#just because you hate my same notp doesn’t mean you’re any better than the ppl who shipped it & harassed me & so many others FOR YEARS

[amorremanet]

*hums to the tune of “I’m Gonna Wash That Man Right Out Of My Hair,” but it’s about blocking people i don’t want to deal with*

[redxblueihateloveyou]

Ok so I've been stalking your blog for the past couple of hrs after seeing your TadaAi posts (I'm drowning in the period drama that is this ship) and I find you ship Tododeku and rinharu (god i can't stand bakudeku and makoharu) and seems like we share a lot of our views on fandom and ships probably because we're older (I'm 22). Followed and looking forward to your input in the future!

Also you might've given me the motivation to finish watching Free! XD

Hehe yay, please, we need more ppl in our “house of oldies”, make yourself at home lol. And we share a lot of ships?! Even better <3

I knooow, I can’t believe we’ve got a gay “master who fell in love with his servant” ship in the anime, just what I needed for my idiotic collection lmao

But also these two have too much going on between them, so much wasted potential in my opinion, it’d be so interesting to explore (but sadly no xD), they were still the only interesting thing for me lolz. I love complicated morons, who became the victims of a huge unrequited requited love misunderstanding, bc they’re insecure morons lmao and they just have 2 of my fav ships vibes, so it’s probably mostly this haha. 

Oh, I’m inputting *wink wink*, can’t wait to finish the vid, I’m having too much fun with it. I’ve just literally spent several minutes trying to get whether I’ve put Tadashi’s sexy mole in the right distance from his eye in the “him moaning on the table” manip lolz. What can I say... I picked the best hobby, with all the support I’m getting with my vids, I’m living a dream xD

You know, I think I’ve said it before, but when it comes to bakudeku, I at least understand what ppl hope to see there and why, but like.. it’s just not happenning. Also imagining Bakugou lovingly hugging Midoriya is just so OOC I start laughing all the time. And whatever ppl say, in any ship whether they’re enemies or rivals or anything, if you can’t imagine them being tender with each other, smth is not right in my opinion. Also once again, who needs idiotic bleating Midoriya, idk. I’m just tired of the endless “die, deku/out of my way” yelling, I like watching Bakugou going to parties and amusement parks and doing silly stuff, too. Like I’ve said before, pride won’t ever let him change the way he behaves with Midoriya, even when they’re doing “great”. If he was the one, it wouldn’t have mattered, no matter how tough you are, and it wouldn’t take that long. I also don’t think they’re that kind of relationship, like they move each other for sure, sometimes, yeah (not always in a good way tho), but be together in a relationships? Can’t imagine that. Like not all rivals have the rivals to lovers dynamic, no matter what ppl say. But I get the shipping, bc 1stly these two are playing too huge of a role in each other’s lives, 2ndly Midoriya is obsessed with him and Bakugou obsessed with him too (just in a bad way lmao) and 3rd ppl want that “enemies to lovers” dynamic, since many love it (me included, when it done right and progresses right), so they’re trying to write that “to lovers” bridge, that just doesn’t fit here in my opinion, simply bc Bakugou won’t be soft with Midoriya, like ever in a way, you’d want, and I don’t think it’s possible for them to go there.

Tododeku on the other hand, 1stly they also play too huge of a role in each other’s lives, 2ndly Midoriya is obsessed with him too and Todoroki is lovingly obsessed with him in return, 3rdly they are also rivals to lovers, and I have no problem imagining the second part, it won’t be OOC, 4thly Midoriya when he’s with Todoroki is my fav Midoriya, he’s happy, he is cocooned and he’s badass af (and like when he told Endeavor to fuck off or yelled at Todoroki “the fuck are u doing?” xD are still the best), 5thly Midoriya forgets about Bakugou, when he’s with Todoroki a lot and it’s just funny to me, 6thly they healed each other so nicely, I can’t not be into that, 7thly when they’re together I have like 0 worries, idk I’m like “he will catch him” anyways haha, Bakudeku just don’t give me this vibe. It’s like yeah, they won’t let each other die, but it’s always this chaos of “out of my way”, “I don’t want your help” and “let me punch you before I punch the villain” that I’m just “oh for god’s sake, pls bring in Kirishima and Todoroki so we could just go home, it could’ve been solved in 2 minutes” lmao. Etc, etc.

