#its just funny bc i DO agree that you should block people you dislike and take steps to avoid seeing stuff you hate

[mamawasatesttube]

i have to admit the phrase "curate your experience!" is kind of a pet peeve to me at this point. like i agree with the sentiment i LOVE the block button she is like a wife to me. and don't even get me started on tag exclusion my sweet darling. however the people who say "ummm just block people and tags sweaty :)" every time someone complains they dislike something are so . like. sorry you guys don't understand that sometimes bitching about stuff on your own personal blog is a way to process negative emotions and move on. sorry you guys don't understand the noble art of haterism or whatever. get well soon

[sojirosteacup]

❄️ and 🧩

Either/or

(or both...🙏)

I have a headache rn so please ignore any spelling mistakes

I'm gonna talk about hanadan in all those answers bc its the fandom i write fic for

❄️ ⇢ what’s your dream theme/plot for a fic, and who would write it best?

I have so many ideas i want to write but i never finish the first draft or never get around to writing it at all. I'm gonna say a few ones bc if i said everything we would be here the whole day and i wouldn't have any drafts left :

sometimes i have some crazy ideas that would be great on paper but i never manage to write bcs it would take me too long to finish. Like, years ago I had a plot idea that was "amnesia plot, but instead of thinking yumi is his girlfriend, Junpyo thinks jihoo is his boyfriend." I still think this would be incredibly funny to write, but it would need many chapters to finish... and i don't know how i would finish this. Bc making Junpyo/Jihoo get together is tempting, but i can't do this to Jandi, lol. Maybe i should make it a throuple but then it would take even longer to develop.

I also have many ideas with no plot tied to them, which makes things complicated bc, well, i need a plot to write the fic. Like I really want to write a animal-human hybrid Au fic for them which is just an excuse to write them as cat/dog/whateverboys but i have no excuse plot for it. My mind is just "fuck yeah, foxboy yijung!" and then no plot for that idea. I also sometimes want to write a F4 royalty!au but then i stop and remember that 1- there is already a manga chapter with that concept and i don't want it to feel like a copy 2- wtf would even be the plot?

And then there is the ships-nobody-cares-about category. I kind of have a draft for a Sakurako/Kazuya oneshot but who would even read it? 😭 Like, nobody even posts in the animanga tag for this fandom to begin with.

🧩 ⇢ what will make you click away from a fanfiction immediately?

I'm very picky with the fic I read, so basically anything could make me click away if I'm not in the mood. Some of the reasons are obvious stuff most people can agree with like "the entire fic is one single paragraph block with no breaks" or untagged watersports. But one thing that makes me click away and i keep running into is character or ship bashing. I don't care if the fic has my otp in it, i don't want to read your rant in the author's notes about how junpyo is a shitty person or whatever. Even worse if the character you are bashing is half of the couple in your fic, bc why are you writing about it in the first place? And when it's in the fic i can tell the difference between a character disliking the other and the author disliking the character. And while i am all for disliking whatever character you want, i just have like... *checks list* ...two characters i actively dislike in the hanadan franchise, and they are both minor characters, so whatever bashing i see is likely to be about someone i like and i'm not gonna read that.

One thing I also dislike but won't make me click away because it seems that everyone and their mother does it in this fandom is when people tag a couple that is not endgame in the fic (ex: a rui/tsukushi fic where she starts dating tsukasa, but she breaks up with him for them to get together but the writer still tags tsukasa/tsukushi anyway.) WHY ARE YOU MAKING IT HARDER FOR ME TO FIND WHAT I WANT?! OR WHAT YOU WANT?! Same thing happens with fics of adaptations. If someone is writing a fic for, say, F4 Thailand, THERE IS NO NEED TO PUT IT IN THE TAG FOR THE MANGA AND THE KDRAMA AND METEOR GARDEN AND THE JDRAMA. Even worse when they do with the manga and jdrama bc the characters have the same names, so it happened more than once for me to click on a fic thinking its about the anime or manga but, surprise! It's a jdrama fic bc they are talking about something that has not happened in the manga at all. It's exhausting and seems impossible to avoid.

