#ive seen so much of this today alone and im disgusted rn and i feel like i need to say something about this or im going to explode

[bunnyboy-juice]

hey can y'all like.. Not add comments/tags sexualizing the situation to vent posts by transfems? even if they're posts ABOUT sex? like i know you think your tags being flirty/horny/explaining why its sexy to you are cute and all, but its really frankly disgusting the way y'all dont give trans women the basic fucking respect to vent about fetishization without contributing to the exact things these girls are talking about. no one cares if you think marginalized women are sexy when they're scared or anxious, no one cares about how/why you think this should be/is actually hot and sexy, no one cares about your reasoning. learn to actually read the content of the post even if the words sex/kink are in the body of the text. if she's going "i hate the way transfems are sexualized" on what planet is "well i sexualize this because of [fetishizing explanation here]" an appropriate response? seriously? "ohhh but transfems are so hot when they're -" yes. these traits can be hot outside of this context. but can you not make it about your nut for 2 seconds and realize she is a whole person with complex feelings? like seriously? is it that hard to see someone say "it is a shame the way people expect transfems to top and call that kink. it is a shame the way people treat women with cock as kink. it is frustrating that my existence is just a sex fetish to some people" and NOT say something like "ooh yeah but your existence is so hot to me" like. seriously????? for fucks sake is it that hard???? can you fucking read???? if another tme person says the same things transfems have been saying for years will you finally listen and treat trans women as fucking people who deserve basic fucking respect??? do you even value trans women as people worthy of respect??? actually i can answer this already - no. you dont. you are just engaging in transmisogyny but think its fun and quirky and cute because you dont identify as a cis man or terf & assume u are free of transmisogynistic biases bc of this. fuck off and stop being fucking weird!!!! its not that fucking hard!!!! jesus fucking christ!!!!!