#kajsjsjs such a dad....

[bxbygirlleon]

YOOO ARE WE ON BOARD W THE REAL DAD!LEON TRAIN TOO

KAJSJSJS LOWKEY YEAH 😩 like. i didn’t expect to be so into it but ??? hnnnnngggghhhh. @/moolvn’s bot and @/dilfhub’s writing did things to me.

and like???? MEAN DAD?? holy shit. that scratches an itch i didn’t even know i had. so excited !!

for some reason uncle! leon really is growing on me too tho haaaaahh…..

[ivyglow]

one day your daughter comes home from preschool and shows you and mat a ring pop, claiming that a boy from her class proposed to her and she accepted it (obviously not knowing what it actually means), and overprotective girl dad!mat goes feral “a boy...... proposed to MY BABY?????? ABSOLUTELY NOT”

KAJSJSJS Omg he would make sure to drop her on school the next day and he even calls the team to tell them he’s gonna be late for practice. And when you guys get in front of the school your daughter is quick to find her “husband” who’s with his parents as well and hug him. You guys ended up becoming friends w the boy’s parents although Mat was a lil moody at first.

[minstrivia]

me explaining to my dad that i HAVE to be up early tmrw and NO I CANT WATCH THE MV LATER ARE U INSANE: my dad, a nice guy but an absolute local: 👁👄👁

KAJSJSJS THIS IS LITERALLY HOW IT IS 😭

[caswlw]

I dont have legs to stand on in ice milk or anything else liquid bc I only drink water and sip my dads wine when my moms not looking

help skdjjddj

i have been offered alcohol a Lot by my drunk relatives and i’m always like haha... 💀 bc one time my sister was given a drink that she Thought was normal and it was some kind of alcohol and she looked like she was dying kajsjsj

[ivyglow]

mel, i so appreciate you taking about all different sorts of things on your blog and making it such a safe place for everyone ❤️ throughout quarantine my body has changed quite a bit (like many people) and in my case it wasn’t just because of being cooped up at home, but mostly as a result of constantly getting on and off new meds and that really screwing with my body in so many ways. so it was really hard to deal with these changes while i was in a bad mental state. my parents were both serious athletes (my dad played lacrosse and coached after college, and my mom was a runner who set all different records for track at her school) so of course they’re all about being active and sports, but also food and (although well intentioned) weight. the past few weeks i’ve just been struggling with this and today some comments were made about my appearance so i’m really thankful that you talked about this today ❤️

omg nonny I don’t even know how to answer you properly-. It must be though dealing w it all and having your parents as a constant reminder of everything you’re experiencing and I’m so sorry you have to deal with it, but I’m also so proud you’re trying to make it through ❤️ this is a hard situation and you’re dealing w it w addition of details that make it ten times harder, but you’re still making it through and I hope you know you’re doing amazing ❤️

about the changes of our bodies during quarantine: I was struggling at first and then I started to think about it using science, like I saw my feet are the size and shape they’re supposed to be to sustain my whole body (which is sized and shaped perfectly so it can be sustained by said feet) and my feet are the same size my forearm, my neck has the perfect height and my waist, legs etc and all these organs and parts of my body work together to keep me alive and they’ve been doing such a good work during this pandemic because not only they need to protect me from a deadly virus they also have to deal w the mental implications of going through social distancing, changing all my habits and routine, so whenever I noticed I either lost or gained any weight throughout the month I try to remind myself that this is the body thats trying to keep me alive and has been through a lot since I was born but still give me so much joy (like this is the body that lets me do hikes and walks and this is the body that cheers w a hockey game and this is the body that type messages and watch movies and read books and sleep and do everything you know?!) so why would I be mean with it when this was the way my body found to deal with all of this stuff?! like we’re going through a lot for more than and year and our bodies still here, still working, still giving us joy, why tf would I be mean with it and point that gain/loss of weight was something bad yk?! that’s what I’ve telling myself everyday, this is something I try to remember. I almost broke my foot once, I was involved in a motorcycle crash, I went two days without sleep and I went one whole day sleeping, I did a 15h marathon of a random tv show and I spent more than 8 hours on my phone, I was able to be friends w people around the world and my brain understands a new sport/language/slang, etc, my body experienced it all with me since my birth and it's still here strong or at least trying to be, so the least I can do is try to be kind even if it takes me an alarm clock every morning so I can remember to drink water and think about something good, etc. this is also my home and the home of my loved ones, I want it to be a safe and comforting space and in order to do that I need to try taking care of myself. Anyway, this is just something that works for me and I hope thinking about it may help you guys too ❤️

THat being said, I’m sorry for the rant kajsjsjs and I’m so happy we (me and nonnies) were able to help you somehow!

here’s a reminder if nobody told you today: you’re doing amazing and I’m so proud of you 💖❤️💖💖❤️💖❤️💖 keep going! You got this! Also: you’re so so so pretty ✨💜🌈