#just a big ol vent. dont mind me!!!
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it's been a while of this now but im increasingly frustrated about how difficult i find it these days to share my work and my thoughts. on the one hand it's something im desperate to do because i sincerely love to do it and if i can't share my thoughts and creations then the process doesn't feel complete to me. but on the other hand socmed feels so overexposed that every time i put something out there im so hyperaware that this thing that came from me and is often very close to me is now being dissected by strangers, and as my accounts started being viewed by more than a few hundred people at a time, the probability (and occurrence) increased that within that largely very kind demographic there were also bad actors, or people who insisted on playing devil's advocate, people who wilfully misinterpret, people who accidentally misinterpret but in ways that are frustrating, etc etc etc. that kind of repeated exposure and vulnerability gets exhausting after a while and im quite burnt out on it. i take every measure i can to prevent overexposure to every single passing person's thoughts (not that i don't want to hear from people, i love it, but it's different from seeing the same tags 5000 times by 5000 strangers who don't realise the things they're saying have been said to me already - this is no one's fault) which is why my notifications are off on twitter for people i don't follow etc and of course anon asks are off here, but it's just part of the reality and it's the downside of being lucky enough to have a group of people who are willing to look at what i have to say in the first place. that's something im very grateful for but you know, inevitable ups and downs, and it makes me really cautious about sharing meta and fic in the unreserved way i used to when i was younger
it's sad because again, part of the joy of creation for me is the joy of handing it to others in the hopes someone will find it interesting or it'll make them feel something. feeling like i can't do that without also exposing my flesh to being scratched up and stabbed by strangers is just a little too tiring. even making new quieter accounts doesn't necessarily ease that feeling because it's sort of an instinctive response at this point, the phenomenon you may have noticed where people start trying to cover themselves for potential arguments even bonkers ones that no reasonable person would make (im literally doing it right now). and also again im incredibly privileged to have lucked into finding enough people who give a shit about my silly little jokes that im reticent to give it up or take it for granted, even if it raises the chances of someone nasty latching onto me or being bombarded with exhausting commentary.
ultimately it is worth it to me whenever someone finds something i made worthwhile and especially if someone goes out of their way to tell me something i did meant something to them or made them laugh, so i wouldn't change anything. im very grateful to have that! just feeling low and having a sulk!!!
#just a big ol vent. dont mind me!!!#please dont reshare this! i cant stop you but i can ask nicely :]#it's just one of those nights#back to business as usual
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i think i should start posting more of my art on here so uhhhh here we go
its mostly doodles dont mind that
also i need to learn to draw more full body drawings and not just heads
its unhealthy TvT
some doodles of my lovely mate, then we got mari and we got me but as if i was hypnotized in mesmerizer- and the lazy little horrible doodle of a giraffe with a human head
top is a doodle of miku (it looked better but then i added stuff now it looks bad) and then the bottom... idk who that is tbh
a dream i had, i was a big ol dragon flying above this huuuuuge utopia in the middle of the ocean at really high speeds it was awesome
me n my mate :3 we cant do this as of now (long distance relationship) BUT EVENTUALLY MY DREAMS WILL COME TRUE
vent doodles and justin (a gravity falls OC my mate made) without his signature fluffy coat
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Hihi! Little introduction post for what this account is mainly going to be abt and some base rules!
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Rules-
°pls don't ask for any dabi x hawks, dabi x shigaraki ships I don't want to start writing for them because I view them as toxic and unhealthy and I want this page to be nsfw wholesome or just general head canons for any mha/bnha characters! Also fluff comfort or emergency stuff is totally allowed!
° don't ask for any toga ships if their with other members of the league excluding mustard no pro heroes no twice no dabi shigaraki compress kurogiri or anyone besides mustard (mustards an exception bc their both around the same age but even then I'm iffy!) U can obviously ship her with class 1-A or 1-B their around the same age so I have no quarrels abt that!
°pls pls pls don't ask for piss scat vomit or any bodily fluids besides cum if ur asking for nsfw! I don't want to write for any of that that's extremely uncomfortable for me and is smthn I don't care if others do/Wright abt but I will not
°dont harass anyone if they decide to leave a mean comment just ignore it till I get to it and I'll decide what should be done honestly I probably won't delete it unless it just unnecessarily rude and hateful!
°pls pls pls give me minor obscure characters to right for like tabes or any of shie hissakei (idk how to spell it T^T) any of the MLA I will happily right for idm! ( I'm a redestro simp I can't help it I love a confident man.. T^T)
°last one guys your almost done! Pls don't be rude and spam me for requests I can get overwhelmed and stressed out! Remember there's a human being writing this! I have thoughts feelings emotions morals and everything so don't harass me I won't block u but I definitely will ignore someone who's constantly spamming me!
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Alright that's cleared up and addressed here's some basic stuff abt little ol me!
Age~18(going on 19 on June 15th)
Gender~agender trans ftm
Sexuality~gralysexual grayromantic and possibly aromantic or demiromantic!
Pronouns~anything except fem pronouns or rlly odd neo pronouns! Like kitty/kittyself dog/dogself (no hate to anyone who uses them I just don't feel comfortable being called that!)
Name- honestly call me anything masc or weird I just won't mind
A BIG DISCLAIMER!!!!!
You guys are more than ok to come in my DMS n ask to vent and talk to me of course u don't ever have to or need to but if you ever feel like someone won't listen won't care you have no one to comfort you or just want a friend I will talk to you!
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Alright now! For some disclaimers!
*don't ask for any minor x adult
*don't ask for any abusive relationships or hinted at to be abusive!
*don't attack me or anyone for personal opinions remember were all human beings we have feelings let's respect everyone ok!
*pls don't ever feel guilty for requesting smthn or accidentally sending it twice i have no issue if it's a mistake now if it's spam! I will NOT answer no matter how good I'm not here to encourage habits also guys don't develop parasocial relationships with me or anyone!
*I'm very forgetful but I'm going to let u guys decide how often I post when more ppl start interacting until more ppl interact I'm going to post them when I feel like it!
Ok well I THINK that's everything! Thx everyone for reading all of this and thanks to everyone who in the future will hopefully respect this!
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Vent doodle
#my art#my sona#dont rb#please#scars#scars cw#scars tw#also u guys mind if I vent a bit in here as well#vent art#vent#man. ive been having rlly bad derealization for like the past month or so#dont wanna mention other stuff but it has been hard 4 me the past month#kinda just wanna take a big ol break from everything but I cant sadly#this time of the year kinda sucks for me#but its ok we're good#also sorry I havent posted art in like 2 weeks dknsjsf#i hate posting vents but theres a chance ill keep this one up#bc i kinda like the art#derealization mention#jic
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Best friends.. but more💕
Takanobu Aone × fem!reader
Tags: NSFW,, biting,, daddy/princess petnames,, heart break
Tw: drinking, drunk sex,,
Word count: 1800+
Im a wee bit drunk atm if yall find any grammar errors or would like tags or tws I could add message me and let me know. Other than being drunk Im also new to tagging stories so sometimes I don't pay attention 😅
NSFW under the cut♡
It was sometimes rather odd being best friends with Aone. Everyone else in your class and well the whole school seemed to think he's so intimidating. Which is kinda funny considering its based on his height. When in reality hes just a big ol teddy bear.
You were rather glad no one really knew him like you did. Still he wasn't very talkative when you two hung out but you could tell by his body language that he always had a good time. Especially when you two played games together. Who would imagine this very stiff, quiet guy actually gets angry when he loses at video games. It wasnt very noticable until he'd always makes an excuse to go get snacks every time he would lose. You caught him quietly fuming to himself in the kitchen after a couple times. Which turned into many times of sneaking out of his room just to watch him and having your heart race trying to make it back so he wouldn't know that you essentially were stalking him in his own home. It was then you realized maybe your feelings toward him were for more than just friendship. A thought you'd never have expected to have towards your best friend. So you shook it off everytime you felt it a little more not wanting to hurt your relationship.
After graduation things stayed the same mostly. The only real difference was after you two had gotten jobs and places of your own and it was a bit harder to spend time together. So when you two had time to spare you were either at his house or him at your apartment. It was never abnormal for you two to stay the night together. Most of the time you'd drink and play games together. Which really wasnt very often lately because your boyfriend didn't like another guy spensing the night.
It didnt matter how many times you told him that Aone is just your best friend and nothing more. He never believed you. Finally after countless texts and calls of Aone asking to come over you decided to go to his place. You got drunk and vented to him about everything, eventually passing out. Being the sweet guy he is Aone helped you to the couch and covered you up. The very next day you woke up to multiple calls and messages from your boyfriend. It was clear he was pissed but you shrugged it off and stuffed your phone in your pocket. You explained the situation and Aone offered to drive you home. It didnt seem like too big a deal that was until you made it home. Your boyfriend standing next to his car outside your place. Seeing you with Aone made him furious. "I guess Im gonna go sort this out. I'll text you later." you said before exiting the car.
Immediately your boyfriend dragging you up to your apartment. Not even two seconds inside and he berates you with questions. "Were you at his place last night? Is that why you weren't home this morning? Did you fuck him? I cant believe-" you stopped him right there and told him plainly "No. I didn't fuck him. I missed my best friend and I got drunk and passed out. If it werent for that I'd have come home last night." None of it seeming to have any bit of a difference to him. He shook his head with a deep scowl on his face, "We're done." he said and walked out the door. You didnt try to stop him and just let him go.
It took a while for the sadness to hit but when it did you got pretty depressed because you actually really liked the guy. But in the end you werent going to give up your best friend time for some guy no matter how much you liked him.