[jhuntingtonthethird]

just another rant

I hate everything that comes with stan twitter. People police you on how to act and for a few times it was okay, but then it came down to the silliest requests which I can understand that yes, disabled people need more accessibility to socmed, BUT to expect everyone to obey you is a little too much? I hate anxiety inducing tweets like "if you don't retweet this right now then you're racist! homophobic! classist! Keep this on your profile to avoid being softblocked!" make it seem like everyone has an obligation to spread politics on their social media. There is a lack of genuine feelings for politics, and it's more so just peer pressure to be active in politics. In my opinion it's okay to spread politics, as long as the message comes across but bullying people to do it is just too demanding and too weird? like idk about you but if my comfort space was to go on twitter look at kpop memes i would not want to see children being starved posted on twitter with all the millennials trying to act like white knights to save the poor kids, when in reality the picture being shared was a picture from 2003 and those kids would have already been saved by volunteers. I don't like aid. Aid foundations are sometimes sketchy, and I dont think food aid is enough. You would need to give pads and tampons to women who cant afford the transportation to go to a store for a pad or young girls who are forced to stay at home from school because they cannot buy tampons. You need to give the people the necessary tools to build themselves up from the ground so they wont need to be spoonfed by white knights who think they're underdeveloped because they don't wear shoes. I have a lot of problem with aid but since we're talking about stan twitter I JUST HATE HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL SO SHITTY like yes i wanna be part of this community, oh I have to retweet these mentally damaging pictures of global warming to be your friend? ok i can do that... oh you want me to completely change my layout to support blm and to put pronouns and to put my flags down all for other people to look at? ok but its not really a dating profile where i need other people to know me that much. oh okay now my moots are talking to antis and trolls and i have to deal with that daily? alright i'll just softblock them! oh this moot unfollowed me because i didnt unfollow another moot who ended up being problematic... well there's more people. i don't think that just because someone was accused of lying about their age is something to be upset about. yeah, they're fake but this drama really is so boring. if you need me to unfollow someone they have to either sexualise the idol so much to the point of discomfort or harrassing others and sending gore pictures to them. even then, it's all so upsetting! i joined this space because i wanted to look at kpop girls! why is it suddenly become such a struggle just to prove myself as an ally... i don't enjoy having to constantly see gruesome things on my feed when obviously i can be happy without seeing it. i know people will say "oh black people have to experience this first hand so if this makes you uncomfortable then it doesnt measure to how much we endured just being black" YES I AGREE but I dont think its necessary to be actively progressive, some people want to have quiet lives and fight for their own struggle. we recognise our privilege and help however we can. it's still necessary to take a break from socmed if things bother us too much. do you think i enjoy seeing muslims being murdered especially when i was raised as a muslim? no so you excused black people for not being online during the blm protests so you should also excuse others to be offline without them having to explain why. anyways on the kpop aspect, i absolutely hate the unpopular opinions trend when people bring down other artists and the stupid fans keep replying to the thread getting all offended when clearly the thread is meant to cause uproar and to offend the fans so the fans will hate the person with a jimin profile picture. it's all a game to trolls. sometimes that

wouldve been avoided if we all just blocked people as soon as we see something we dont like and i've been doing that for months now... i have too many people i blocked including some of my own followers. I hate orbits who make fun of new orbits bcs they recently discovered loon through 2017-2018 memes of them and now are calling choerry's fans cockroach and calling gowon as gowon minaj and crunchy. these old orbits police them like "IN 2020, do this: dont find old memes funny bcs if you do you're cringe and you're an awful fan" the humor has always been dry and unfunny, even today their idea of what humor is is so disappointing. like "OMG WHITE CIS MALE MAN TALKING ABOUT LOONA STAY AWAY FROM HER". the stan language itself is so unfunny "NOT YOU LIKING LOONA YOU GAY BOY". i guess its the trend now but i find it so difficult to contribute to the conversation IRL is someone talks in tiktok. anyway even if it is unfunny you cant tell someone that they cant find old memes funny anymore. you're allowed to dislike it for sure. but telling new fans to not enjoy memes that encouraged them to stan loona? you're just scaring them. anyway bye i have to talk to my boyfriend now i might add later on but what are the chances of me even writing it lmao

[ketzwrites]

unpopular opinion here, I think people should be able to ship what they want without having people harass them over fiction. I don't like j@lec or cl@lec, but I also don't like the way people treat those shippers. Fiction is not reality, and if people are triggered or uncomfortable, all they have to do is block tags. You have to curate your own content. There is also no reason to post in tags to cause drama and bully people. Doing what was done to you is not right, nor will it ever be.

Anonymous said: It's very frustrating to be in this fandom sometimes, because of the toxicity of people who believe they are morally superior to people and LIKE causing drama. I'm in the minority here, but I will not EVER harass someone or tell someone they can't ship something in fiction.

First of all, did you guys agree to send me these together? Because I don’t think this was the same person (nice concluding lines, btw) and those asks were sent almost at the same time. Very suspicious indeed.

As for the content of the asks, the short answer is: out of all the hated ships in Shadowhunters, couldn’t you guys choose poor cl.imon to feel sorry for and not the harmful ones? Cl.imon has never done one thing wrong in its life aside from being boring but ja.lec and cla.lec are the ships that deserve a defense? Really?

