#it's rough out here

[eatgras]

ouch, zed

[ohtransarchon]

working as an autistic person

what do you want from me

[pretty-little-mind33]

the feminine dilemma not to know which character to hyper fixate on today when you're in love with so many 😭

[preciouslittle-bhaalbabe]

Having an oc is so annoying because what do you mean if I want cool stories and art about them, I have to do it myself????

[maritimoid]

Hello Luna Maximoff enjoyers, may I offer some sims in these times of drought

[growinguparo]

edit: hang on i'm remaking this post to add a correction

[allenvooreef]

Last session Mus took a big swing and dove into hot water to grab this mysterious shard he’s seen in his dreams! It was a tense skill challenge but he managed with the help of his friends. Now he has this Thing - which to his disappointment did not instantly fill him with a sense of purpose and clarity.

[ribbonsfallaway]

I fear being a Robby Keene stan, and wanting the best for him in the show are not allowed to co-exist as one.

[ddarker-dreams]

regarding my last post. i've decided it's canonical in the yan branch of golden girl that satoru asks everyone (you, him, and suguru) to place their votes on if you should be their girlfriend. the consensus permanently sits at 2-1 regardless of your lobbying.

[stardust-swan]

I'm convinced that the idea that "love is blind" is a pysop meant to brainwash women into settling for less. I always see beautiful women who clearly take care of themselves, dress well, get their lashes done, work out etc with boyfriends who look like they just rolled out of bed and put yesterday's clothes on. And I very rarely see this happening the other way around.

Men shill the idea that it's shallow for women to want someone who looks halfway decent but never hold themselves to this standard. They're so cruel to women they find unfuckable and treat women who they are attracted to but don't fit the societal beauty standard as dirty secrets (how many times have fat women talked about how men are happy to have sex with them but won't claim them in public because they think being seen with a fat woman is embarrassing?) The dadbod thing has been big for a couple of years while there has been no equivalent for mombods that gained traction (you know, the ones whose bodies actually went through physical changes due to pregnancy instead of just gaining weight from stealing their kid's snacks and watching the football instead of playing it).

It's so bad that even women shill this idea to other women. You have to ignore the fact that he never trims his beard and his daily outfit is a lint encrusted hoodie and sweatpants with a hole because if you don't you're shallow and not considering who he is on the inside too. We're told that being haggard shouldn't count as long as they have a good personality, and while I agree personality is important, a huge amount of men don't have good personalities. A lot of men are boring at best and a lot of them are just straight up assholes. Most of them aren't raking it in cash either to make up for their lack of looks and character. It's sad to see so many women doing the most for men who aren't particularly pleasant to be around, don't have money, and aren't physically appealing.

Men also shill this to eachother. I remember when I was a teenager there were huge hate trains almost entirely compromised of grown men against any pretty boy singer who got popular (Justin Bieber had it especially bad). They never did anything wrong (Justin Bieber's hate train was at its worst years before he started acting like a douche), men just hated them because they looked nice and girls liked them. They also act like any guy in real life who's comfortable with being attractive instead of purposefully making themselves unattractive to fit in with the other ugly men is gay and act bitterly when the men who actually make an effort get more female attention than a man who last showered three days ago. They act like women are catty bitches who hate prettier women when their egos are so fragile around men who look decent. There was even a recent study that suggested good looking men are at a disadvantage when applying for certain jobs, because their male colleagues feel threatened by them.

It wasn't always like this either. Not all that long ago it was expected that a man dress up nicely, wear cologne, style his hair etc when he was trying to court a woman.

When my mother was my age, she could just walk into a cinema and at any given time there would be films with leading men who looked like Leo, Depp, Brad Pitt, James Spader, River Phoenix, Will Smith, Denzel Washington, Brendan Fraser, etc. And now those World's Sexiest Men lists are filled with average or below average men and we're told that we're meant to cream our panties over guys who look indistinguishable or even worse than your average guy on the street. Right after this era my mum was young in was when the media started pushing this idea that we have to settle for unattractive men or else we're immature and shallow. There were a ton of movies with men like Adam Sandler pulling gorgeous 20 year old women just because they were funny. That stupid genre of movie where an awkward nerd pines over the cheerleader who is pining over a jock who's always portrayed as a bully that the cheerleader is framed as misguided or a bitch for wanting a handsome boyfriend instead of picking the nerd (even though the dork main character we're meant to root for also only likes the cheerleader for her looks and is just as much of an asshole as the jock) in became really popular around the same time.

Unsure of whether this is because of men complaining about beauty standards or other feminist concepts they only half understand (while female beauty standards never budge and have always and remain a much higher bar to reach than male beauty standards), or if men are just forcing this idea that looking like shit is cancelled out by telling a few dad jokes so that women will feel pressured into dating them no matter how busted they look just to not be alone.

[odyscircus]

i love epic as much as the next person but i'm afraid jay has caused irreversible damage to various fandoms cuz wdym i just saw an edit of chidi and eleanor to would you fall in love me with me again and it was so beautiful i sobbed my heart out and shit like that just keeps happening on a daily basis??? how am i supposed to survive?????

[grenadehearts]

i see everyone doing like multiple self ships and i rly wish i could do that but unfortunately i literally only want kirishima.

[trash-and-only-mha-trash]

pour one out for all the hawks fans (ME) that don't ship him with the flame dude

[sweetnnaivete]

i actually lowkey love having guy friends it makes my inner rich private school boy come out

[skywerse]

I think the council should consider hiring you as an artist. Your animations and full pieces are so beautiful... Your art is so fucking amazing and I can't stop checking your page every other day to see what's new,

Keep up the good work ❤️👏

brother,,,, with the sheer amount of fnc agenda i am actively spreading, I'd be considered a brand risk to have on the team /j

(but if they ever reach out to me then HELL YEAH I'd gladly take the opportunity)

[ga-y-ngsey]

When you're writing and you know exactly what is supposed to happen but you just can't bring yourself to actually write it down.