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butch-bakugo · 2 years ago

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Ok heres my real problematic hot take:

Yandere stuff CAN be cool but only if it's handled well and respectfully towards the actual victims of stalking and possessive abuse and isn't just the fantasy of some creepy basement dweller guy who can only make fictional crazy women love him.

#levi speaks #and its non fatal #like im a victim of stalking and possessive abuse #its not sexy and bloody and hot #its fucking terrifying #and usually the end result of a break up from an abusive relationship #i had an ex who loved to talk about locking me in a basement so only she could have me #and poisioning me #the same ex whose beaten the shit out of me #so seeing this person whose mentally scarred me like that isnt sexy #its traumatizing #and i get the obsessed killer stalker crush thing #its an interesting take on psychology if done eloquently and non-ablesitly #cause sometimes these are typicalist as shit towards people woth bpd dpd and ocd #when that isnt the reality of those conditions #also realistically #its gonna be mostly male stalkers with female victims #but heres the reality #its mostly being peddled by cishet grown ass men with crazy teen girl killers #with no actual intent on tackling the issues with possesiveness and stalking thst links into misogyny and rape culture #but when it is tackled correctly and realistic and sensitive to the actual harm in stalking?#ugh its so good #i love psychological horror and slashers #but when you actually artfully create a yandere story and not just slap a bloody smiling face on an anime girl?#they are so good and so insightful and just ugh so good #i dont hsve an example off hand but the well handled yandere stories ive seen are amazing #the shitty ones are a dime a dozen and just bloody for the sake of blood but those actually doing it well?#amazing

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