#jooanswers

[jowobaby]

Hi! Sending you some happy thoughts and hugs for the day!

This couldn’t have come at a better time :,))

Partner and I broke up after 8 months and I’ve been struggling with finding out a close friend has cancer.

Big hugs for whoever this was. 🩷

[jowobaby]

hey, I don’t know if/how much this even helps but I had to say something. we’re yoi mutuals and seeing you in my notes or my dash makes me smile. I know I don’t know you personally, and that the season is hard… but there is someone who cares whether you live or not. I’ve also delt with suicidal thoughts and have to constantly remind myself of people who’s careers got started in their 40s or later, of the interview where Guillermo del Toro says he’s much happier in his 50s than he was even in his 30s, other little reminders that life gets better. Its hard to have that optimism, especially when you’re actively spiraling, but I’m mentally sending you a blanket and tea and hugs and hoping you can find that desire to continue. It is fucking hard to persevere. Esp if you’ve been struggling with depression for so long. I’m proud of you and I’m sending you love, even just as someone your life has peripherally touched <3 and even if you’re not in a place to accept this rn, I understand…. I just hope you stick around.

I debated answering this because I’m not sure how to respond to the kindness here. I figured even a thank you would be too little but you seem to care, and I don’t want to worry you.

So thank you, thank you, thank you. I’m doing my best and I’ll continue to. I really appreciate you taking the time to encourage me. I was having a pretty fucking awful night.

My cat who never cuddles me actually cuddled me last night. And I don’t know if it’s because he missed me because I was away over a week or because I was sad. But either way, he loves me. And I’m going to continue to do my best for him and my other kitty, and all the people who care about me, even peripherally. <3

Thank you.

[jowobaby]

Hey Paige ❤

I'm so sorry to hear about your family-situation. I think sometimes parents forget that they actually are grownups and that they should act that way, instead of acting like children. Blocking and unadding on social media is so childish. I hope things are getting better, especially now since Christmas is right around the corner.

I'm also really sorry about your grandma. I think you should go visit her grave.

And when it comes to your ex; if you're not happy in a relationship you should step out of it. Don't feel guilty for that.

I really hope things are getting better for you. I do care about you and I'm sorry that I haven't replied earlier. Life is hectic, but I'm doing well.

I wish you a merry Christmas and a happy New year ❤

- A

Oh Hoshi 💗 thank you so much for these kind words. I’m so sorry I didn’t see them sooner! I’ve actually been really happy lately and less online due to it.

I started using this blog a bit more as a personal diary than intended but I don’t regret it one bit when I get kind words and good friends reaching out!

Christmas is going to be great this year- I feel it. I hope it’s all wonderful for you too and things slow down so you can breathe. 💗💗💗

[jowobaby]

soooo... 2, 8, 40 for the weirder asks?

Oo thank you!!

2: lighter or matches?

I’d seriously have to go lighter because I’m a baby and watching the flame grow more and more towards my finger the longer I take to light anything the more I panic. Also I have a serious aversion to heat.

8: how many water bottles are in your room right now?

0 (ノ_<。) a good reminder to drink some actually lmao thank you!!

40: did you have any snacks today?

No, actually. There must be something seriously wrong with me.