A couple days after the break up you had went out drinking with your work and got absolutely shitfaced. Thankfully one of your coworkers got your phone. "Dont worry y/n I called a friend to come get you. He should be here any minute." You were barely coherent to what she said and ended up face down in your food crying.
Aone finally showing up, and everyone being in awe of his demeanor towards you. They all drunkenly tell him how good a boyfriend he is. He didnt correct them, just thanked them for calling and said that he'd take care of you. He rubbed your back and leaned down to say "Y/n Im here to take you home. Hop on my back Ill carry you." Your coworkers cheering him on yet again for being so sweet. You being wasted beyond belief got entirely too excited at the idea of a piggy back ride. It took a couple tries but you eventually got on his back.
The walk to his car was kind of cold and your nose was especially suffering. "Aoneee~ my nose its- *hiccup* c-cold." You said right before you snuggled your face into his warm neck. The smell of him almost making you melt. You leaned up into his ear "aoneeeee," you said with such a pouty tone, "A-o-ne Ivee got a seeecret.. I think I might like you.. e-even in high school." You lean back down to nuzzle your face into his neck not noticing how much the tall silent man was blushing. He didn't really say much back and honestly you didn't really notice from how drunk you were.
You hadnt even realized that at some point he had put you in his car. He decided to just take you back to his house since it was closer. You ended up falling asleep blabbering about how hot you were and trying to take off your clothes. Pulling up you were still out of it and thankfully clothed since you were too drunk to get them off. He picked you up and carried you inside up to his bed. Normally you would sleep on the couch but with how things were tonight he'd take the couch.
He laid you down and gathered up a tshirt and some of his sleeping pants, which were way too big. He woke you up enough to have you change clothes and tuck you in. "If you need anything at all Im right on the couch." He stood up to walk to the door. Only to have you grab his hand and pull him down over top of you. "don't go." You said in barely a whisper almost whining. Looking down at you in this way causing his body to react to you like it never has before. Almost making him leave immediately, seeing as how you werent in your right mind, but the way you tugged at him he let you win. He moved over to the other side of you whispering back "okay but once youre asleep im going to the couch."
He laid there looking at you thinking about what you had said when he picked you up and this overwhelming feeling of wanting you filled his mind. You in search of warmth rolled over to cuddle your back against him. Your body kind of going on its own at this point from your drunken and slightly horny state. He had no idea what to do and felt a panic wash over him before you grabbed his arm and wrapped it around you. Feeling the neediness of how his hand held your waist your ass began grinding against him. His hand gripping you tight trying to keep his composure forcing a low moan out of you and the words flowed out of your mouth, "Aone please♡ touch me please." Thats all it took for him to break. You could feel both hands now on your waist pulling you into him grinding his hard cock against your ass. Every thrust and his tightening grip forcing a moan out of you.
The pants he gave you slowing riding down leaving you in just his shirt. He freed a hand to roam over your body and leaned down just barely breathing over your neck before running his tongue along your skin to find the most sensitive spot. You gasped at how good it felt. A little further he thought, just a nip right there in that sensitive little spot. Grabbing your hips as you grinded against him begging for more. "Pleasee Aone more.. bite me more mmm please" gasping between every word. He obliged and sunk his teeth into you. He immediately felt your body tense up as you moaned for more from him "Aone♡ fuck- fuck me please." "You sure?" He said back. Your hand reaching back to grab his lengthy throbbing cock "yesss~ mmmm fuck you're so big" stroking it listening to his quiet moans in your ear turning you on even more. Enjoying the feeling of your small hands fondling him so needily. Pushing him so close to his climax he had to remove your hand before wound up cumming all over your backside. The pleasure overcoming his mind he rolled you over to your back legs falling off to either side of him he looked you over as you watched him pull off his shirt, his muscles gleaming from all the sweat. "Fuck.." you gasp breathlessly.
"Like what you see, princess?" His words like honey to you. "Mmm fuck yes daddy, I like every.. last.. bit of what I see~" Barely able to get your words out before he thrust his big throbbing cock inside you. "Mmf♡ fuck~ oh fuck~~" Your moans fueling his lust filled mind as he went harder just to see your expressions as the pleasure took you over. Your words jumbled as you barely were able to get out anything between moans. The squelching between your legs at every thrust on top of the low moans coming from his lips driving you mad as you felt him hitting the deepest part of you. "Mmmf♡ i-i.. fuc- i-mmmm im cu-" your moan cutting you off as you came all over his thick cock. The feeling of your walls tightening around him sending him over the edge he grunted grinding himself deeper inside you painting your insides in his juices. His moans stifled by your mouth as you pulled him down into a deep kiss. Neither of you having the want to move just laid there intertwined. Exhaustion taking over you both passed out almost simultaneously.
You woke up to an empty bed and your clothes folded neatly on the dresser. Only remembering bits and pieces from the night before but enough to know what had taken place in this bed right where you were laying. Your face as red as a beet you pulled the covers up over yourself, almost wanting to squeal. You heard the knob twisting and you laid back down pretending to be asleep. You could hear him walk in closer and closer until it felt like he was right over you and your eyes snapped open. His face directly above yours he leaned forward and kissed you and scooped you up with the covers you were rolled up in. Your face hot and embarrassed as to the suddenness, " Wh-what are you doing??" He smiled down at you continuing on, "Don't worry princess, Im just taking you to the bathroom so you can clean yourself up.. unless of course you want to continue last night?" Every bit of the night before flooded your head as he sat you down. You almost couldnt believe it. Slightly embarrassed you knew if you didn't take this chance now you'd hate yourself for it later. Dropping the blankets you pulled him into the bathroom. "You helped make the mess now you can help clean it." A tiny smirk crossed his mouth and you knew you were going to get way more than you bargained for.💕
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Well if it's me I don't mind it if someone vents ta me, I try ta help em as much as I can bruh, it doesn't weigh me down, in fact, if I'm able ta make em feel at least a little better and let em know dat deyre
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den it lifts me up a bit, and even if i cant help, i dont forget it, but i just hope for da best and would probs reccomend some things if I knew em, I dont know bout other peeps, but it might be da same, it might be different, who knows? Everybruhne's different, some good, some bad, but we all just be peeps in dis big ol rock, and I just try ta help, so I dont really let things get da best of me, and again I dont mind if someone vents ta me bruh. And if dey do get weighed down by it den dat means dey sympathize/empathize(??) with ya bruh, and it means dey care, if dey leave den respect deir decision, dont blame yourself, no one should suffer in silence bruh, and if it's just too much for dem den it's deir decision ta make bruh, sometimes ya gotta let peeps go, ya cant force em ta stay, dey also have deir own life, but if dey offer help, take it, if dey cant handle it, go ta someone else dat can take it, but dont ditch em, if dey want ta leave, respect em, if ya did do some bad things bruh, I still respect ya
*tiney squeak*
#ask#kumatora888#sorry its just - Im bad at responding to stuff like this hh-#positivity#love and affection
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Hiya Morgy! New to requesting, so uh- little nervous I guess, haha! I've been having a bit of a tough time with people disregarding my gender identity as nonbinary. Just, a lot of purposeful misgendering, deadnaming and some unpleasant names. I'm usually not too bothered about it but it's just getting to me now, could i have the sdc (-oldseph) comforting a gn s/o or reacting to the situation? Sorry if it's too much, and look after yourself! - Soft annon
Before we dive in I just wanna mention that I myself am cis so I’m gonna do my best w this hjjgssgkh
Jotaro:
- Someone pissing you off? Good ol’ punchy Jotaro is here for you to ora the fuck out of the assholes that have been giving you a hard time. Just tell him who did it, he’ll surely have a “chat” with them as soon as possible.
- Jokes aside, after the initial (and usual) punching instincts would tone down, Jotaro would do his best to comfort you even if he’s not the best person when it comes to self expression. On the inside his blood would still be boiling after hearing what happened, but he’d try to maintain his cool and focus on making you feel better because your well being is all that matters to him.
- Tells you that (as hard as it is) you shouldn’t give any mind to people that purposefully misgender you since they obviously dont have anything better to do with their life. His advice may come off as blunt but the man really means it, he’ll do all in his power to comfort and support you and whoever else dares to say shit will have a chat with his fists.
Kakyoin:
- At first he simply cannot believe such thing. How could anyone do this?? He’s absolutely enraged once you tell him you got insulted over your GENDER but does he let it show? Absolutely not. It’s almost scary how good he is at masking his true feelings.
- He’ll conceal his anger and try to look into the matter logically. Kak is extremely good at comforting others so you’ll undoubtedly feel better in no time because this man immediately brings out the self care and comfort food as well as plenty of videogames and movies. He tries getting your mind off the matter as best as he can.
- But if you want to talk about it, he’ll be there to listen. You can go ahead and literally pour your entire heart out at him for Kak will listen with great attention to all of your issues then hold you into his arms until you eventually calm down. As well put together as he may appear, he cannot promise you that he won’t have a VERY serious talk with those that wronged you. But for now that will have to wait because currently his main concern is your well being.
Polnareff:
- He’s a bit of a himbo so you may have to explain the entire thing to him at first, but as soon as he gets it he’ll be highkey mad. We all know just how big of a drama queen this man is, so expect lots of overdramatic monologues and plenty of promises of revenge.
- After he comes down from his outburst, Pol will literally crush you into his big ass arms as he’d promise you that from now on no one will insult you anymore. As long as he’s on watch absolutely no one will try fucking with you or else they’re gonna catch those french fists.
