#its just So overwhelmingggggg idk. i want to try but when i think abt how to do it Right my brain explodes bc there is no true correct way | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

neontetra · 2 years

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i feel like most posts that are advice about socializing always end up filled with comments about "oh well some ppl like that.." and "no actually some ppl prefer this.." and it just feels like. hi heres some rules that really only apply to some ppl and if u fuck up and use these on ppl who Dont like it well go fuck yourself actually because ppl are usually not going to be straightforward with you. good luck!

#chatter #sometimes it literally feels like trying to talk to ppl is like playing 4d chess #trying desperately to monitor their tone and body language and what they are saying and listen and formulate responses and making sure my #tone and phrasing is ok and that im making interesting conversation and not boring them without realizing but if i ask thats self #deprecation but if i keep going thats annoying and make sure to let the other person talk but also some ppl rlly like it when someone talks #a lot and tells them about things they personally dont care about BUT if thejwqnlzhrmqodbdlshejejajqlsbdkoqnrn #i dont mean this as like Ohh how dare these meanies on the internet tell me how to socialize let me be an asshole who doesnt put effort in #its just So overwhelmingggggg idk. i want to try but when i think abt how to do it Right my brain explodes bc there is no true correct way #im very tired im sorry this is all rambly im just tired and sad and anxious so much. i would like to be. a cat. i think #alao one of the comments on tht post did specifically rly hurt my feewings. but thats not the overall problem

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