Tododeku just have too many winning points over bakudeku for me, same with kiribaku over bakudeku, even tho I 100% get bakudeku as a ship ofc. Also idk whether things would be different if Todoroki wouldn’t exist in the equation, but the moment I saw that s2 scene where Bakugou started yelling and Todoroki just ignored him and was like “was Midoriya always this good?”, there was no going back to me XD. Like they both obviously see that Midoriya is wonderful, but only one reacted to that in a way that I wanted. And I’m a sucker for the ships who don’t give a fuck and like “yeah, I find him amazing and everyone should know that”. Todoroki is also one of those guys, who if you give them the much needed love, they’ll return it tenfold with a forever devotion. And all of my fav ships are like that: Yullen, Rinharu, Mikayuu, Wangxian, Akakuro, etc. They’re like “well, I ain’t an idiot to let someone this precious go”, you know lol

On the other hand, when it comes to Kirishima, Bakugou can do all kind of ridiculous thing I wouldn’t imagine he would do to keep him or make him happy, you know. Kirishima is also the only one, who can put his arm around Bakugou without it being cut off, so I don’t make the rules here lol.

So it’s not like I can’t stand bakudeku, more of like can’t imagine this work, to me it’s easier to imagine todobaku in a relationships, but not bakudeku lolz.

But when it comes to makoharu, I just have a huge problem with it and I will never get it. Bc they don’t bring anything good in each other like AT ALL, I don’t even understand what kind of relationships this is from their shipper point of view; they give each other nothing, and one of them is totally in love with someone else and wants a future with him. And that someone also head over heals with him and also wants a future with him. And I hate how 99,9 % of mh fans don’t give a fuck about Haru or Rin whatsoever and just ignore their character’s everything. Bc Makoto. I’m also like if you love him so much, the fuck would you want him to be with Haru anyways, dude doesn’t reciprocate, like at all. I’m at confusion, like name good points of this ship and what good can they do for each other characteristically. There is none, it’s like a damn swamp. Like usually I can give my notp some points, but this is like... they’re both no good for each other... like... why would anyone even want this idk. Don’t tell me “for the childhood friends” one-sided dynamic, like why won’t you also ship Shion with Safu then, like even he seemed more invested in that, than Haru in makoharu lol.

Even if you think of them from the point of view of “the two who are always walking together” ships, that are everywhere nowdays (even tho since Haru moved to Tokyo, he was always with Asahi instead), but even if... those kind of ships are usually at least make each happy and are enough for each other. Haru on the other hand, when he doesn’t have Rin, he is walking with Makoto like a ghost, not even caring if he’s talking next to him AND he’s getting ennoyed by him. Like explain, how someone’s shipping them romantically. It’s been showed like 20 times, that with Rin, but without Makoto, he can be perfectly happy, without Rin tho, he never is.

Also someone explain, what exactly is the point of splitting up two characters, who are happy together, make each other the best versions of themselves and want to be together whole-heartedly? Like I know many start shipping smth, bc the relationships are better in the other pairing, for example, but this is like... definitely not the case here. Like what exactly is missing in rinharu, that makoharu has? Lack of progression and mutual inspiration?

So yes, if you’re into rinharu, totally finish Free! They’re like doing sooo incredible and holy shit they’re inspiring, I mean, look, they’re now the tokyo olympics ambassadors, like how many of yall gay ships reached that? you can’t miss out on them, and also they’re so hilariously romantic, they literally made a wish to swim with each other since they were 13 and did everything to get each other there, I’m.. you’re lying, if you didn��t cry watching them as chibies making wishes on a star and watching them now. One of the most wonderful development in my opinion. Like who would’ve thought back in s1, that we’ll get Haru yelling on top of Rin about how he made him want a future with him, def not me lmao and now all the olympics boyfriends fanfiction are true, I mean, idk what to say anymore. I miss them so much, I can’t wait for the movie :D

[ccboomer]

i’ve been having some feelings about things. 

transcript below if ya need it

"Hey, maybe that thing you think is because of ingrained racism and you should be critical of why you think that." "Im not racist fuck you"

We live in a racist culture. Racism is tied to almost (if not) everything. What we find hot, what we find sexy, what we love and hate.

When people talk about how certain preferences are racist, it's not an attack to say you're a filthy, irredeemable racist. Usually, anyway.

It's a way of saying that racist cultural context makes you hate the same thing in a brown character that you love in a white character.

It's the way of saying that as a culture, we're willing to make literal Naz*s more complex and empathetic than a black woman or an Asian man

Why do you like Tony Stark but not Scott McCall? Why do you NoTP James and Kara, but not literally any other white ship?

Finn and Rey vs Rey and her torturer. Dizzy isn't gay enough but fanon slash ships are better lgbt rep than an actual queer boy.