- Letting jokes aside, this man provides amazing moral support as well as god tier cuddles so he’d make sure you’d be feeling better in no time. He absolutely hates seeing you down and will constantly reassure you that you’re deserving of love and that you’re (of course) none of what those people said. If they wanna be idiots then that’s THEIR own fault, not yours. And that’s exactly what the man will be letting you know whenever you’d be feeling down again.
Avdol:
- He too is FLAMING mad once he hears what they said to you, but he’s good at controlling himself so he won’t make a scene. All that the man would do is huff in annoyance and clench his fists whilst cussing their asses off a few times.
- He knows that he shouldn’t let his anger get the best of him and so he focuses on you instead and urges you on to vent. You can even stain his entire clothes with your tears for all he cares. The man is here to listen to each and every of your issue then provide you with as much comfort as you need. Sure it is fucking awful that this happened to you, but he lets you know that as difficult as it is, you have to keep your head up and try not to let their words get to you.
- If it ever happens again he’ll make sure to have a word with the culprits too, be sure of it. He first tries solving issues through diplomatic ways, but if said people won’t stop their idiotic behavior then he may as well use some force. All in all, he loves you regardless of gender and lets you know just that. People can be straight up morons and it’s really not your fault.
#i tried rip#jojo's bizarre adventure#jojo no kimyou na bouken#stardust crusaders#jojo headcanons#headcanons#anon
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Ok so this is a BIG OL’ VENT POST about some things i’ve seen in the fandom (and not necessarily in the RPC) that really *really* bother me when it comes to portraying Bakugo and Izuku’s relationship because i’m tired and full of rage.
Please, please note that this post is Bakugo critical. I am going to be criticizing his behavior and things he’s done and his character arc as a whole. i’m sorry, and i’m not trying to upset anyone; which is why i’m telling you now.
Second, please note that I will be touching on subjects of abuse, bullying, and suicide baiting. because they happened. If these subjects trigger you, please read no further. Thank you.
Ok so let’s start off just by establishing that Izuku was bullied. I don’t honestly understand how this is a debate within the fandom because it’s just???? part of his character arc???? Like it happened. We see it happen. He says it happened. Bakugo says it happened. We see the long term effects it’s had on his psyche and self worth. It happened. Moving on, Yes Bakugo telling Izuku to kill himself is a big deal. I know the fandom wants to forget about it but? guess what, it still happened. And it has yet to be addressed. So, like, before you criticize me for bringing up something that happened “a long time ago” keep in mind that yeah it’s been over 200 chapters and for all of Bakugo’s quote-un-quote development he still hasn’t apologized or done, anything, really to even indicate that he acknowledges what he did was wrong; in any way.
Also, before you say “Izuku wasn’t suicidal” we?? have no way of knowing that for sure. And more importantly Bakugo had know way of knowing that for sure. I’m not saying that Bakugo actually wanted Izuku to kill himself, what i’m saying is he didn’t know whether or not that would happen and he said it anyway. He didn’t care if his words caused another person to take their own life. That! is! a ! big! deal! and I get that he was 14 but again he has done NOTHING to improve his relationship with Izuku NOTHING to apologize NOTHING to indicate what he has done is wrong
and that’s mostly horikoshi’s fault. he just has not given Bakugo a proper character arc, all he’s done is consistently change character’s reactions to Bakugo in light of his supposed changes. All of Bakugo’s “development” is purely exposition. It’s always characters saying how much he’s grown while he continues to beat the shit out of Izuku but with a laugh track this time
(am I supposed to find this funny??????????????????)
Like the joint training arc is supposed to be this Big Moment for Bakugo because oh wow he’s figured out he has to rescue people to win because of his fight with Izuku and what All Might said!! except that’s not a lesson he’s really “learned” because he’s consistently been able to work w/ others in a team provided
a) he is in charge and
b) Izuku is not involved in any way
examples: provisional license exam, sports festival cavalry battle, USJ incident, training camp arc. i’m gonna expand on the provisional license exam one just bc it’s the most direct parallel because Bakugo does the exact same thing (giving Kaminari a grenade) and allowing himself to be attacked so that they can later win. If in the joint training arc he changed his attitude like, at all. Perhaps not literally Stomping On His Teammates you could call it development. As is it’s Bakugo behaving the way he always has but now characters are commenting on how much he’s grown. The /only/ significant change we see in Bakugo’s behavior is after the Sludge Villain incident in which his assaults of Izuku become less frequent and he becomes less of a center stage diva. But we see during and after the battle test that this isn’t so much a change in Bakugo as it is in Izuku and in their environment. Izuku experiences a shift in that he is finally able to stand up for himself, and so Bakugo has less free reign to do whatever he wants.
They’re also now in an environment where teachers will physically restrain Bakugo from attacking Izuku (at least, in class. Not /during/ the battle test or final exams which is a Separate Issue) and surrounded by classmates who have shown they won’t tolerate him being a bully. Or, at least that was the set up. Because Bakugo is such a popular character, his character arc has been completely abandoned because it necessitates these things he’s done being brought up and addressed. Horikoshi doesn’t want to do that because he’ll risk alienating his audience, and so he pretends it didn’t happen. The whole exposition during Izuku and Bakugo’s fight after the provisional license exam drives me up the Fucking Wall because it’s a direct contradiction to the earlier chapters in which we /see/ Izuku actively avoids Bakugo for his own self preservation he does not ‘chase after’ him. And even if he did that’s? not an excuse for Bakugo to beat the shit out of him and torment him and literally tell him to kill himself! it doesn’t make it better! if anything it makes it worse because it’s just further evidence that any and all effort to repair their relationship has been on Izuku’s part.
It’s just unrealistic for Izuku to suddenly forgive Bakugo when in earlier chapters he was determined to hold Bakugo accountable. And even beyond that, it’s actually, sort of irrelevant to Bakugo’s character arc. Learning what you did was bad and making up for it is independent from whether or not the victim of your abuse ever forgives you. Even if Izuku has already forgiven him, Bakugo has not grown as a person until he does literally ANYTHING to make up for what he did.
Like I know Horikoshi hates abuse victims but Come On. This shit /needs to be addressed/ and the more time that passes the more convinced I become it just Won’t Be. tl:dr; Bakugo’s character arc is basically nonexistent and I dont understand why the fandom in which he is literally the most popular character isn’t more Mad about it.
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Go comic feral, i followed this blog for a rEASOn and it's bc i like to hear your random vents and rants and also you reblog cool stuff. But i digress, go comic feral i am hERE for it
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PETER PARKER BEING RICH IS STUPID he didnt even ern what he has himself it was nt even himn he wasnt in his body maybe if i had got to see him start fron nothing to being a cool ceo or whatever id be able to stand it but nooooooo he just GOT is for nothing so it feels stupid like “ha ha what if like tony stark haha” its DUMB and i haven’t read a spider man comic for a long time
deadpool/spiderman crossover comic bad. feels out of character a lot. funny concept and full of funny jokes but as far as characterization its bad in my opinion- was made to capitalize off the hype of the ship and we all know it
don cates should be banned from writing comics bc he fucking sucks and ill never forgive him for what he did/tried to do to venom
deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good deadpool good dea
the venom movie was a lot of fun but it was very ooc a lot HOWEVER seeing some of the cut scenes and scripts you can see that it used to be actually fairly in character for the comics but a lot of scenes with eddie establishing himself as not actually the most nicest of guys (not that eddie isnt a nice guy deep down but he is a good amount fucked up with a big ol hero complex and a problem with ‘i can do no wrong” mentality sometimes) were cut and considering how the fandom for the movie treats him i can see why the cut those bits out bc i dont think movie goers would have liked him as much wich is a shame bc he is a good guy at the end of the day just fucked up
straight white male comic fans are the worst people in the world and breaking their fingers is a daydream i indulge in
matt murdock is a himbo
foggy nelson is a good man who deserves better friends
i can tell what deadpool comics someone has read based on how they characterize wade in their fan works and i have a 80% success rate with it. the most common was the daniel way run but now its the spider-man/deadpool crossover series
soulda used miles for the mcu spidey instead of cannibalizing his story for parts like they did. dick move, Disney
mcu bad
i think just the idea of dc’s Red Tool is fucking hilarious but i dont like his character at all
batman and superman should fuck but they wont :/
matt and foggy should to but the comic industry is afraid of making long running characters lgbt bc theyre WEAK
deadpool need a canon bf they cant keep telling us hes pan and not showing us for reals- hell he could just go on one date or be shown having a one night stand or something- something beyond a damn joke
cable gay. no i will not listen to any other opinions.
