of toxic negativity that stems from when N said his goodbyes to me all that time ago, because I feared he found something or someone better to replace me, that I was just a consolation prize to him, and I'm just as expendable to everyone else as I was to him. I really do want to change for the better, but I fear I'm only getting worse and that if I try to tell someone, they'll say my feelings are invalid.

I'm deeply sorry for the ramble and burdening you with my problems and letting my toxicity start leaking into this, but I don't want to live with this weight on my shoulders, but I'm worried you'll dismiss and invalidate my troubles too.

Thank you for reaching out to this blog, and you don't have to apologize, that's what this blog is for.

I don't want to dismiss or invalidate your troubles, I'll try my best not to - you deserve to have support, and to get this weight off your chest.

I want you to know that it's really good that you know what you did - lashing out at the group chat - was wrong. It was hurtful, and we all have done hurtful things, especially fueled by negative emotions like jealousy and feeling left out. I don't think the group chat was toxic - they have a right to boot you out of the server and make sure the majority of the people in the chat are respected. Especially if the server rules have a strike system.

However, you have a right to feel upset about being kicked out of the server. Your feelings are valid. It's very kind of you to want to do better, to not lash out and treat others in the group with respect, and it's okay to wish you could stay in a group you loved.

I understand feeling guilty about negative emotions, especially since you've used anger and jealousy to hurt people. But all feelings are okay to have. Feelings are morally neutral. Actions are what determines if you're good or not. I believe you can listen to your feelings, find the root cause and try to fulfill your needs so you don't lash out at people.

Also, it's valid to have jealousy issues stem from someone who treated you as expendable. Or from other reasons, really. You are not alone. I feel a lot of jealousy too. And a lot of regret for my actions.

If this helps to hear, I believe you that you want to change for the better. And I believe that you can and will manage to do it, in time, You do not have to be perfect. You just gotta be patient with yourself, and not beat yourself up if you struggle. Everyone lapses, everyone makes mistakes and hurts others occasionally, what we can do moving forward is try not to repeat it and to make up for the hurt, be it by treating the other party better next time, or by respecting their boundaries if they want to be left alone.

And changing for the better does not mean you stop feeling jealous or angry 100% (which is impossible), but managing your jealousy and anger, and being honest with your feelings to others to prevent resentment (and by extension further jealousy and fights and stuff). Of course I can't give you advice for individual situations, but I know you can figure it out.

Plus, your feelings are valid. And realizing where you went wrong and what you want to change about yourself is the first step in changing for the better. And whoever says your feelings are invalid or steps all over your emotional honesty are just acting really inconsiderate.

I hope this helps, and know that I'm rooting for you!

Mod Vintage (🌘)

[sinning-kins]

I am Zim from Invader Zim. I feel so homesick. It's so painful knowing the truth. I gave my everything for the empire. who am I if not an invader? I can never go back to Irk or anywhere the empire is, and it would be stupid to miss it when they all want me dead. So I miss space. I miss the Voot. I miss riding in it with Gir, even though he was smelly and annoying and horrible. For some reason I even miss that horrible worm, Dib! At least he bothered to check if i'm dead. I feel lost.

you have been heard loud and clear, zim... i can only wish the best for you, and pray that you are able to find those you miss, even if you feel undeserving of their company. thank you for confessing, you will remain within our hearts here.

[taxidermycanine]

don't care + running + jumping + skipping + hopping + having fun + playing

[a-wildkinventure]

Help– every kin confession place I've gone to is always reformatting my confessions because I use too much bold / italics or smaller text like when I do my [explanation box] thing. 😭 I'm not trying to, I swear, it's habitual. I'm sorryyyyy.

But I'll get better about your rules, but, like... damn, dude. I'm sorry ig... Like... your rules aren't pinned anywhere, and I send asks in WAVES. So ALL of my asks are gonna be reformatted because I couldn't see the rules page. :'<

I am sorry though. I hope I didn't cause them stress. :[

I kind of hate myself for using typing quirks now because God fucking dammit I made someone uncomfortable. Why the fuck was I a jackass like that??!

[WOOOOOO ANXIETY TIME BITCHHHHH!!]

[freelykin]

🎀 ...Toris, are you out there? It's Tasha. I don't really know what to say, other than "I miss you". Maybe I'll get to talk with you again someday; maybe we can even talk about poetry and the moon, like before. No matter what, I hope for your happiness, truly.

!!!!

[petbrain]

i adore the term "puppy love" i think i will love like a puppy all my life

[artaintfartwarriors]

hmm u should do darktail!

One of the best villains!!!!

[wings-of-fire-confessions]

I see lots of wof fictionkin not even being in character and it annoys the hell out of me. Moonwatcher WOULD NOT defend Queen Scarlet, on god. Some of you need to learn what fictionkin is because you’re making us look stupid.

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[ratboyinastarrycoat]

at some point during a hyperfixation my ability to articulate my complicated thoughts about a character decay to a point where i just turn into this

[kin-one-kin-all]

Good day!

This blog strives to be a kinfession blog for all kin and otherwise alter- and/or nonhumans out there!

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You can call me Mod Shaun or Mod Stefan.

Besides confession services we also offer pendulum readings.

You may also use the askbox to talk to me/ask me anything!

Rules:

Confessions do not reflect the Mod's opinions and/or beliefs

We do not condone the harassment of others

NSFW confessions are permitted

We reserve the right to delete any ask we receive should we consider the contents to be of harmful nature

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[paradoxkinspace]

kinfession... i fucking miss my john, man. i miss rose and karkat too but i've been trying really hard not to think about john because it hurts lol. i remember he would be the only person who would be able to sufficiently distract me from the weird shit bro did when i was still on earth and we played mario kart online and he won, but i still think im better than him at it. john please hmu so i can beat yr ass at mario kart lmao... but really it just. it sucks so bad to know he's probably out there but i just can't reach him. even on the meteor we could get connection enough on rare occasions, and at least i had kk and rose and tz around. idk. it just sucks.sorry this is such a fuckin downer lmao

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[diaswarriorcats]

[sinning-kins]

hi, i’m cyrus, better known as cyclops. i’m from philly and i live with my mom and i’m a member of the goth punks. well bot anymore really i guess imm here now. it’s scary in this life. i don’t know these people. i’m on the other sode of the country. i miss my friends and i miss my mama and i miss philly i wanna go home. yeah that’s all thank you for reading

i get the sentiment, i miss my life too. know youre not alone in this, dear <3.