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Week 3

This week on a Karissas love life. I told the year in the past weeks that he and I shouldn't date or be in a relationship. He didn't reply for a day and when he did he sent me long messages about how I was just dragging him along and how he wanted to meet in the middle. I told him no I didn't think it would work. So he told me he would message me later. That was 2 days ago and still no reply back from him. I think he might be mad. 

If you have any questions or comments feel free to ask. C: see you next week!

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Week 2

 This week on Karissas love life: So as you all know last week a guy I'm talking to told me he would kill himself if something had happened to me. Immediately I wanted to shut him out and leave him in the cold and that is what's I intended to do. I told my mentor and some close friends and they all agreed I should talk to him in person. So Saturday ,2/18/17, we planned to hang out and get subway and starbucks. Then is when I was going to confront him about how uncomfortable he made me and tell him we need to just be friends . Well on Monday ,2/13/17, he asks me if he can get me a gift because he is aware that I have a huge fear of commitment, relationships, and intimacy and didn't want to cross any boundaries.  I didn't want to refuse his gift on Saturday for Valentine's Day so I said it would be fine thinking it would be a cheap box of chocolates or something.  Because of my fear of relationships I decided to take Valentine's Day off for school. I wasn't in the mood to deal with the “lovey dovey” highschool scene. So I slept in, took a nice hot shower. After my shower I dressed in leggings, a pull over sweater, and threw my hair in a messy bun and didn't bother putting on any make-up. Around 3 the guy texted me and asked me if I like bears. I said I like koala bears. He said yeah haha people say I'm like a bear. Obviously he was going to get me a bear on Saturday. So being petty like I am, I continued to use one word messages and eventually he got the point to just leave me alone. Around 5:00p. my best friend messaged me and told me she would be coming over to in a little bit to give me a valentine gift.  So about 10mins later I hear a car door shut and I peek out my window expecting it to be hailey. But no it's the guy I'm talking to holding a vase full of roses and Lilly's with a cute little bear wrapped around the vase. I was freaking out. I raced to the door and there he was with his mom beside him taking pictures. I hugged and was super embarrassed because of how trashy I looked. But he still told me I looked beautiful :) . We talked for a little while but he eventually had to leave so we hugged goodbye and as soon as I closed the door behind me I started yelling hysterically completely flabbergasted. So when Saturday came around I spoke to him about the whole “kill myself situation” and he said he didn't mean it, he was just using that for affect. I didn't understand but if he wasn't super dramatic about it then I wasn't going to be either. We continued talking and I gave him my gift which was a cheap box of chocolates I got half off on the 15th, he loved them anyway. The date itself went great there were a few awkward encounters with people we knew, but overall it was refreshing.  We haven't talked much since then, but I'm sure throughout the week we'll talk more.  

               ~I'll keep you posted my lovelies talk to you next week! 

 ^^^ the flowers he got me <3

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Week 1

Last Friday I went on a date with this guy I've been talking to for the past couple months. This date was nothing fancy we just went to a coffee shop and talked for about two hours his after coffee his parents who adore me took us out to lunch at Red Robin where his mother began to interigate me asking me every question you could image from food to very personal issues. I told this guy a lot about myself only to find out he then spills it all to his mom.  On Tuesday he and I were texting and he asked me what my favorite color is I told him purple. He replied with “"ever hear the saying a man grows up to marry his mom” to say the least I was greatly disturbed not only because he compared me to his mom but because he was already thinking about marriage, I don't know about you but those are two red flags.  But I decided to ignore it and take it as a compliment though it was strange. Then yesterday he told me that if anything were to happen between us he would kill him self.  Let me just say we are still in highschool and we aren't even officially dating. We've gone on one date and already he's so dependent on me he would end his life if we didn't work out.