im excited to read moon knight i have a book waiting i just have to finish my current one
SCUD the disposable assassin is the most underrated comic EVER and i LOVE IT however i think it ended stupid and bad however it went on fucking hiatus for like a decade and then was rapped up really fast so any ending is a godsend
i desperately want a long-form stand alone series abt wanda wilson bc shes the perfect foil for a good Feral Dumbass Woman comic. think abt it; shell sell immediately bc of recognizable brand, and then she can just go on violent stupid adventures without any of the other dp corps. it doenst have to line up with any canon i just want insane lady dp adventure comic. this is an unreasonable dream but mine none the less
i though that agent venom was stupid
tank girl is fucking amazing and i love it i never understand whats going on and i enjoy the confusion
reading early hulk comics feels like watching a weird, poorly produced old black and white sci-fi soap
there needs to be better, more easily accessed, official reading-order guides published and posted on the walls of comic shops everywhere
the 80s and 90s were the best time for marvel comics and no one can tell me otherwise. that was peak comic time
the worst time for comics was the 2000s and early 2010s
sometimes i am shocked by the art that gets the editors pass in comics. some of it is so bad and im not even talking about the disproportionate ladies
the lego marvel and dc movies are way better than the live action movies and im not even being sarcastic
seriously the 2000s made some horrible comics
i feel like committing acts of mass violence every time someone says comics arnt real reading/stories/implies theyre worth less of any value than a novel
i read the first deadpool comic i got so much that the art itself is so ingrained in my mind that people have shown my just the corners of panels and ive identified them correctly
i distinctly remember the first time the woman at the book store stopped asking me for parental permission to buy the comics i was getting (12yos) because i went there so often that she just remembered who i was and that the adult would say its fine
i refuse to talk about comics with people at cons because i am gatekept or flirted with every single time no matter what and there is no in between. and yea its because i have tits. youd think that eventually theyd learn but gross comic men never do and all the others have adopted the same policy as me so the closest i come to positive comic interaction at cons is standing in the same vicinity as another chick, looking at the same section, and the kinda smiling at each other
i think the avengers are boring. really really boring. the x-men are way better
i related to gwenpool too much when she first started and it scared/offended me so i stopped reading for a while until her character developed more and we stooped being so similar
i have spider-man bedding. i picked it out only a few months ago. its good it makes me feel cool in a very uncool way
watching spider-man as a kid made me wanna be a scientist. watching batman as a kid made me want to do martial arts. i ended up failing chemistry and falling on my face a lot instead.
i had a huge venom toy and a huge spiderman toy as a kid and while i did make them fight a lot i also made them hug just as much. i wanted them to be friends
on that note PETER IS MEAN TO THE SYMBIOTE NOW AND HE DONT EVEN HAVE A REASON NO MORE hes just such a dick about criminal reform eddie and the symbiote aint special with this- he says he believes people can be better but he really doesnt show it. he tends to think people are set in their ways and while this makes sense forthe most part considering how much hewas bullied as a kid/adult (that also contributes to his mild “i protect my own” mentality tho at least he consciously fights that one) it stil pisses me off
i can think way more but i need to sleep i think
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Angry people
Angry is the easiest feeling to be expressed out carelessly. A person nt in control of his will power will without thinking throw a tantrum, spew mean words and feed their own ego and we always take that risk of saying things that is irreversible. We know it'll hurt n assured that we won't do it again and be better BUT only to succumbed and let yourself give in to it.
But, what's intriguing is someone who can in the midst of angry fits still surpressing the dire need to burst on impulse calmly smile and knows that a waste of negative energy spent is a waste of ones precious moment.
It could destroy something you have build Relationship, rapport.. Friendship..just because protecting your ego with might while standing on your self manifested pedestal is more satisfying than accept a different views.. Those are short term satisfaction. Anger is never an 'appreciating assets' u might think u hurt 1 person but boy how naive you are that u forgot that surrounding eyes are watching u. Strangers who doesnt know u already seen the worst of you. What a fucking waste..
But wait, calm yes getting back to it. Being calm is almost like a through years of training and countless times of impulsive burst of anger you finally said fuck this shit. Wake up the next day and decide to smile more often and bearing murphys law in mind, wise to know the repercussion ahead of his action Is someone i think have won his battle with himself but still find a better solution to problem.
Im 1 angry guy. I felt like a cb everytime i let the devil take over control. It's like im being rape and helpless while im feeding the evil pride in me. Comes to a point whereby while im busy showing people im angry and belittling the guy im engage with i have that faint disappointing feeling at myself. But as usual, whack only later can talk. So, when that later comes and finally u let that faint voice out to speak, you have wasted many n possible thousands positive reaction just because you think you can doesnt mean you should homeboy.
It's hard having anger management . Harder when that's our only way to vent. Because loud gets attention and being loud while making sure you're in everyone bad rep list soothes your man pride.
I'm just ranting coz felt like a need to put it into words. And to put it here in public is so that my life struggles are my anger..because i chose self b4 others. Im selfish.
Fuck up part is that split second before gg to a full blown gayest rage ever you already set the chain of reaction. I fucking knew what the outcome, if people were hurt.. Causing nuisances to other but sadly i am blinded.
What im saying is alcohol destroy moral, substance abuse i find it funny why isit subtance abuse when you're actually abusing yourself with substance? These group forgo relationships to feed his addiction so on so forth.. This are accompanied by an object.. But anger is affiliated nothing physical or instigators. Yet we could inflict if not as much at least irreparable damage. Those 2 despicable addiction is curable. Take the alcohol off or drug from the abuser. Make it zero accessibility for the abuser and u solve a problem. Relapsses occur if he found new means to acquire his vice. But as long become sober and engaged healthily im sure he wld prefer sobriety than being in the limbo.
But anger is nothing compared to convincing bunch of fools thats people see the stupidity in them tat they tot its an achievement. Anger resides deep inside the crevices of your heart and its attached itself closely to short term memory in your brain. Why short term? Cz u angry u got time ah to think what happen years ago. You only want that quick flash of memory and say heyyyy fuck it same ol routine let's donk it. Then hell break lose.
For those like me or have your loved ones struggling managing their big pride small ego, never stop encouraging them through their small little achievemnt as simple that time how they isolate themself away from source of anger. I would sit and cuddle my knees and just breathe heavily sometimes i would cry butost of the time i forced feed my thoughts and rationalise my action. It can take longer trying to talk yourself out. At this crucial moment. It takes another bigger person, whos is the victim of the angry person to come to him and tell him, hey while ur trying calm yourself, you achieved to be im control of your impulsive action. Small but with constant uplifting words and encouragement, the person who use to be angrier than the word itself will surprise u that they are actually a fucking nice chap.
We're only human. Share the blame and help us who struggle with our anger by telling us u recognise that we're trying and this time round, i see your struggles. No more reason and excuse of people only wants to see you angry because its your weakness. And it is you not people who chose to portray your ugly side and play victim by saying all they see is your negativity.
Self before others, happy reign over sadness. Resentment is the route to self entitlement and ignorance. There's a reason why i grow into an adult and leave the adolescent phase because no dhit sherlock.. I am suppose to leave that childish behavior long ago amd grow into something much more wise and tolerant individual.
Remember words from a wise old green thing.
.. Anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering. You suffer nvm ok. Your pasal. You hurt other u dai.. Its locked down in their bad memories and until u chose to change and accept changes, boy you're in for a long ride. The jokes on u if you remain the same coz you're missing out social interaction. Be in control of yourself coz thats shapes your tmr. What's the hype keeping negativity when being happy sparks more euphoric feeling and accepted socially . Shun your ego that god has embedded in you just so u cn mess around and devulged in it. Like me, i had too much time feeding it. But no, things will change. Once this is posted. This is my recovery. Rehabilitation to a happier fendi.. My war. If you're caught in argument with me, let me be the ones spouting nonsense. Engage with me in softer but confident tone of voice. And i will eventually realise im the retarded ones and Shut my fucking ass mouth up...thats when u step in n look for queues of me realising my bodoh. Help me and tell me that hey. U pick the right choice and domt feel like your helpless cz u chose to be calm. Its 1 small step to better days..and we will see u through it.
So... If want to cibai.. Dont cibai like the world is yours. Because got bigger cibai u havent met amd your small penis problem is nothing compared to the cats u neutered. Nabei your cock problem cannot handle want to intervene into some inmocent animal problem.
Nights. Remember if its too good to be true, it is.
From your angry ego bruised boy.
Bruised bane loll
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this is just one big ole vent about everything thats been going on and tbh? i wouldnt even bother reading it, its all over the place and everything that comes outta my mouth is absolute garbage anyway so..
anyway —
i hate my family for a variety of reasons, but im starting to realize that they legitimately treat me like im less than human and some kinda servant
i told them i cannot become my grandmothers 24/7 caretaker. mentally and physically, i cannot do it. if im forced to do it, i know for a fact that i will have a huge mental breakdown and my ass is gonna get hospitalized for doing God only knows to myself
but they guilt me. guilt trip, after guilt trip, after guilt trip. my uncle followed me around the damn house telling me that if i left, i would have my grandmothers death on my hands, bc im apparently the only person thats keeping her alive at this point. “she doesnt have much to live for these days, yknow” - “well, who else is gonna take care of her?” - “we’re family, so you have to do this. dont you care about your family?”
you would never guess that my aunt is a registered nurse, one of my cousins is a CNA, another one works in hospice, and my uncle already cared for someone in my grandmothers current state for over 20+ years, with the way they speak to me. they act as if im the nurse with 20+ years of hospice work. but im not! im just some severely depressed bitch that draws and writes occasionally - and i cant even do that anymore!!
im just so stressed and distraught all the time. i cant sleep, i can barely eat without feeling sick, i always feel like im gonna cry.. everythings just so overwhelming, i barely find anything enjoyable anymore, and sometimes i dont even see the point of living since its just work work work until you finally get the guts to kill yourself or seriously harm yourself
they also get so fucking insulted if i ask to get compensated for the years ive spent here, they tell me to forget the 10 years ive spent. just forget about it! its in the past! just forget about the late nights of doing medical or cleaning duties, forget the appointments you had to miss because your family comes before you do, forget about all the emotional and mental games they would play, forget all the money youve spent on them, forget all the bills you had to pay.. i could go on, but forget about it! its in the past!! youre family, so ofc you had to do all of this!! b ut then theyre allowed to get compensated for all the “hard work” theyve done, and they just.. they dont do anything? they havent done anything to help my grandparents??
