#itll be fine it’s not like i HAVE to have adhd or autism i just have thought it to be like that for years

[ultsnailfan]

after going to the psychiatrist for the 1st time i’m questioning if i even have autism and it was actually adhd and i just misdiagnosised myself 😭 i mean it definitely could be comorbid. and i still have to go back, i guess i’m just nervous for when his analysis on me eventually comes in

[aibuac]

intro post ig

Key: DNI: Do not interact. ATI: Ask to Interact. OTI: okay to interact names: Ollie, oliver, my current user, AIBUAC HUGE skoodge kinnie high-functioning autism and adhd possible sociopath???? idk, just really low empathy artist ig, i suck at digital diehard IZ fan i fucking suck at comforting dude do NOT come to me w/ problems relationg to emotions ! ! ! (itll be so awkward trust dude) saying im gonna kms is the norm RAH i'm not doing so hot rn DNI list: ZaDr ATI (some of you scare me) Zoophiles DNI Pedophiles DNI yk just creepos DNI ZaGr DNI DaGr (Dib-and-Gaz-romance) DNI DaGr (Dib-and-Gretchen-romance) ATI PMaZr DNI DNI DNI!!!!!! chasers DNI PRaZr ATI SodaAndSuffering(RaZr) OTI DoughnutsAndDestruction(PaZr) OTI cis+het DNI DNI!!!!! ableists DNI DNI DNI!!! Lasersmoke(RaPr) OTI! Punchbuggy(SaZr) OTI! POETRY DNI FUCK OFF SERIOUSLY Politics dni zionist dni p0rn accounts DNI (i shouldnt have to say this...) politics dni GUYS... i shouldnt have to say this but if the first thing i see on your account is your tits when i'm checking your account, i DONT wanna interact with you.. selfcest accs ATI (idk about yall)

--- ALSO if i like your stuff and you fit into this msg me!! blocking me is also fine, but i'd like a heads-up if you fit into my dni (ati and oti is fine) so i can just.. get rid of you??? idk block you or sum. yes if you msg me i will reply.(with an acc check) YES if you are one of those gaza accounts that need help i'll repost. i just don't want my fyp littered with political battles.

[g0dtier]

I'd also like to point out that claiming a label by self diagnosis means there are people encroaching on spaces that they do not belong in, if they haven't actually been diagnosed by a medical professional - be that in discussions or simply by claiming visibility, saying "I think have adhd" is NOT the same as someone who went to a doctor and got a diagnosis. Not having the resources available to do so does not mean you can skip a step. The long-term goal should be to get diagnosis and treatment.

this too, yes. going to meetups and saying “hey, i think i might have adhd, can you guys give me tips on how to deal with these symptoms or do you know a way for me to get professional help and testing?” is fine as long as long as that meetup is ok with it

but im so sick of neurotypicals coming into adhd/autism only meetups/spaces that take AGES to set up only to go “yeah i think i totally have adhd” because they got misinformation off the internet. not everyone is good at explaining symptoms and how much they affect them, so if you ask a diagnosed person what its like having adhd/autism itll probably sound like something you can identify with, because most symptoms are things other people experience as well, just not as badly. 

i want to go to these spaces and interact with people i know who get it, not someone who just thinks so and then when i explain more eloquently what troubles i have they have this bug-eyed look on their face because they got all their information off the internet and had no idea it could be this bad

yes, it is this bad. yes, im sick of having to explain it in spaces where i shouldnt have to, to person A who read stuff on the internet or interacted with an adhd/autistic person who didnt feel like writing/telling a 3000 word essay describing their symptoms and then person A goes “oh i have that too!! i must be autistic”

its so tiring