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some self aftercare tips for doms and subs!

don't put lotion on contact or rope burns, ointment first.

water will help, but juice has immediate sugar that can help with numbness or faintheaded issues, try not to exhert too much.

any sort of small salt based snack can help with nausea if climaxes are a bit too intense! nerves cross and it's a lot, it happens!

please don't chug liquids after this stuff, slow and steady will reguster better

have you taken meds? some people think about it most now, when the feelings are settling and a bit intense.

work out your hands, the amount of pressure in your hands can be the thing making the rest of you ache.

new clothes might help!

put something familiar on, music, a podcast, a show

take some deep breaths. if you have no one else with you, positive affirmations can feel very healing as self aftercare.

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help i can't stop edging and this fucking thing won't turn off [my dick]

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god i'm so sick of this crap- if we're in a designated, communicated and pretty fucking committed situation? Don't just use me ESPECIALLY as your dom to get your rocks off and then fuck off the minute that's not my trajectory anymore or I express the need and desire to be submissive. I'm a fucking person outside of kink and need care and that includes aftercare and adequate consideration as to how I might feel every once in a while especially after being heavily coaxed into being a harder dom than i think i can handle and continuing to press those limits. I make such an undying vested effort for everyone i play with to make sure their needs are handled and that is not just the dom's responsibility. My communication is so severely and painstakingly picked through when going through negotiations and consent conversations because this keeps happening and I wish on both dom and sub sides that people could just be more up front with what they are genuinely capable of handling and delegating. For everyone- These are real people you're talking to. With real feelings, very real boundaries, and often times very real genuine aftercare needs in order to not feel fractured or hurt by play. Don't play if you don't have time to pick up the pieces of the very real person on the other side of the screen that you've been GIFTED the opportunity to break. Domming is a responsibility especially in 24/7 dynamics and if you can't follow through with your agreed terms then DO NOT DOM. Subs, doms are not here just to be used. And you also have a responsibility to be open with your play partners about your needs and finally- IF SOMEONE IS NOT RESPECTING YOUR BOUNDARIES, LEAVE. You don't owe anyone SHIT and if it's been time and time and time again of restating and introducing boundaries, they're not going to get it and ultimately might not have the general capacity to care for you in a way that will keep kink a safe place. This is very scattered but I can only scream so loud for people to PLEASE have consideration for their fucking partners and friends and the strangers that are KIND ENOUGH to pay attention to what you have to say.

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Will I ever use this blog? Who knows- go follow my actual active blog at @kaedthoughts in the meantime!

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i was told last night that i was unfuckable on the basis of being trans and in response i will be taking the day to relentlessly and lovingly fuck myself!

[this is not a drag on not being attracted to trans people! this is a 'ur missing out buddy' post and i'm self loving about it]

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Hello there!!

I'm back!

new year soon, renewed mental health, and hoping to continue to heal and express myself!

girlcock is hot and boyslit is dandy, i'd like to lick them both like candy!

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bro if i’m gonna do this much laundry i should be getting fucked about it, just sayin’ :<

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LOVE TRANS WOMEN HERE!!!!

rb if your hole is a safe space for trans women

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personally I think your day would be more enjoyable with me waiting to service you when you get home but noooooo! instead y'all let my oral fixation go to sucking on toys and this boycunt go to trying to take this tentacle again and these hands get to cook fancy dinner for myself an-

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About this user!

MY FREE and PAID patreon for all my good writing and lots of shibari/nudes and MORE: patreon.com/KaedenWritesitAll

First of all, THIS IS A NSFT BLOG: DNI-

Minors, anti trans and everything that goes with that! This is a very gay blog and I'm here to have a good time. DNI IF YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT CONSENT OR IF YOU ARE CAPABLE OF TRULY GIVING IT.

If followed by @kaedenwrites it me! Can only follow there

discord bc i want homies: hunshwaygo0921

my bunny: @funkyswitchboy

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About!

Started T as of July 12th, 2023

Hai! My name is Kaeden, you can call me Kaed, pup, mutt, rlly any pet names to be honest. 21, very gay, intersex transmasc, primary mlm and mlnb but women are hot too so, not at all against having fem identifying followers! domestically single, ldr poly, very very cautiously looking, please don't fuck with my life, and my limits are absolutely non negotiable.

I'm a solid switch, soft dom most times but have a lil sadistic streak and utter angel sub and most often fall into service power bottom

I have various permanent brain and bodily injuries that limit my movement variably. Some days I can build a horse fence, others, I'm mostly chair and bed bound. Open to chatting about disabilities! I am also autistic, and struggle with a speech impediment so audios will be uh, fun

Asks, anons, requests, and DMs open!

Please feel free to reach out and whatnot, I love the attention and need friends!

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Kinks/favorites:

Petplay! Favorite is pup, but I'm also a catboy at heart. Overstimulation, breeding (pregnancy not included), teratophilia- namely werewolves and anything with tentacles, dumbification, bondage, forced orgasms, intoxication/420 HEAVY thx to chronic illness, hierophilia/blasphemy, medical in the right mood and context, free use, muzzles/collars, many more- I know I get it I am a degenerate, but you're here so what does that say about you, huh? Perv.. (jk, bullying too maybe lol)

LIMITS.

intentional genuine manipulation, temperature play if extreme, outside induced denial- it's genuinely not safe for my body, spitting.

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Other blogs:

Kaeden's Korner/ kaedenwrites- my main smut and story blog that's empty atm, but probably the account u were followed by since all of the blogs i have are based under that acct.

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TAGS since I have them now and need to go thru and edit:

#kaedthoughts - general reblogs and posts

#kaedthoughts.leaf - posts I make while high

#kaedthoughts.pup - posts i make while generally in subspace

#kaedthoughts.foxy - switch oriented top leaning posts

#kaedthoughts.wolfy - for when i'm in a heavy top mood

#kaedthoughts.audio - nsft audios, I do voice acting so requests are okay!

#kaedthoughts.txt - very long posts, imagines

#kaedthoughts.ask - asks!

#kaedthoughts.fluff - posts that are pure sap

#kaedthoughts.png - my spicy pics!

[last updated September 2nd, 2023]

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i start t in five days!!!!

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

i can't wait for my first growth check, and i'll be using a compound cream daily so i at least won't be panicking about the shot every week

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i've been sobbing so hard why can't i click i wanna ask if her bear is named Beartholemeow

you're in a girl's room and she's weird

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bro i wrote the final scene of my screenplay today- WHAT

i deserve some head for this shit fr it's been three years in the [active] making

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if i'm on t and my gender is fucky does that mean i too can have a girlcock or is that not a thing

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i want all of my followers to want me carnally and also ask me what the fuck is wrong with me and whack me

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lmao i was like "where the fuck are all of my followers, my babies"

turns out SOME YALL AINT EVEN SEEIN THIS SHIT i am so sorry for doubting you

tumblr keeps getting pissed at me

rude