noone else had to do all the things i had to do, and noone else had to go through all the shit ive gone through. everyone in my family lives like teenagers, going to concerts and having a blast! while im stuck taking care of the elderly because “thats what family does” its not fair! its just not fair! i give everything up - and they say that everything ive done is nothing, and tell me i need to do more for this family because im not doing enough
this woman shouldnt even be coming home! she cant stand up, shes on an oxygen machine, she needs to be lifted to go to the toilet - i jus.. mmmmmMMMMMMM
then they have the audacity to tell me to stop going to counseling, theyre saying its making me worse when thats not even true? for once in my life i have an amazing counselor that actually listens and offers advice! but they want me to stop going so i can devote myself 24/7 to them and to this house and their weird shenanigans and fucked up mind games and hhhhh
my dad says that weve done all we can and that enough is enough. that were actually gonna move out, get a place somewhere down south. we can change our names and start completely over and never talk to this family ever again. ive been yearning for this day to come for so long im jus.. im excited! but im also terrified. because i feel like its gonna get snatched away from me. this dream of running away and starting over as someone new.. God, everyones promised me this, and everyone whos promised me this has always snuffed it in the dirt and left me in the dust
if my dad doesnt follow through, i dont know what im gonna do
i just dont know
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa tfw u have another game idea AGAIN i think my brain hollowed itself out for more idea space at the expense of everything else like ability to actually create my ideas or ability to remember to eat :P
this kinda isnt a NEW idea, its just something floating around in my brain that ive now got more of a concrete idea for, i guess? playing Oxygen Not Included reminded me of it and made me feel maybe people would actually be interested in it, yknow? and its probably not something i could ACTUALLY make, cos it’d require like.. a lot of my own programming. not really easy to just make in a helpful gamemaker enginey thing like rpgmaker. tho it is an rpg... kinda...?? ehhhh im not feeling very good today, sorry my writing is... bad
ANYWAY WHAT WAS I SAYING
Well the idea I has was for kind of a roguelike tower climbing rpg, like Azure Dreams or Persona 3 The premise would be that there’s a mysterious underground civilization, trapped for generations with no memory of the surface world. Between them and sunlight is this potentially-infinate magical labyrinth that nobody has managed to make it through. (At least as far as anyone knows. Everyone wants to believe that friends who dissappeared in the labyrinth actually made it to the other side, rather than.. well.. the other side.) So the game would be about tackling this labyrinth in multiple short sessions. My favourite genre: roguelikes that actually have some form of progression in them! Even though you’re dying a lot, you retain a small amount of what you gathered each time in the form of townbuilding progressyness and ~friendship routes~ and ~ETCETERA~!
But then after playing Oxygen Not Included I kinda have a burning desire to see a game that has the good bits of that and not the... Frustration. To say its a roguelike without progression is understating it, gahhhhhhhhhh! Roguelike sim game of 8 hour game sessions that get destroyed cos of one stupid mistake and you have to be all perfect and lucky and YOURE ALWAYS STARVING and gahhhhhhhhh THIS IS MEANT TO BE MY GAME IDEA NOT VENTING ABOUT THAT GAME Anyway I was thinking how it’d be really cool if a game like that actually DID have a sense of progression. And an actual end goal. Like.. if you were actually digging towards the surface! With periodic savepoints and characters that dont die so easily and have more personality to them and you get all attatched! I already got all attatched to my dumb sim characters and then just got really upset how they kept dying and the game seemed to not give a shit :P
But yeah its not like I can just completely copy that game, lol. Even if I wanted to, I dunno how to program a simulation type engine thing from scratch! So i was thinking like.. a regular roguelike randomized dungeon generator actually IS possible in Rpgmaker, so I dunno.. I could find a way to make that work with some kind of ‘you are actually creating the dungeon’ type thing. i really like the idea of being able to dig your own path through the thing and have it permenantly etched there forever. I was thinking it could be an awesome idea if in the postgame you could come back to the now-empty labyrinth after everyone’s escaped to the surface, and be able to walk through it and have a big ol nostalgia trip. One that’d be unique to every player! And like.. maybe even be able to see changes, like it being reclaimed by nature and flowers? And you could upload a dungeon seed for your own personal dungeon, so that other players could play it, and that could be the postgame replay value~!
game name ideas i guess Catacomb Crawl Boundless Down
and I was thinking the protagonists could be two kids and be a grumpy older sibling who’s a jerk to their well-meaning-but-immature lil sib, but loves them deep down, and has to learn a lesson about becoming a more responsible sib, and etc like.. yeah.. basically inspired by over the garden wall i didnt really like that show, and i felt bad about it cos everyone was telling me it was a masterpiece. alas! :P aaanyhoo they’re not very developed yet, except older sib being a bit of a comical greedy coward type of person and lil sib actually being quite wise but always underestimated. Like, they have more common sense than their big sib even though they are a lil naive sometimes cos theyre so optimistic. Both sibs get each other into trouble pretty often, but they balance out perfectly to save each other each time! And lil sib is kind of a pushover who just obeys big sib unquestionably and can never stick up for themself when big sib is being all ‘ugh ur so immature im totally better'. They’re just like... the sort of person who’s so scared of their friends leaving them that they let anyone hurt them as much as they want as long as they stay. Very relateable to Bunni! Also they sorta try and pretend to be the dumb sidekick and class clown. Cos again theyre worried if they disagree or try and stand out too much then their sibling will hate them. Quite often their ‘dumb mistakes’ are actually the older sib’s fault, and they’re stuck like ‘AAAA I CANT TELL THEM TO STOP COS ITD BE OUT OF CHARACTER. I NEED TO BE THE CUTE BABY.’ And its all super complicated cos older sib acts like they resent them for never growing up too, its like.. cant ever win. This whole thing has kinda turned them into an anxious mess deep down. part of big sib’s whole redemption arc would involve them having to realise that their actions arent harmless, and treating such a young child this way actually has a permenant effect. And like... big sib doesnt know how to take care of little sib on their own because they’re immature themself! Being able to admit that instead of trying so hard to be all fake ultra mature and infallible, thats another big character arc. As well as aknowledging that lil sib is indeed growing up and becoming someone intelligent and independant. And realizing that the reason they keep putting them down is so they can try and deny that, and the reason they’re denying it because theyre JEALOUS! Jealous that little sib might have their emotions more alltogether than them, scared that their emotionless facade of perfect big sibness will be broken, and scared that without that they’ll have nothing left. Need to become more comfortable with trusting and relying on your lil sib, need to actually talk to them about this stuff, yo! Ideally I’m gonna try and write it in a way that doesnt make big sib seem like a completely hateable villain. Their backstory is gonna involve being from not exactly the nicest family, and both struggling to escape what they’ve been shaped into. And trying to learn how to take care of each other as a real family, when they have no real frame of reference for what real love looks like. And also climbing a bigass tower to save humanity from being entombed underground, but that’s comparatively easy, lol! But yeah the idea is that big sib kinda absorbed more of their bad parents’s ideals, and like... they love their sibling so utterly and deeply because they just did not know what family love felt like until they came along. And it really REALLY hurts them whenever they realise they’ve been subconciously being neglectful or hateful towards the lil fella, but theyre so distracted by like.. the greed of being free now. And doing anything and everything, drunk on that freedom! And not really being capable yet of caring about other people when they havent even learned how to care about themself. They keep being all decadent and delinquent and it seems like theyre egotistical but still deep down they HATE themself and this is all just like a ‘fake it til you make it’. And its so easy to get caught up and go too far to try and put on this facade, and they feel they cant really vent their real feelings to anyone. Cos they’re super cynical dont trust anyone except sibling loyalty like. Only way to survive! And like... cant talk about it with the sib either, because little kid wouldnt understand, and if they do then that means theyre not little anymore. They dont wanna ruin lil sib’s childish innocence cos like.. that innocence is their only reason to live. Innocent stupid bastion of family love, came into their life and gave them the courage to deal with those shitty parents gahhh! And part of them ‘knows’ that the only way to love anyone is to be deluded and innocent. You have to be too stupid to realise that the world is awful and everyone sucks and loving people just gets you hurt! And big sib is toooootally smart cos they know that life is meaningless. But they’re entertained by seeing a stupid person stupidly believe in optimism. Totally. Thats the only reason they wanna protect that innocence. Totally. sooooo basically imagine a very mentally ill mess of a preteen that’s curled up in the corner crying perpetually within their own mind, while on the outside they’re all HA HA I’M AMAZING, BITCHES And also imagine that bunni is able to write good enough to explain these damn characters aaaa im very tired im sorry
anyway summary: protagonist is a jerk, Character Development: The Game, you will cry for little sib whom is basically like penny from inspector gadget also I was thinking maybe this could be the one and only time I do the Amnesiac Protagonist Cliche Setup. eeeexcept not really?? well i mean I think it’d work cool if these characters were new to this setting, but I wouldnt actually do 100% amnesia thing I was thinking more like... they are the only two people who came from the outside world. And they just can’t remember how they got here, they wake up trapped in this place and everyone thinks theyre crazy for talking about being from somewhere aboveground. So you have an even more desperate motivation to escape compared to everyone else! I mean of course everyone wants to return to the surface, but its been so long that no-one remembers what it’s like, and so many attempts have failed that they’ve all given up. So you can act like a beacon of hope and lead the people even though you’re just a child. Like, this is about a morally bankrupt trash protagonist being dragged kicking and screaming into heroism, lol And of course we can have some good ‘ol mystery amnesia reveal type plot thingies! But without having to have a protagonist who’s COMPLETELY clueless, and a game beginning with no direction whatsoever. Its more like a ‘trapped in another world’ story except its the same world just a few thousand miles underground, lol. And revealing how exactly they got there and what they’ve forgotten is gonna be a plot, yes, but also there’s the bigger mystery of what on earth this doom labyrinth is and what caused these poor people to be trapped in it! And what they’ll even find when they finally reach the surface again, will it really be the sort of paradise they’re all hoping for? also many tears for sad dysfunctional tiny family of awkward childrens, ye also (hopefully) fun dungeon gameplays
so yeah bunni is tired and delirious and rambling Thoughts at you dunno if anyone was interested in any of this, but there you go!
