#it's sad tho

[c-ptsdrecovery]

Welp, I found a name for the kind of projection my brother was doing when he started telling people that I bullied him as a child:

DARVO is an acronym for a manipulative tactic used by perpetrators to avoid taking responsibility for harmful behavior:

Deny: The perpetrator denies that they did anything wrong, or claims that whatever happened wasn't that bad

Attack: The perpetrator attacks the credibility of their accusers, making it seem like the accusers are untrustworthy

Reverse Victim and Offender: The perpetrator tries to convince others that they are the “true” victim, and that their accuser is actually the guilty one 

DARVO is a common manipulation strategy of psychological abusers, such as those who perpetrate domestic abuse. It's used to deflect blame and responsibility, and to manipulate partners into submission. 

To counter DARVO, you can:

Recognize what is happening

Refocus the conversation to the victim or survivor and their needs 

Educating the public about DARVO can reduce its power to destroy the victim's credibility. 

[emberfriday]

damn I didn't want to make this post, but I keep getting these messages and it's make me grind my teeth....

sigh:

very gently I just wanna ask these people: what's your problem?? do you think I'll read your mails and suddenly start drawing your fav pair instead of mine? or I'm going to think "really, my fav pair's sucks, how did I not see this before??"

it won't make your ship more attractive to me. i started hating it. i started hating the character from that pair. every time i see him, i remember these messages and I'm about to throw up

I'm REALLY surprised these people still exist in 2024, it's just hilarious guuuuys pls have your own life, draw and look at pics of your fav pair all you want, but get the fuck off from me and my kaontarn stuff

what do they do to yall lmaoo is kaontarn killed your grandma or what

[juststubborn]

I really liked season 1 and 2, enough to be very hyped when s3 aired. Now, S3 left me a bit disappointed ngl- wasn't that crazy about it like for the first two but then it can happen with tv shows. S4 aired and i was HAPPY, 'cause hey! Umbrella Academy is back! These assholes are back! ...jeez what a freaking disappointment. No not even THAT. i really really despised this last season. The first episode wasn't so bad, same for the second but then... sigh.

[heartbreak-sandwich]

WE HAVE A PREVIEW. I AM WRITING. WE ARE BACK IN BUSINESS. LOOK LOOK LOOK!!!!!!! ❤️‍🔥

tw alcohol/smoking and also this is the sad beginning

[rawliverandgoronspice]

oooo fuck yes I think I finally did it, I finally tapped into the existential horror angle of descant. Kind of tying the threads together in the last chapter I'm currently writing and it really makes a lot of the themes pop, I'm super pleased it's starting to come together (i think/hope)

[camilleflyingrotten]

[heartorbit]

if we could stay connected, just like this

[punkeduppirate]

same old married couple, another adopted child

[happyheidi]

𝖠𝗇 𝗂𝗆𝗉𝗋𝗈𝗆𝗉𝗍𝗎 𝗉𝗁𝗈𝗍𝗈𝗌𝗁𝗈𝗈𝗍 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗇𝖾𝗂𝗀𝗁𝖻𝗈𝗋 𝖼𝖺𝗍

[pineapple-frenzy]

Book 2 au: sparring sessions and short hair katara

They like to have sparring sessions in order to keep their bending skills sharp. They allow themselves to go all out and not hold back at all cause they know if anyone got hurt, Katara could just heal them

But anyways, wouldn't it be kinda funny if Zuko accidentally burned Katara's hair tho? Aofkqldkkajfjd

The "I think we can save the hairloops" line is from @linnoya-writes thank you for that!! :>>

[ryllen]

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[timethehobo]

Emmy being self-conscious of his age, and maybe even about how he looks. 🥺 Rook loves him anyway.

[redn1ghtcrawler]

Have a sad anakin /suitless Vader.

a friend asked me to make a print out of this xD Never did any prints before.

[candlebel]

I can't cry... I want to cry... I feel so much sorrow...

[aeviann]

The Twilight Princess A christmas gift to @ hyrinku (instagram), who is so, so dear to me.

[hydrus101]

The Burning of the Page

……Oscar fans how we feelin