These may not be conscious decisions, but they're being made anyway. Just because you don't realize your bias, doesn't mean it doesn't exist

So recognize your bias. Confront it. Then work on being better. More critical. Because it may just be fandom to you, but media isn't just 2D

Media seeps out of 2 dimensions --out of tv & books & movies-- and shapes the way we humanize and empathize with real people.

Dont hide behind "It's just my opinion". Your opinion doesn't mean shit when it perpetuates a culture where there's no justice for black ppl

It doesn't mean shit when the culture is sick. Your opinion is informed by and informs culture. So stomp that shit out early.

[grandfangarbagechan]

unpopular bnha opinion/venting below the cut

If you’re just clicking to see what the opinion is, here’s the TLDR: TodoDeku is my NoTP and I dislike Todoroki almost as much as some people dislike Mineta. I feel like he’s boring and everyone gravitates to him because he was abused and he’s pretty rather than anything that says about his character. He’s the culmination of every angsty self-hate abused uwu-pure woobie they’ve ever stanned and I’m so goddamn tired of seeing him everywhere. Also the fic I read made me mad but i don’t want to be mean to the author.

tododeku is fucking boring

like. so fucking boring. I don’t like Todoroki. I don’t care about him. I keep trying to make myself care about him because the fandom is so gone off him but I literally would not care if he died in canon beyond how it would affect the other characters

I don’t like him. I don’t like that so many people focus on him. He’s just Zuko but fucking boring and with no fucking personality. I actually hate him so much because he’s not interesting at all and people try to shove him into every fucking thing. Everything doesn’t need to be a fucking TodoDeku AU. TodoDeku is not our goddamn lord and savior.

and tododeku. goddamn tododeku. I don’t ship todoroki with anyone because he’s an emotionless piece of red and blue cardboard, but i especially hate shipping him with Izuku or Bakugou because they have so much character and so many emotions. I genuinely could not care about softboy hot’n’cold less.

Let me have one goddamn AU that doesn’t try and bring this fucking thermostat in early so he and deku can smooch earlier. In fact, kill him. If I ever write an AU, the first fucking line is going to be Shouto Todoroki doesn’t exist, because Endeavor decided to jerk off into a sock, and the entire planet was better off without everyone focusing on him and his garbage children. In fact, no. The difference is that Endeavor’s parents never fucking met so his entire bloodline dies off instead of creating Sadboi Hateshisdad to go and steal the spotlight of every fic ever, and actively make anything he’s in worse.

But honestly, I think I’m mad because a fic I really liked suddenly became TodoDeku garbage after not updating for a while. a really interesting AU where Izuku is offered One For All but declines specifically so he can be the first quirkless hero through his baseball skills alone. Which is super fucking cool. And the first half of chapter 3 was cool. It’s the last half that really lost me.

Todoroki shows up, right? This is like, the day Izuku is about to start training for UA. So he’s super fucking early. But he shows up, and his quirk is different. Which is fucking stupid on it’s own, ok, even as someone who doesn’t like him. Todoroki’s quirk is a major fucking part of him as a character. You can’t just change that and nothing else and expect him to still make sense. They gave him a water quirk and the ability to talk to animals. Which, first of all, means that he’s got the same fucking quirk as Koda Kouji - who is already part of 1-A and not focused on enough - but better, which is short-sighted at best. But second, he’s basically fucking Percy Jeckson, which fucks up his character even more

First of all, ENDEAVOR WOULD NOT BE SATISFIED WITH HIS QUIRK. Endeavor wanted exactly what Canon!Todoroki is - FIRE and ICE. He didn’t want a water quirk. He wouldn’t be satisfied with one any more than he was satisfied with Touya/Dabi not being able to wield fire the way he can. Endeavor wouldn’t be training him at all because he would be regarded as another failure.

Second, without his fire, Todoroki loses a giant fucking part of his character arc. He’s meant to be overcoming his own similarities to his father. “It’s your quirk” is a giant fucking part of his character, and I’d think someone who ships TodoDeku would know that because it’s also the point where most of them started shipping him in the first fucking place. You’re erasing not just his main character arc, but the main foundation of the goddamn relationship that you’re putting here.

Third, it makes no fucking sense for him to be able to talk to animals. Fire and ice makes sense because A) those are both temperature related and B) they’re the quirks his fucking parents had. Talking to animals is completely unrelated to water powers. There’s no reason for him to develop that at all, from a narrative standpoint or a genetic one.

TL;DR is this why people hated sans so much. i get it. i do. because there’s no escape from ppl trying to suck todoroki off and it’s fucking ridiculous