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13 Ways To Make Your Partner Feel Important (So Your Relationship Has A Chance)
My husband and I have been together for almost nine years now. Thats almost a third of my life! Although were still madly in love we do have our moments. In particular, when I was in college I was so wrapped up in my own studies, work and our daughter, that my marriage was quickly falling apart and I didnt even notice! My husband, who was also busy with work, did notice and he felt as if I just didnt care about him anymore.
He had valid reason to think so. I spent so much time studying and trying to juggle everything else that I really didnt give him the attention, love and care that he deserved. Eventually, that led to fights and arguments until I understood why he was so mad. I promised myself to make him feel important again, because he is, and were doing better than ever.
Sometimes when youre married for a long time other things take priority over your husband. With kids, work, friends, household chores and responsibilities, along with your own hobbies and interests, your relationship will occasionally fall to the wayside as you spend time doing other things. It happens and thats okay, but if youre not careful, you and your husband may begin to drift apart.
There will be days, sometimes weeks, where youre too busy to go out or even spend quality time together at home. Thats normal, but a prolonged emotional distance and time spent apart can cause some serious relationship damage.
Its crucial to make your loved one feel important on a daily basis if you want your relationship to last. And they should make you feel important, too. Although it can be very easy to make someone feel loved and important, it can also be something thats forgotten if you dont put any effort in at all a difficult lesson I had to learn.
1. Ask him about his day.
After so many years with someone, asking about their day can seem trivial. I mean, dont we already know what they do for work and yadda-yadda? That might so, but taking the time to ask him about his day shows you care and that youre thinking about him.
My husband and I make it a priority to ask one another about our days. Not only do we ask, we actually listen and show interest, and that is key! You have to actually pay attention! And because its something you can do every day over dinner its easy to actually remember to do it.
2. Talk about him.
Its been proven that a persons favorite topic to talk about is themselves, so why not let him? Let him talk about his day, his hobbies, his friends and favorite things. Then ask him questions about those things and keep him talking! Hell love it and think to himself that his wife really cares.
3. Show genuine interest in his passions.
Its great when you and your husband have similar interests; it gives you something to talk about and activities to do together. For example, my husband and I enjoy thrift shopping, going to concerts and browsing art galleries. However, he still has hobbies and interests that I dont share with him and vice versa. He enjoys playing darts, watching documentaries and has a deep love for all things (including the lifestyle) from the mid-century. And I enjoy spending time outdoors, creating art and playing board games.
Although my husband would rather grab a pint at the pub and shoot some pool over hiking, he still joins me now and again for a walk in the woods, and Ill join him for a drink. More importantly, Ill ask him questions about things he enjoys and actually listen. (Remember when I said people like to talk about themselves?)
Even if you dont necessarily care for his passions and hobbies, you should at least show some interest. Nothing makes someone feel more important than when you want to talk about them and the things they enjoy. And who knows? Maybe youll actually find a new hobby or passion in the process. I know I have.
4. Dont criticize or complain.
No matter who someone is, its quite possible they will do things we dont like. Little quirks and habits are things that all couples have to deal with over the years, but at some point there will be something that comes up that you just cant stand. No matter what that is, how you handle it is the important part.
The first thing to do is to try and understand him and his point of view. If its something that you need to talk about it, go ahead and talk about it, but instead of criticizing and complaining make sure to be understanding and forgiving.
5. Let him vent.
Everyone has a bad day now and then, and he will, too. It can frustrating to listen to someone vent their problems but if you want him to feel important you should take the time to listen. Not only that, but try not to invalidate his feelings or even try to solve his problems. Truth is, he just wants someone to listen to him.
6. Show your appreciation.
Did you know people like to feel appreciated? Of course. They like to feel valued, cared about, needed, wanted and loved. One way to show your husband that you feel all of these things is to take note of his good qualities and give him sincere appreciation.
Is he a good cook? Does he always brush the snow off your car in the winter? Or maybe he likes to surprise you with flowers? Dont let the little things go unnoticed!
Showing your appreciation can be done in a number of ways. It can be shown with a hug, in a written note, or a simple kind gesture, but of course, a simple thank you will always do.
7. Show gratitude.
Whenever you find yourself becoming frustrated with your husband try to write out a list of all the things about him that youre grateful for. This list can include whatever you want on it and it will help remind you of all the reasons you love him. Then, from time to time, let him know about the things that youre grateful for.
Does he cook you dinner most nights? Be grateful! Is he a great listener? Be grateful. Does he make you feel special? Be grateful! And dont just write it down, let him know that you are grateful for him. You may think that he already knows, but even still he actually might need to hear the words or be shown, and it will mean the world to him.
8. Be affectionate.
In a newer relationship affection seems to be something that just happens naturally. New couples cant seem to stop touching each other, whether its holding hands or something more. Unfortunately in most cases as the relationship develops couples often stop being as affectionate as when they first started dating.
In my own experience, one of the quickest ways to kill a relationship is to neglect each other physically. Being affectionate with one another will make both of you feel more comfortable and connected, but without it, you may feel distant and cold and not even know why.
There are a lot of different ways to show affection, and its not just about sex. It can be as simple as a good morning kiss, holding hands while walking down the street, or even sitting next to one another on the couch. Not to mention, theres also cuddling, spooning in bed, massaging one another, and joking around.
In order to keep your love and passion alive, and make one another feel important, remember to show your affection regularly!
9. Respect each others opinions.
Most of the couples I know share a lot of the same values and opinions. Still, there are things that two people just wont agree on. It might be something as small as agreeing what the best restaurant is, or even something more serious like who to vote for. Chances are though, that it wont be a complete deal breaker.
When you dont agree with something, the best thing to do is agree to disagree. Fighting about it usually wont change the other persons opinion, it will only make the both of you angry. You can, however, discuss it as long as you respect the other persons opinion, keep an open-mind, be honest and in the end, remember that you are both entitled to your own thoughts and opinions. By showing you respect his opinion, you make him feel important.
10. Accept his family.
There are a lot of jokes in TV sit-coms and in life about parent-in-laws, and thats because people can relate! Sometimes your husbands parents might just infuriate you and your parents might just infuriate him. Still, as his wife, you should really do your best to accept his parents and he yours.
Its important that you try your best to get along, accept them and be respectful. Im not saying that you have to like them, but you do have to tolerate them if you want your husband to feel important. So the next time the in-laws are getting on your nerves, keep your mouth shut.
11. Celebrate his successes.
No matter how big or small that success is, celebrating it with him will make him feel important. Got promoted at work? Celebrate! Passed a test? Celebrate! Won a game? Celebrate!
Nothing says you are important to me like a big ol cake to celebrate a success. Unless, of course, he prefers beer.
12. Give generously.
How amazing does it feel to receive something, whether its someones time or a gift? It makes you feel pretty damn important! If you want to make your husband feel important, try giving generously.
Im not saying you have to go out and buy him a new sports car for his birthday (which would be awesome) but you should try to do nice things for him on the regular.
13. Open up about yourself.
Finally, open up to your husband; open your heart and your mind, and share yourself with him completely. A marriage is different from other relationships and one thing that makes it different is the openness that is shared between the two of you.
There are a lot of different ways to make that special man in your life feel important, but you have to remember to actually do it. And dont forget, they should make you feel important, too!
This post originally appeared at Attract The One.
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13 Ways To Make Your Partner Feel Important (So Your Relationship Has A Chance)
My husband and I have been together for almost nine years now. Thats almost a third of my life! Although were still madly in love we do have our moments. In particular, when I was in college I was so wrapped up in my own studies, work and our daughter, that my marriage was quickly falling apart and I didnt even notice! My husband, who was also busy with work, did notice and he felt as if I just didnt care about him anymore.
He had valid reason to think so. I spent so much time studying and trying to juggle everything else that I really didnt give him the attention, love and care that he deserved. Eventually, that led to fights and arguments until I understood why he was so mad. I promised myself to make him feel important again, because he is, and were doing better than ever.
Sometimes when youre married for a long time other things take priority over your husband. With kids, work, friends, household chores and responsibilities, along with your own hobbies and interests, your relationship will occasionally fall to the wayside as you spend time doing other things. It happens and thats okay, but if youre not careful, you and your husband may begin to drift apart.
There will be days, sometimes weeks, where youre too busy to go out or even spend quality time together at home. Thats normal, but a prolonged emotional distance and time spent apart can cause some serious relationship damage.
Its crucial to make your loved one feel important on a daily basis if you want your relationship to last. And they should make you feel important, too. Although it can be very easy to make someone feel loved and important, it can also be something thats forgotten if you dont put any effort in at all a difficult lesson I had to learn.
1. Ask him about his day.
After so many years with someone, asking about their day can seem trivial. I mean, dont we already know what they do for work and yadda-yadda? That might so, but taking the time to ask him about his day shows you care and that youre thinking about him.