Long answer after the cut.

I get the sentiment of “ship and let ship,” but I think it’s wasted on ships such as ja.lec or cla.lec. Especially when put in context and the fact that those ships rarely are portrayed as intentionally fucked up. To the contrary, there is discourse defending those ships as “pure” and whatever is the new lingo for “right.” That’s very frustrating as well.

Particularly, I have no problem with people writing/reading fucked up things if they are not romanticized. Face your demons in a controlled ambient like a fanfiction. Go ahead. A properly tagged work should be enough to warn readers of what’s they are signing for. Tumblr finally has a working blocking system and that helps a lot too.

But I believe there’s a difference between purposefully fucked up ships and romanticized fucked up ships. And the latter is where I put ja.lec and cla.lec in my personal “ship division” within the Shadowhunters fandom. I’ve read meta on how malec is “abusive” bc either Magnus is “predatory” or “always suffering because of Alec.” That ends up in the Magnus or Malec tag. Seems to me like an invitation to disaster, especially when the meta concludes with something along the lines of “Jace is better suited to Alec.” Hard to blame someone for being outraged by this.

It’s not like one of the parts of this “conflict” is innocent and oppressed. There are people causing drama from both sides. Only, one side is generally known for romanticizing incest and practicing homophobia and/or racism. Those are actual felonies in most countries so I would argue this gives the malec side a legal upper hand on top of the moral upper hand.

As for the harassment and people putting stuff in the tags, blocking users works just as well as blocking tags. Deleting anon hate (and blocking anons’ IPs) works too plus you get the satisfaction of knowing the anon will be checking your blog for a response that is never coming

That all said, I don’t advocate harassment or provocation from either side. Although I have to admit I laugh a lot with some creative “cla.lec” edits. Maybe that’s not right of me, but damn, they are so funny. Especial shout out to the forsaken cl.alec shipper attacking the Institute.

Anyway, if I may suggest a different recipient for your frustration, guys, I’d say cl.imon. This poor ship is only guilty of being boring and is still almost universally disliked. While it was canon, almost the entire fandom was tagging the hate in the main tag. Poor cl.imon shippers, that must’ve been a hard time.

[touyanii]

“leredescristaux replied to your photoset “noooo. i’ve said before...”

artists tag their art bc its smthn people want to see. yes people are looking for ways to find other hnk fans but posting character hate in a main tag is Not what Anyone wants to see.

leredescristaux replied to your post “leredescristaux replied to your photoset  “noooo. i’ve said before...”

no one says anything bc they dont wanna deal with you. its rude to post hate in a main tag thats fandom 101. thats being considerate 101 lmaoooo

pfffftt you know what else is being considerate? minding your own fucking business. it’s just so funny, “ no one says anything bc they dont wanna deal with you “. i didn’t know you were the representative of the whole houseki no kuni fandom on tumblr, and maybe the whole world! are you holding meetings? and there was a vote where everyone agreed that i’m annoying and you got elected to deal with me? man i had no idea!

and, well, considering i got some followers since doing this liveblogging and also keep seeing people liking my posts and even sometimes reblogging them and replying them, there are people enjoying this actually. just because you don’t, doesn’t mean they can’t. you must be thinking really high of yourself that you think you should talk for everybody else

now the “character hate”. let me copy paste what i wrote about baby ghost.

i don’t like ghost but baby ghost is even worse! they are mean and now phos is stuck with them for eternity

wow. omg. such hate. i dislike, not even hate, but dislike a character. man, i shall not be allowed in the fandom then because apparently you only can be part of a fandom when you like every single character. can i also remind you that i’m liveblogging this? aka, i have no idea what’s gonna happen next in this series? should i also remind you that this version of ghost showed up in the manga like 2 minutes ago? and this is my very first reaction on them? you know, maybe they are an ass and stay an ass but maybe they also turn out to be a good guy and fun. well guess fucking what, i. don’t. know. and you calling this “character hate” is absolutely ridiculous.

now last but not least. the only one not being considerate here is you. because oh man do i see shit on this website that’s pissing me off or that i’m not caring shit about, but do i go up to those people and shove them my opinion in their face? no, i don’t. and maybe you should do that too. my main series is one piece. do i see people writing shit about characters i like? yes, i do. do i see ships i don’t agree on? yes, i do. is it my fucking business and should i send them hate for it? no. but hey, decency seems to be hard for some people and they do that anyway, right.

also, i suggest that you or anyone being annoyed by my liveblogging, can block me. i don’t care. and considering i can’t access your blog, i seems, you did follow my advice and thank fucking god you did and please never unblock or bother me ever again.

anouk out.