My husband and I make it a priority to ask one another about our days. Not only do we ask, we actually listen and show interest, and that is key! You have to actually pay attention! And because its something you can do every day over dinner its easy to actually remember to do it.
2. Talk about him.
Its been proven that a persons favorite topic to talk about is themselves, so why not let him? Let him talk about his day, his hobbies, his friends and favorite things. Then ask him questions about those things and keep him talking! Hell love it and think to himself that his wife really cares.
3. Show genuine interest in his passions.
Its great when you and your husband have similar interests; it gives you something to talk about and activities to do together. For example, my husband and I enjoy thrift shopping, going to concerts and browsing art galleries. However, he still has hobbies and interests that I dont share with him and vice versa. He enjoys playing darts, watching documentaries and has a deep love for all things (including the lifestyle) from the mid-century. And I enjoy spending time outdoors, creating art and playing board games.
Although my husband would rather grab a pint at the pub and shoot some pool over hiking, he still joins me now and again for a walk in the woods, and Ill join him for a drink. More importantly, Ill ask him questions about things he enjoys and actually listen. (Remember when I said people like to talk about themselves?)
Even if you dont necessarily care for his passions and hobbies, you should at least show some interest. Nothing makes someone feel more important than when you want to talk about them and the things they enjoy. And who knows? Maybe youll actually find a new hobby or passion in the process. I know I have.
4. Dont criticize or complain.
No matter who someone is, its quite possible they will do things we dont like. Little quirks and habits are things that all couples have to deal with over the years, but at some point there will be something that comes up that you just cant stand. No matter what that is, how you handle it is the important part.
The first thing to do is to try and understand him and his point of view. If its something that you need to talk about it, go ahead and talk about it, but instead of criticizing and complaining make sure to be understanding and forgiving.
5. Let him vent.
Everyone has a bad day now and then, and he will, too. It can frustrating to listen to someone vent their problems but if you want him to feel important you should take the time to listen. Not only that, but try not to invalidate his feelings or even try to solve his problems. Truth is, he just wants someone to listen to him.
6. Show your appreciation.
Did you know people like to feel appreciated? Of course. They like to feel valued, cared about, needed, wanted and loved. One way to show your husband that you feel all of these things is to take note of his good qualities and give him sincere appreciation.
Is he a good cook? Does he always brush the snow off your car in the winter? Or maybe he likes to surprise you with flowers? Dont let the little things go unnoticed!
Showing your appreciation can be done in a number of ways. It can be shown with a hug, in a written note, or a simple kind gesture, but of course, a simple thank you will always do.
7. Show gratitude.
Whenever you find yourself becoming frustrated with your husband try to write out a list of all the things about him that youre grateful for. This list can include whatever you want on it and it will help remind you of all the reasons you love him. Then, from time to time, let him know about the things that youre grateful for.
Does he cook you dinner most nights? Be grateful! Is he a great listener? Be grateful. Does he make you feel special? Be grateful! And dont just write it down, let him know that you are grateful for him. You may think that he already knows, but even still he actually might need to hear the words or be shown, and it will mean the world to him.
8. Be affectionate.
In a newer relationship affection seems to be something that just happens naturally. New couples cant seem to stop touching each other, whether its holding hands or something more. Unfortunately in most cases as the relationship develops couples often stop being as affectionate as when they first started dating.
In my own experience, one of the quickest ways to kill a relationship is to neglect each other physically. Being affectionate with one another will make both of you feel more comfortable and connected, but without it, you may feel distant and cold and not even know why.
There are a lot of different ways to show affection, and its not just about sex. It can be as simple as a good morning kiss, holding hands while walking down the street, or even sitting next to one another on the couch. Not to mention, theres also cuddling, spooning in bed, massaging one another, and joking around.
In order to keep your love and passion alive, and make one another feel important, remember to show your affection regularly!
9. Respect each others opinions.
Most of the couples I know share a lot of the same values and opinions. Still, there are things that two people just wont agree on. It might be something as small as agreeing what the best restaurant is, or even something more serious like who to vote for. Chances are though, that it wont be a complete deal breaker.
When you dont agree with something, the best thing to do is agree to disagree. Fighting about it usually wont change the other persons opinion, it will only make the both of you angry. You can, however, discuss it as long as you respect the other persons opinion, keep an open-mind, be honest and in the end, remember that you are both entitled to your own thoughts and opinions. By showing you respect his opinion, you make him feel important.
10. Accept his family.
There are a lot of jokes in TV sit-coms and in life about parent-in-laws, and thats because people can relate! Sometimes your husbands parents might just infuriate you and your parents might just infuriate him. Still, as his wife, you should really do your best to accept his parents and he yours.
Its important that you try your best to get along, accept them and be respectful. Im not saying that you have to like them, but you do have to tolerate them if you want your husband to feel important. So the next time the in-laws are getting on your nerves, keep your mouth shut.
11. Celebrate his successes.
No matter how big or small that success is, celebrating it with him will make him feel important. Got promoted at work? Celebrate! Passed a test? Celebrate! Won a game? Celebrate!
Nothing says you are important to me like a big ol cake to celebrate a success. Unless, of course, he prefers beer.
12. Give generously.
How amazing does it feel to receive something, whether its someones time or a gift? It makes you feel pretty damn important! If you want to make your husband feel important, try giving generously.
Im not saying you have to go out and buy him a new sports car for his birthday (which would be awesome) but you should try to do nice things for him on the regular.
13. Open up about yourself.
Finally, open up to your husband; open your heart and your mind, and share yourself with him completely. A marriage is different from other relationships and one thing that makes it different is the openness that is shared between the two of you.
There are a lot of different ways to make that special man in your life feel important, but you have to remember to actually do it. And dont forget, they should make you feel important, too!
This post originally appeared at Attract The One.
from All Of Beer http://allofbeer.com/13-ways-to-make-your-partner-feel-important-so-your-relationship-has-a-chance/
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DEATH CITY DAYS GAIDEN 1: the arachnophobia massacre
-60 years ago-
leech: eyyyyy you jelly? Mosquito: "Hmph. I simply think Lady Arachne needs a gentleman befitting her regalness, not some brute." leech: then go into your younger looking form and put the moves on her ya old coot. I do it all the time! Mosquito: *angry twitch* "You pervert..." leech: whaaat I do it for food! Mosquito: "...And that works? How?" leech: I just get them alone and drink their blood. I also store some of it for later. Mosquito: "You dare to drink of our divine maiden's blood?!" leech: I didn't say _her_, just random ol chumps off the streets! Mosquito: "Oh...Hmm...And that works for you?" leech: you'd be amazed. Mosquito: "..." (squirms) "What if I'm not good at the small talk?" leech: sounds like it isn't my problem. Mosquito: "Hmph. Damn you. I'll do it myself." leech: if it blows up in your face, don't come complaining to me! Mosquito: "Your confidence in me is shocking..." -and so- Evangeline:...... Mosquito: *clears his throat* "Excuse me?" Evangeline: hmm? oh. hello mosquito. Mosquito: "Hello, Evangeline. How are you?" Evangeline: well, I suppose... Mosquito: "Hmm...Is there anything I could do?" Evangeline:...I would like some tea, if it isn't too much trouble. Mosquito: (nods, bows) "Very well. I will brew it." -outside baba yaga's castle- Mosquito: (nods to the guards--then spots someone) "What on earth...?" guard: halt! identification is required past this point. Mosquito: (approaches) "Who are you?" ???: ....just family, that's all... Mosquito: (tense, aims his nose at her) "Family is not usually invited here...Your name?" ???: *smirk* -vector plate arrow- guard: hrk! *impaled* Mosquito: "!!!! No!" *propels his Needle Nose at her* medusa: *rolls eyes and dodge* do you mind? I have a bit of a business meeting with arachne, now be a good little servant and let me in, ok? Mosquito: "Never!" (swings around and stabs against at her) medusa: gah! tch-....that the best you got, old man?! Mosquito: *his skin is giving off heat* "Hardly...FORM FROM 200 YEARS AGO!" medusa: gross...but you know the saying, the bigger they are, the harder they fall... Mosquito: (slams hand down at Medusa) "The smaller they are...the easier to squish." -inside- guard: lady arachne! your sister medusa is attacking our guards! Giriko: "?!! Let me out the fucking snake!" Arachne: (folds her fan, steps down from the web to the floor) "How close is she to my current location?" guard: she's taken down the first 3 waves! Evangeline: mother? what's going on? Arachne: (gets down to Evangeline's eye level) "Eva, I need you to follow the guards to the safe room." Evangeline: but what about you, mother? Arachne: *hugs her* "I will join you soon. Please, wait for me." Evangeline:..... guard: lady eva, this way please. Arachne: (sad smile at Evangeline) -in one of the legs- medusa: is this all you got sis? I've gone through like...hundreds of your soldiers now! Mosquito: (now in 400 years ago form, but bleeding) "I'm still standing--and you won't, you snake." medusa: *sigh* do you ever give up? *summons vector sword* Mosquito: "Not until my opponent is dead beneath my feet." (resumes fighting stance, ready to slice her in two) medusa: hmmm.... medusa: *she charges at him* HYAAH!!! Mosquito: (stands still, smirks..."Yes, just a bit closer, then I dash behind her and slice her from behind...") medusa: *looks up* hmm? Mosquito: "???" (looks up as well) medusa: now. -cue arrow rain- Mosquito: "What?!" *arrows through the forehead and eyes* "AAAAH!" medusa: *grins* Mosquito: (clutches his face, howling..."I have to heal before she gets to Lady Arachne!") medusa: *arrow aimed at his face*...... medusa: nighty night~ *shoots the arrow into his forehead* Mosquito: "UHRK! ...Lady Arachne...forgive..." (collapses) medusa: now if you excuse me, I have business to attend to... *Something bites Medusa's skin* medusa: *wince* what? *Another bite against her neck, then against her feet, arms, sides* medusa: w-what?! *They are spiders* Arachne: (disembodied voice) "Amazing what one can accomplish...Now, die." *Sharper bites and venom entering Medusa* medusa: *screaming* Arachne: (smirk heard from her voice) "Are my babies hurting you? Such a shame." medusa: tch- *vector arrows the spiders off and at her* I think you have something I want, sister dearest... Arachne: (emerges from shadows) "Oh?" (summons a web--which twirls a broken piece of the castle's column down at Medusa) "Then it's something I will never give you." medusa: !! -vector shield- too bad, guess you can expend more soldiers then... Arachne: "As if you would leave once you got what you wanted--" (tosses a second column at her with more web) medusa: !! *transforms into a snake and escapes into the vents* Arachne: "!!! Damn!" *taps communicator* "Guards! Update?!" guard: Evangeline is safe. no clue where giriko went... Arachne: "...Giriko? If you can hear me, get that witch: she is going through the vents." Giriko: "..." (looks up at vents...hears something...) -in the containment room- researcher: why do we have that vial of blood? Researcher #2: "Something Lady Arachne asked us to monitor for advanced research. It's properties for influencing others are astounding." researcher: and the FREAKIN SOUL FRAGMENT?! why do we have to keep so many papers on it? it freaks me out! Researcher #2: "Safety precaution." -rumbling in the vent- Researcher #2: *hears the rumbling* "Air conditioner kicking in?" researcher: but it's freezing down he-GRK Researcher #2: "?!! Oh no--" medusa: oh, what have we here? Researcher #2: (pulls gun) "Stay back!" Medusa: *vector arrows their hand to the console* nah. Researcher #2: "Ah! No! Don't! That material is dangerous!" Medusa: don’t worry, I’ll keep it safe. Researcher #2: *slams fist against big red button--containing the soul fragment behind glass* Medusa: like that’s going to work… Researcher #2: "Wait for it..." *ducks* Medusa: *pre-emptive shield* *Daggers fly from the walls towards Medusa* -vector shields are deflecting them away from medusa, the blood, and the soul- Researcher #2: "Oh no..." *slams intercom* "Guards! Get to Research Facility #7! medusa: *slices their head off* nah. *takes the blood and the soul* I'll be taking these~ Researcher #2: *dead* Guard: "We came as soon as we could! We--" *sees the damage* "Oh, poopie." Medusa: *smirks* Guard: *aims spear at her* "Release the specimens! This is your only warning!" Medusa: let me think…yyyyyyeeeeeaaah no. Guard: *stabby stabby stabby* "Die, vile witch!" Medusa: *dodge, scratch, dodge* oh my god don’t be so rude Guard: "You have no chance of escape! Lady Arachne would rather send this entire castle crashing down on top of us then let those specimens be released!" Medusa: crashing down on top of you? can do! *vector slash* Guard: "Ah!" *slash, bleeds, dies* -several bodies later- Giriko: "Tch. Who let this bitch in here?" guard: I DONT WANNA DIE! Giriko: "Man up, you fucking pussy! We got a job to do, and I am not carrying your dead weight! Now get ready to rip that snake cunt apart or else I will fucking rip your balls off and--" Evangeline: *whimpering* Giriko: "?!" *nervous smile* "Don't listen to Daddy's foul language, sweetie. I'm just, um, giving a motivational speech! Yeah! That's it." Evangeline: mother…. Giriko: (leans down, pats Evangeline's head) "Mama is going to be safe--don't worry." Evangeline:….
Giriko: "..." (pulls her in for a hug) -elsewhere- Arachne: *in separated spider form, searching for Medusa* medusa: so many of your soldiers dead....some 'matron' you turned out to be.... Arachne: *disembodied voice* "My soldiers are willing to die for me. Who would ever be willing to die for a treacherous witch like you?" Medusa: at least _i_ can handle myself. And you? you just sit on your little web looking pretty. Pretty STUPID! Arachne: "I don't send others to do my work for me. I do it because it's the best course of action. After all, you look rather tired--" *Spiders slam against Medusa en masse, like a fist crashing against her* Arachne: "Old woman..." Medusa: FUCK YOU, YOU’RE OLDER THAN ME! Arachne: (spiders bite all over Medusa) "And yet you still tire so easily. You have not taken good care of yourself, Sister. Too much time stressing out this weak physical form..." Medusa: …..*smirks* I could just get a new body….besides, getting rid of the baby weight isn’t as easy as it looks… Arachne: "Let me expedite that for you--by ridding yourself of this body...Just need to reach your very soul and rip it from you, you awful, sadistic monster." Medusa:……bitchgettingimpaledsayswhat. Arachne: "...What?" medusa:...vector spear. -a vector impales arachne through the back and out the stomach- Arachne: "--No!" *stabbed* Arachne: *coughs blood* "N-No..." Medusa: you talk shit. You get hit….now your one minion said something about ‘sending this castle crashing down’? Arachne: *struggling to breathe* "I-I'll send this whole castle crashing down b-before I..." medusa: BEAT YA TOO IT! Arachne: *glaring* "You won't win..." Medusa: you sure? cause it looks like I already did. Arachne: "My people won't stop fighting until your blood coats these walls..." Medusa: looks like most of them are dead to me….i should probably weed out the rest of them….and your brat spawn… Arachne: "!!! No!" guard: *over radio* lady arachne! what's going on? Arachne: "Lock the rooms! Don't let anyone in!" *desperately trying to lunge at Medusa* Medusa: *slashing at her with vectors* Guard: should we evacuate? Arachne: *screams of bloody pain* Guard: !!! we need to evacuate, now! Giriko: (nods) "Evangeline, stay close..." Maid: get the young mistress someplace safe! Giriko: "Where would that be?" -BOOM- Giriko: "!!! No!" -there is chaos, Evangeline is separated from giriko in the rush- Giriko: "Evangeline!" (reaching for her) -CRACK- Giriko: *all is black* "Ugh..." -hours later, you awake to silence, fog, and rubble- Giriko: "Where am I? What happ-!!! Arachne! Evangeline!" -but nobody came…- Giriko: "...No..." (tries to move, his right leg broken, his shoulder dislocated, as he drags himself through the building...) -something is laying in the center of the fog- Giriko: "???" *approaches...and shudders* -arachne lays lifelessly on the cold, hard ground- Giriko: *silent, just collapses to his good knee, tentatively reaching for her body...and she is not moving...he picks her up in his arms, she's still not moving...He sobs as he holds her* -there is no response- Giriko: *sobbing...* "Evangeline!" -silence- Giriko: "..." (lays Arachne down...wiping his eyes) "Evangeline!" (struggles to pull himself away from his deceased Arachne) "Evangeline!" (searches the entire building...) -she is nowhere to be found….not even under rubble- Giriko: "Fuck! Come on!" *screaming to the sky above* "Help me out, you bastard!" -all that can be found is dead soldiers and servants, broken furniture, and crumbling walls- Giriko: "...What do I do...?" (collapses onto the floor) -silence- Giriko: "..." (takes broken furniture and medical supplies to make a splint for his broken leg and pull himself together before walking back to Arachne...He lifts her body and takes her outside) "Wh-Where do I...What do I..." -elsewhere- Medusa: *coughs* damn…the poisons kicking in…. Noah: "Just get through it, you cow." Servant: "!!! M-May I help you, Madam?" Medusa:…..may I speak to you in private, slave? Servant: "Y-Yes, Madam..." (follows Medusa) Noah: "Tch. Guess I'll do something else while you two chat..." -later, screaming can be heard- Noah: *humming* "Hm-hm-hm hm-hm-hm hm-hm-hm-hmmmmm-hm-hm..." Medusa: it’ll take some adjusting over time, but I think I could rock this look… Noah: (glances her up and down) "Yeah, I'd say so. That you in there, Medusa?" Medusa: in the flesh..or _new_ flesh rather… Noah: "Hmm..." (stands up, approaches) "How long does it usually take you to adjust to the new skin?" Medusa: about a week or so… Noah: "What do you usually do to speed up the process? Stretches? Exercises? Can you even use your magic the same way?" Medusa: *small vector* yes. Though I might have to resonate with it more…intimately. Noah: (taps finger lightly along her small vector) "And what usually helps you get more in touch with yourself to resonate better?" (glances at her) "Maybe you need to touch yourself a bit more..." Medusa: *gives him a look* or have someone else do it~ Noah: "..." (trails finger down from the vector arrow and down her arm) "This new body..." Medusa: much better curves than the last one… _and_ she was fresh…if you catch my drift~ Noah: (his hand moves down along her arm and towards her hips) "Hmmm~ She did look luscious...And now you do..." Medusa: *smirks* Noah: *small pinch of her hip* -and so- Noah: *panting* Medusa:…fuck that was good… Noah: "Agreed...Think you're getting the hang of that body quite well...Much tighter than the last one, too." Medusa: and a lot more sensitive… Noah: "Could tell--the way you were howling." Medusa: probably woke the baby, but whatever… Noah: "Hmph. Don't worry about that. Just worry about Round 2."
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